some ppl says that i'm a care-less person....bkn careless erk...care-less maksudnya aku kurang care....huhu....it's not that i care-less...it's just if da thing doesn't effect my life, so i couldn't care much.....
mcm one of ma senior colleague nie, KS, she said i'm a care-less and a care-free person....for me, work is work...if think much of it, it will haunt u down...some of my colleague nie, they hv a lady-boss yg sgt pelik KH.....and they always complain2 and whining almost every single time....and when ppl complain and whining infront of me, it does effect my mood...and unconsciously slowly, u'll hv da negative feelings toward the person who's complaining and whining as well as da person who they complain and whine about......
they use to complain and whine to me this KS and KA...then i said, kalo xsuka and xle nak accept, bitau le...jgn bile when ur boss ask u to do something, u accept it wif ur full heart, but then when she's gone, u start to complain and whine and saying that she's inconsiderate and unthoughtful.....halo, kalo ko xsuka, ckp jele terus...jgn complain....skang bos tuh hidup hepi jerk knowing dat her staff willingly doing da task given....and u, miserably doing it wif lotsa complain and tak puas hati.....
working nie is an Ibadah....dpt pahala...but when u keep on complaining bout everything dat u do, benda dah jadik tak ikhlas...bile tak ikhlas xdpt la pahala......then ade akak nie, KA, she always complain that other staffs which was way younger than her and way junior then her slalu dok buli dia....then i said, ckp le kat bebdk tuh ape yg akak tak puas hati....no one can read other ppl's mind....and some ppl can't understand ur body language or sense that u're not satisfied....org mcm tuh they are not sensitive.....bile ko dok complain and membebel, ko pikir org yg ko complain tuh tau ker??? ntah2 dia dok berhepi-hepi jerk....
for instant today.....she want to mantain her ego....dun wanna call da other staff tuh EL....he just came back form Kuantan today and he's going to Alor setar tonite and only be back on sunday nite....then he has to go for a training in Port Klang on Monday morning....he said he can come to da office in Bandar Utama before he goes to Port Klang just to collect notes for Monday's training...padahal he lives in Putrajaya.....then this akak said, biar le...dia kt dia bole buat.....dolu dia penah buat kat akak cam tuh, bwk semua brg sorang2, so this time akak nak dia rasa plak....padahal akak nie dtg opis hari nie....and she just live behind our office...then i keep on saying, xkan le dia nak dtg cni dolu dr putrajaya then head to port klang plak...tp this guy, dia jenis wut ever u asked him to do, he'll say yes...though he can't but he'll say yes and he never complain.....mungkin sbb dia ustaz and hati dia cam baek ckit...by hook or by crook he'll make it done.....i really respect him....his wife plak was my classmate in MMU.....then this akak keep on mentioning biar le...akak nak kenakan dia plak...and as i mentioned, org kalo dok complain dpn aku, it'll effect my mood gak...then aku pun sound....."sekati akak le...janji jgn kelam kabut plak nnt hari isnin....bile dah kelam kabut tuh plak nnt, jgn nak dok merungut and complain plak nnt.....jgn sampai malukan company kita plak...." for me u work as a team...kalo ape yg org tuh buat tak effect kita nnt, xpe....tp nnt dia effect gak akak tuh, then akak tuh tak puas hati, then dia dok complain plak...ape le salahnya ko buat...umah ko pun dkt kan??? tak ke ko dpt pahala kalo ko buat???
so in da end, KA nie call gak EL and she said she'll help him to bring da stuff on Monday morning...can senang...just a simple call u can setel everything....just remember le, when u do gud things, gud things will happen to you......and one more thing, dun complain and whining all da time...if da world and ppl around u doesn't favor u, just adapt and blend in le....jgn le nak insist gak world and ppl to favor u.....u can't get everything in da world....wut ever it is, u have a choice.....






5 comments:
Yup i agree....kalau tak puas hati juz bgtau tp dah jadi nature org melayu raasenye. they dont like confrontation and diorang nk ckp belakang je. Sumtimes diroang bukan nk setelkan hal tu just to find a way to release their tension. Tp kalau tak setel sampai bile2 pon akan tension. So ikut individu jgk la nk setelkan mcm mane. Or put a nice face tp mengata kat belakang. Most ppl pon insensitive and tak prihatin dat they are making org lain tension/miserable/menyampah/meluat.
ade gak org nak baca post nie...huhu...
aku tension betul le org yg membebel-bebel and complain jerk nie...tp xreti nak confront...doesn't mean dat confronting tuh it has to be mcm gado ke...u can use a discussion approach kan??
after all she's or boss...bnyk lagik arahan ko nak receive dr dia..then dia plak yg evaluate and review KPI ko...
ade jek bace..hahaha..tapi aku tak reti nak comment per.. :D
ni orang kata politik office..haha..aku ni kan suri rumah.. :p
hahaha...betul2...office politic nie ade bnyk jenis plak tuh...
ko pun ade housewife politik...ko diktator...yg tertindas alif...hahaha....
hhaahahaha..ko silap peah...akulah yang tertindas sebenarnya...
kena buli jek..kena cucikan berak..kena tukarkan diaper..kena bagi makan..kena suap makan..kemas pas dah sepah2 pas makan..pastu kang..sepah2 umah lagi..pening aku..hahaah...
tapi kalau dah tensen tu la time aku menindas plak..haahaha..
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