MC, Check-up, Cucuk and Shopping!!!

i love having people coming over to our crib...especially if they stay for the nite....so on Tuesday, Abang, K Linda and Delinot come to our house....yeay...they are here to visit mak's bestfren who passed awaya & happened to be her daughter is a gud fren of K Linda.....Monday nite they spent da nite at Anjang's...so today is ma house since they didn't even come during their visit to KL for Raya hari tuh....

so on Wednesday was my check up....it's my 4th visit....semua org pegi...abang, k linda and delinot skalik ikut...huhu...cam rombongan satu family ke check up....i'm in my 28th week already...so far the weight gained was 7.5kg during my pregnancy....within 1 month aku naik 5 kg...doc cam terkejut...huhu then i said, "biasalah doctor...musim2 raya nie...mkn bnyk"...this is my weight gain during my pregnancy:

4th month = + 2.5kg
5th month = + 1 kg
6th month = - 0.5 kg
7th month = + 5 kg.....

then i was scheduled for cucuk kancing gigi during this visit....aler, aku bab cucuk2 nie mmg lemah....dolu masa 6 thn penah cucuk...bebdk kalo demam kan mmg kene cucuk kat punggung....so, masa kene cucuk tuh, bole plak jarum tuh patah....huhu....nasib baik patah luar...tak patah dalam....slalu kalo gi cucuk2, mak mesti ade....huhu...this time, masa nak cucuk tuh, doc cam tau jerk aku nie takut...so masa dicucuk tuh ade le bunyik rengekan sedikit....hahaha....and it was damn painful...masa cucuk sakit, pas cucuk pun sakit lg...sampai nak tido sakit lg...even today pun sakit and ade rasa bengkak....masa check up dlm blk, delinot ikut masuk sbb nak tgk baby makshu...tgh scan tuh tetibe baby terjaga...nampak le mata dia berkelip-kelip...huhu...he was so cute....and his position Alhamdulillah tak songsang.....selama nie mmg dia le yg dok tendang tulang rusuk belah kanan aku nie....and dia dok tanduk2 pundi kencing aku.....huhu......

pas chck-up bawak k linda gi mkn nasi arab...makcik tuh sebok nak mkn nasi arab sampai buat status kat FB...so ade restoran arab kat Kota Damansara nie...nama dia Shalal.....tgh dok tggu mknan siap, bole plak letrik kene potong...damn....staff dia ckp derang baru pindah restoran tuh, so renter berfore this tak baya letrik...derang kene potong....kitowang pun mkn le dlm suasana romantik tanpa aircond...nasib baek tak panas sgt sbb hari pun nak hujan....

then we went on a separate ways...da guys, mr hubby and abang went to Klang to change their tayar... while da ladies, me, K Linda and delinot went to Fabulous Mom TTDI.....4 kali pusing baru dpt parking...damn!!....since both of us anak yatim piatu, so we help each other....K linda dolu pun masa confinement, mak yg jaga....so i asked for her advice tuk beli brg2 baby nie....xtau nak tanya sape lg kan....nak beli breast pump....it was between spectra and Medela mini breast pump...

Medela : The price is RM568
- 1 unit of Medela Mini Electric Breastpump
-Medela City Style Breastpump Cooler Bag
- 4 PP BPA Free bottles
-1 contoured shape ice chiller,
-1 mini cooler
-1 sling bag to store your breastpump and the mini cooler
-1 tube of Purelan nursing cream 7g
-2 pieces loose of Medela bottles (without nipple and nipple cover)
Spectra : RM588
-1 unit of Spectra 3 breastpump
-1 complete set of double pumping kit (breastshield set)
-1 backpack to room your cooler bag and breastpump
-1 cooler bag
-3 icepacks
-6 BPA free PP bottles and 1 heat resistant cover
-1 piece of Fabulous Mom Kelly lightly padded nursing bra
-Free Fabulous Mom Washable Bra Pads (6 pieces)

so end up aku beli Medela...coz Spectra tuh, dia punyer machine is too big...Medela nie it can use electric and also can use battery and i is so small....can fit in ur handbag.....and i got da carrier bag yg cantek cam handbag....huhu....da package was only available online and at Puchong outlet...aku ingat semua promotion available at outlet...rupenyer tak...so they hv to order it from puchong and have it deliver to TTDI.....so once the package is here, they'll call me to pick up.....

