bb ameer 1st operation.....

bb ameer punyer tali pusat gugur on his 10th day...and it's not really fully gugur...sbb bile tali pusat dia gugur, ade satu benda tejojol kuar dr pusat dia....mama (MIL) being a nurse said it's a salur darah....memula tekeluar ckit jerk....mama kata akan gugur eventually....tp, bile bb ameer nangis jerk, benda tuh makin kuar...and it's scary...mommy mmg xle tgk le...kalo terkeluar jerk, aku panggil mama...mama kata sapu minyak gamat jerk....so aku ikut jele....

bile dah balik kl nie, aku sapu gak le minyak gamat...mama kata nnt masa nak gi cucuk 2 bln, tanya le kat doc...tp masa aku demam gi klinik 21/2/2011, aku tunjuk le kat doc tuh...sbb kat klinik tuh dia bole cek budak and pregnant mother...so dia bg spirit tuk cucu and cream tuk sapu...dia ckp tak sakit...and akan gugur gak...pas jumpe doc tuh, aku sapu mende2 yg dia bagi tuh, daripada kuar darah kering kaler cekelat, terus kuar darah yg kaler merah....lagik le aku takut...and aku rasa dia sakit sbb bile aku nak masukkan balik salurdarah tuh, mesti dia nanges...aku tak bawak dia gi paed lg sbb aku blum register dia dlm insurance company aku lg...sbb mama penah kate maybe kene buat minor operation...so aku takut mahal le...so tuh yg nak tggu insurance...

so aku sms HR opis aku, bg details soh dia update info ameer...dia ckp dia dah email kat medijaring, aku call medijaring dia kt xdpt lg info...tp aku cam tak puas ati, aku gi gak damansara specialist....doc on duty sorang jerk...Dato' Dr Azizi...aku pikir ade dato' nie mesti kang charge mahal....pehtuh aku tgk dia paed jerk...aku tgk list name doc lain then ade sowang doc tuh paed cum surgeon....Dr Abd Rahman....so kompom bole buat procedure nie...ingat cam nak bawak tunjuk then br set appointment tuk buat minor operation tuh....front desk tuh call klinik dr tuh, then dia ckp "Puan pegi skang le..doc tgh tunggu.." aku tunggu pz park keta then terus gi klinik dia...mmg betul2 dia tgh tggu...siap bukak kan pintu and terus masuk blk...xsempat nak daftar pun...

dia soh bukak baju, bb ameer erk...bukan aku...dia tgk pehtuh dia soh baringkan bb ameer....dia ckp kita akan remove benda tuh..aku "huh...wtf?" tp wtf tuh aku ckp dlm hati jele....aku tanya sakit tak doc...dia jawap "tak...tak sakit...dia tak rasa pape pun"....pehtuh dia amek satu besi panas...aku dah ngeri dah....doc soh aku pegang tangan bb ameer, nurse pegang kaki....aku soh pz...giler ke nak soh aku tgk....pz peganga jerk tgn bb ameer, aku diri blkg doc...blum setat procedure lg aku dah nanges....pehtuh bile aku dengar bb ameer nanges, lagik laju air mata aku...dah teresak-esak plak aku nanges....kejap jerk...tak sampai 5 minit pun...dah siap...terus aku pujuk and bg BF....pas jerk procedure, doc terus blah...dia ckp "saya pegi dulu ye..ade hal"...mmg rezeki bb ameer le sempat jumpe doc tuh...

aku tanya pz camne procedure tuh....dia ckp, doc tarik salur darah tuh gune pengepit...pastuh nampak ade salur kecik jerk cam urat...then pakai besi panas tuh, dia potong salur kecik tuh...doc kt salur kecik tuh akan mati...pastuh pusat bb ameer terus masuk...dah tak terkeluar dah..doc bg cream antibiotik tuk luka dia tuh...total semua skalik ngan cream and consultation RM163.50 jerk....

dia jadik cam diagram kat atas nie le...

lebih kurang camnie le rupe dia...tp bb ameer punyer kecik le....

nie info pasal pusat tuh here and here

Baby Ameer's development....

i just realize, i'm a bit selfish...keep babbling bout myself...xde pun update on Ameer...so i wanna update bout him so i can review it in da future...

Day 3 - 31/12/2010
false alarm - nurse soh bb ameer dok bawah fototerapi...

sedih woo time nie....

Day 6 - 3/1/2011
1st time ameer being brought home....

Day 12 - 9/1/2011
bb ameer's 1st EBM using bottle...due to mommy's having fever coz bengkak susu....naseb baek mmg dah beli puting awal2 and bawak balik semban...

Day 16 - 13/1/2011
masa mommy tuka nappy bb ameer, mommy toleh jerk, skalik bb ameer bole cirit direct kena pipi kiri mommy, baju and kain...giler laju cirit dia...

Day 25 - 22/1/2011
masa tukar nappy, ameer terkencing and kene muka dia sendirik...huhuhu....mmg klaka giler...dia bole plak tersenyum pas kene kencing sendirik tuh...

Day 34 - 31/1/2011
brought bb ameer for his 1 month injection at klinik Desa Sikamat....more info please read here...

Day 36 - 2/2/2011
bb ameer had a fever maybe from the 1 month injection...

Day 38 - 4/2/2011
bb ameer dah pandai buat muka sedih...dia dah pandai mencebik and mencemekkan muka....pehtuh menangis....huhu...it's soo cute....tp kesian le...mmg kalo tgk ko rs sedih and tak sampai hati.....mesti cam nak angkat dia....

Day 39 - 5/2/2011
bb ameer 1st outing to shopping complex which is OU....sbb nak beli bb kangaroo carrier...