then da sales girl tuh tanya aku, "akak pakai breast pump jenis ape?"....
i was like..."huh??? ade bape bnyk breast pump nie??"....
then she said, ade normal and ape ntah lg satu tuh.... "so akak kene tau samada Medela nie sesuai tak utk akak"....
i was like double huh??!!...."macam mana sy nak tau breast pump nie sesuai tuk saya ke tak?"
she went "sbb ade breastpump yg tak perah pun susu akak, so akak kene try dulu...takut nnt salah"

and yesterday was my 1st time trying da breast pump....at 1st macam tak jadik pape pun...i dun feel anything...just da nipple jerk yg bergerak2...hahahaha.....so aku pun kuar panggil k linda...nasib baek butik pompuan...sekati jerk aku berjalan pakai bra jerk...hahaha.....so bidan Linda pun masuk ajar aku camne nak pakai....and assistant bidan kecik tuh pun masuk...dan dia terkesima melihat breast maksu dia...huhu.....and K linda terkejut tgk breast aku yg bengkak tuh...and areola aku yg agak besar....now i noe why it's become bigger.....K Linda ckp InsyaAllah susu bnyk kalo camtuh... yela...all this while aku and mr hubby cam risau sbb ape dia cam makin membesar....mr hubby dok compare dgn buku....dia ckp gamba dlm buku tak besar pun....nape u punyer jadik besa...siap soh aku tanya doctor.....and now we know....

then other stuff that i bought were:

Nursing pillow
Retail price RM76.90...
PWP Price RM53.80 (for me it's a gud bargain)

Milk Collection Shell (benda nie bole tadah susu, then bole masuk dlm botol)
Retail price RM69.00
PWP price RM59.90

Nursing Bra Lycra yg sgt besh dan selesa....(padahal nie jerk yg ade size aku...)
Retail Price RM29.90
Dapat RM10 coupon and i pay RM19.90

then masa balik, singgah le taska kat tgkt G blok aku....nak tanya pasal nursery....they only take kids between 2 months to 2 years jerk....mmg perfect la...and they just take 10 kids at one time...one baby sitter jaga 5 bdk jerk...skang dah penuh....tp dia ckp xtau le bln 2 thn dpn....akak kene dtg balik tanya...then aku tanya kalo nak book bole??? memula dia cam hesitate....xnak bagi aku book...insist aku dtg balik kendian thn dpn...then aku pujuk2 and dia bg form and kene baya deposit RM50....harga dia RM280 from 7:00 am till 6:30pm....OT RM5/hour....for me it quite reasonable la...sbb tokey dia mmg tggl kat ctu...then staff dia pun melayu...they're registered with JKM....and da kids was so nice....diam jerk....xde yg buas, xde yg nakal....duduk jerk...tgk jerk kitowang....huhu....so cute....k linda soh aku balik discuss wif feezie.....for me aku cam ok jerk...sbb it's in da same blog wif my hauz.....

I just got da mood.....

hurm....i'm almost 28 weeks = 7 months preggy.......

mak advised us before not to buy baby stuff til u're 7 months preggy.....coz InsyaAllah once u're in ur 7th months, da baby is confirm as in da possibility for miscarriage is gone, but who knows it's Allah wills....and if anything happened to me, da baby can live coz they have learn to breath on their own.....nasihat org tua nie, seeloknya ikut le...huhuhu...coz ur mother knows better and they always have da answer for any questions.

and talking bout mood, now only i have da mood and interest to buy baby stuff....huhuhu...cam lambat kan?? tp sblm nie mmg tak minat langsung....tak pandang pun baby stuff....dunno why... agaknya my sub-conscious mind is obeying wut mak said....sblm nie cam sebok nak beli preggy cloth jerk.....tp skang cam dah ade mood....yeay!!!

last friday went to tesco and we bought 4 sets of booties and mitten at RM2.50 each and RM3.50....3 baby bengkong....and 2 jumper for nite wear at RM7.90....hr tuh dah beli babysuit dgn jajamban....beli sampai 5 kat momprecious at da price of RM6 per piece....then 1 jumper...harga dia mmg murah tak hengat.....and mr hubby said, lenkali kita beli barang baby kat tesco jele....huhu....mr hubby being himself as a cheapskate......

tp betul...dun buy expensive cloths for ur baby...coz they just gonna wear it for a few months jerk...but other stuff, bole le nak spend mahal ckit eg: baby's cot, breast pump, stroller and stuffs that u can use for ur next baby.....baju nie, nnt ramai org bg....and jgn le beli baju 0-3 months....sgt membazir...beli le 3-6 months or kalo cam aku mommy yg kedekut nie, beli y 6-12 months....hahaha....nnt anak aku rupe dia cam pakai baju pinjam....kedekut giler....

Calvin Klein jumpsuit at da price of RM6 each at MomPrecious.....

perut cam belon....huhu....

Selamat Hari Rayo.....!!!!!!

To all readers,

kadang lidah tersalah bicara, telinga salah mendengar, mata salah memandang, hati salah menafsir, tangan salah menyentuh dan kaki salah melangkah....dikesempatan ini ingin memohon ampun dan maaf dan mohon halalkan termakan, terminum dan terambik...moga bertemu lagi di Raya 2011....

this raya was a raya that me and hubby looking forwarded to dr zaman becinta lg.....coz we got to spend raya together....before marriage, i said to hubby....every raya, we will celebrate it in ipoh since mak is alone and i'm da only daughter that she has....so kesian mak nnt nak masak and kemas umah semua sorang....

tp Allah maha mengetahui....hubby doesn't even got da chance to celebrate how tremendous and exciting it will be to celebrate raya wif my family......and my excuses to celebrate raya in Ipoh now, become his excuse....

Allah mmg maha adil.....I got to celebrate raya wif hubby and baby in my womb but couldn't celebrate it wif my mak and my father-in-law.....

never ever occured in my mind to celebrate raya without mak.....thn lepas dah terdetik nak blaja buat rendang ayam and kuah kacang ngan mak...tp cam nak hold dolu le...maybe next raya baru nak blaja....but who knows, it was my last raya wif her....

mak, semoga mak tenang disamping Allah dan sambut raya dgn da men that u love da most, bapak......

enjoy da raya clip wif pic of us and mak....this is mak fav raya song...she said, when she listened to this song, she think of bapak....and now, when i listen to this song, i will think of mak......
mak, raya will definitely will never be da same with out you.....

Weekend Nuzul Quran & Merdeka lepas...

it supposed to be a long weekend...wif Nuzul Quran public holiday on Friday and Merdeka on Tuesday...as usual, i took da Monday leave...but mr hubby is working in KL and Nuzul Quran is not KL's public holiday....

so on Friday after hubby's work, we went to Seremban as my boss is organizing and iftar...then we went back to my MIL hauz...on Saturday afternoon we headed to Ipoh...da trip that i was looking forward too....since mak passed away, this is da 1st time i went back to Ipoh....the plan was to breaking fast wif my brothers and SILs, wif pah (bapak's mom) and wif opah (mak's mom)..... wah...banyaknye plan....of course, coz this Raya i'll be celebrating it in Seremban...so i have to meet ma pah and opah before raya...

so on saturday i planned to buka pose wif Opah in Bota....45 mins drive from Ipoh....tp tetibe bancik teremosi plak sbb dia dah penat2 masak and dia dah ajak abang buka pose sama that very same day....and he said mlm tuh nak bincang bout mak's insurance and debts....so cancel..bebuka kat mak's hauz wif bros and SILs and nieces...

every year during Ramadhan withou fail, mak will always made nasi ulam...nasi ulam is pah (bapak's mak) fav dish...it was made from almost 41 ulams yg dipotong halus2, wif ikan kering, udang kering gaul dgn nasi puteh...da taste is superb....so this year, me and K linda want to continue da tradition....i dun even remember how to do it....slalu mak yg prepare....aku just sebok2 jerk...huhu....skang bile nak buat dah xtau....so sunday morning dah pegi pasar...morning tak morning sgt le sbb kol 11 baru bgn...hahaha....biasalah kalo balik ipoh....tido katil spring mahal dlm air-cond...mmg bgn lmbt le...

giler ramai pegi pasar, me and hubby wif bancik and afrina...pegi pasar besar ipoh....kat pasar terjumpe plak dgn abg, k linda and delinot.....hahaha...mcm family outing to pasar besar jerk.....so chck wif each group dah dpt ke brg2...it's so impossible to collect all 41 ulams....mn yg ade je sudah....then headed back to umah...dat afternoon baru pegi umah pah...me, hubby, bancik, k sal and their girls sampai dolu....k linda as usual 10x mentioned da venue she'll still confuse...she tot nak buat kat umah mak...haiyo ini cekgu linda kan...manyak kompius la...patut la da students pun always kompius....sampai semua dok melepek jerk lagik....duduk2 sembang2 baca paper....jam dah nak kol 5 dah nie...bile plak nak setat buat nie....

since no one seems to care, aku pun pegi le dapur tuk membasuh ulam-ulam tuh.....then pah pun dtg...followed by wan....pah start wif ikat all da daun ulam....then she asked me to sliced da ginger finely...sbb nak buat nasi ulam nie, semua kene potong halus-halus....cara nak buat dia mmg remeh dan memerlukan kehalusan and concentration....kalo nak buat sambil lewa mmg xkan la....memandangkan aku nie mak buyong, xle nak diri lelama, so aku angkut semua bahan-bahan nak dipotong ke dining table....nak keje sambil duduk le....

and guess wut, K sal mmg xkan le nak offer buat pape....minah nie mmg le pemalas tahap dewa...hahaha....dia bole plak dok pangku Arissa (new born daughter around 2 months old)...padahal budak tuh tgh sebok dok tido...dia saje dok pangku anak dia kekonon anak dia meragam sambil dia dok baca paper.....then k linda sampai, of course she'll assist us...dia tolong tumbuk udang kering....pastuh agaknya k sal cam dah panas punggung, dia pegi le dapur offer tuk potong tembikai....she said "biar saya potong tembikai...nnt simpan dlm fridge ye wan".....dia pegi bukak fridge, pastuh dia tgk cam xde space...so she decide not to cut da watermelon....dia sambung balik dok baca paper....

then dr dapur, i dengar wan panggil dia...huhu...agaknya wan pun dah berbulu tgk dia dok melepak kan....wan soh dia bakar ikan masin sbb wan nak masak nasi....lepas je dia bakar, dia sambung balik duduk...padahal pah, wan and k linda semua sebuk kat dapur...aku tak abes2 lagi menghiris ingredients....abang pun siap tolong potong ulam-ulam tuh.....dia nie mmg muka tebal betul la...huhuhu....ade kan org camtuh....

then when everything is ready....xde sape pun nak gaul...biar jerk...at around 7:00pm, baru le we request pah tuk gaul da nasi wif da ulam, udang kering, ikan kering, black papper, sengkuang, halia.....we said, "nak air tgn pah gak. baru sedap ckit"....huhu....sian org tua tuh kene menggaul....and hasilnya, nasi ulam yg sgt sedap sampai bancik tambah 6x...and hubby yg slalu mkn ckit pun tambah 3x.....huhu.....

on Monday tuh, we went to Opah hauz...nak bebuka kat umah opah mmg tak sempat le kot sbb that nite nak balik kl dah.....so we went there in da afternoon.....ade opah and acik ley (mak youngest brother)...then tetibe pak uda (mak younger brother) yang tak penah-penah join or lepak and chat wif me tetibe bole dtg lepak skalik....surprise...surprise....hahaha....pukul 2 opah nak gi sepital...opah ade kencing manis, and last week her foot thumb luka sampai belubang...acik ley kata sampai nampak tulang..exagerator btul la...huhu....she has to go to spital everyday tuk cuci luka...so since i'm here, me and hubby took opah to klinik kesihatan bota kiri....we accompany her into bilik cuci luka..then i accompany her to see MA....i can see that she was so overwhelming wif that...coz when mak passed away, she insist make to be buried in Bota, near her house coz she's afraid that we won't come and visit her anymore....opah, u're still my grandmother eventho mak is not around....bancik told me before that he can see that opah is so sad and devastated coz her beloved daughter passed away....and when i sees her, she does look so devastated and sad....kesian opah...anak perempuan kesayangan meninggal then anak lelaki lari then balik curik barang kemas dia...anak bongsu dia plak dah jadi janda....

and as usual since i've started working, i never fail to give her duit raya.....even masa dtg pun i brought her milo, teh, biskut and buah.....she's my mother's mother...i'll love her as much as mak love her and as much as i love my mak....opah, dun u ever think that we won't come and visit or love you when mak passed away...we won't have mak if we dun have you.....i will always love u opah..... and opah non stop saying thank you to me and hubby for taking her to klinik kesihatan....then i said, "xde pape la opah. kan tanggungjawap kami. opah kan opah kami"...before we leave, i salam and kissed her cheeks and forehead and give her a big hug...this time, she did not hesitate or reluctant..sbb opah was not a passionate person, she had a very thought life that's why....

then malam tuh bukak pose mkn McD...sbb semua dah dok sebut nak mkn McD.....bebuka kat umah abang then head staright back to KL.....

besh giler org xde pun...bukan cam kat klinik kesihatan KJ....

that's opah...tgh tunggu nak cuci luka....nasib baek da nurse was so baek....credit to nurse in Bota Kanan

that's how da luka looks like...nie hubby amik gamba...aku nak tgk pun takle weh...rasa cam nak pitam...huhu....