Day 40 - 6/2/2011
bb ameer went to IKEA and for the very 1st time, there's really a tears coming out from his eyes...and my heart really broken at that time seeing him crying....gile sedih and nak luluh hati aku.....and lesson learned was, xnak gi jenjalan lelama dah...or next time i'll bring EBM along....

Day 41 - 7/2/2011
he discovered his hand....nekma put him on sofa in sitting position and he just discovered his left hand....he observe it for almost a minute....

observing his hand

"mommy it's my hand"

Day 43 - 9/2/2011
he discovered his feet this time...i put him on a sitting position on a rocking chair...he stare at his feet and he move it and gazing at the feet movement....my lil bb is very clever...huhu....


Day 45 - 11/2/2011
he nodded his head when i'm talking to him while i'm nodding...his mimicking wut i'm doing...he now know how to control his head...

Day46 - 12/2/2011
1st day bb ameer alone wif mommy...and mommy went haywire coz it's mommy's 1st time bathing bb ameer....huhu....kene masak lunch sendirik lg, basuh kain lagik...and it caused mommy's wound to bleed and cracked open...

Day 47 - 13/2/2011
bb ameer 1st outing wif mommy & daddy and mommy & daddy became so kelam kabut when u pooped while we're having lunch at KFC Restoran jejantas sungai buloh....we were eating cheezy wedges at that time and ur pooped looked exactly like the cheese and bocor sampai kene jeans mommy....

Day 42...another 2 days to go baybeh....

simple update on my confinement....

Day 34, 35 & 36
finally i got my post-pregnancy massage...rasa biasa jerk...xde le cam setengah org ckp badan jadik ringan le...badan jadik lega le....it's soothing while massaging, but after that basically it's just da same...lg sengal badan ade le...coz i never undergo any massage.....nek andak yg massage.... she's a relative to my in-laws...da charges was RM150 for 3 days....

Day 34
Took hemsem bb ameer to 1 month injection....

Day 38
Pegi Dinner kat rumah Pak Long...Pak Uda belanja BBQ sempena memperkenalkan menantu baru....and as mentioned by pz, if it's related to entertainment, his whole family (cousins) will participate and there will be karaoke....family artist wannabe...bb ameer tido kat dlm, da speaker exactly beside him tp kat luar umah and it was so loud....and to my surprise, bb ameer sleep so soundly....nyenyak giler....almaklumler time preggy mummy and daddy dia rajin karok....hasilnya, dapat anak immune dgn bunyik lagu yg agak kuat....and mmg nak ajar bb ameer supaya bole tido dlm ape keadaan skalik pun....terang, bising or panas.....and they karok until 2:00am....huhuhu....family aku, jiran berkarok kat dlm umah pun kitowang dah komplen....nie karok sampai tgh malam...haih...dah jadik family aku pun.....

Day 39
Mama ajak gi wedding kat KL...wedding tuh pakcik K Linda (pz's SIL) punyer....at first, aku nak ajak pz balik kl for gud this weekend....sbb next weekend dah nak balik ipoh...aku nak balik ipoh next week sbb tuesday kan cuti Mualidul Rasul....tp mama tak bg...dia concerned dgn menantu kesayangan dia ni (i lah tuh)....dia kt nnt kalo aku sakit pening time dlm pantang nie camne??? tetibe dah ade anak br nak sayang kan??? dolu bkn ko ke xbg anak ko kawen ngan aku....???yg klakanyer, dah tau nak gi wedding, bitau lmbt..and pizal pun bgn lambat....aku ngan pz xnak gi...tp mama soh gi gak...so aku yg dlm pantang ni pun kene gi wedding yg bkn sedara dekat pun...just imagine sampai wedding tuh at 4:00pm...usually in KL, 4:00 pm tuh still meriah lagik wedding...tp yg nie, kawen kat dewan masjid and makanan semua pun dah abes bungkus....so, bawak le makanan yg dah dibungkus tuh gi umah K Linda and mkn kat sana....tahan le ibu mengandung 9 bln and BF mother nie menahan lapa sbb xlunch...after that, Farah (my SIL) nak ajak gi Ikea...tp cam dah agak lewat...aku ajak gi OU jerk...sbb nak beli baby carrier....and to my surprise, pizal (pz's elder bro) and K Linda nak ikut tido umah kitowang...motif?? sesaje....okle, aku xkesah pun...aku suka jerk org dtg tido umah aku...sampai OU gi usya kat Mother Care, option yg ade RM300++ and da cheapest was RM165....tp cam nak beli gak urgent sbb semua dah xlarat nak dukung bb ameer...stroller kat umah....then pegi Jusco....jumpe Sweet Cherry which cost RM19.00 only but i doesn't look comfy at all....then ade lg satu it's RM99...terus grab and pakai....then beli bb gym Simple Dimple @ RM60++....then beli warmer yg bole bawak travel...original price RM99 but got discount 20%.....and finally aku beli head cover yg masculine ckit tuk bb ameer...en mickey....

then balik umah, masa kat umah k linda pz soh pizal bawak cable HD tv...aku cam pelik le sbb TV umah tuh kan TV lama gile..,HD blum wujud lg time tuh....aku sampai jerk umah, tgk atas meja TV ade satu benda besar yg berselubung ngan selimut....aku pandang pz, dia bebuat tak nampak and xtau....rupenyer laki aku dah beli TV plasma 42" cap LG.....siot jerk...xbitau aku....senyap2 jerk....dia ckp kat aku dia nak balik KL tgk keadaan umah, dia ckp kat mama plak nak kemas umah...padahal umah tak berkemas tp tetibe ade tv plasma.....

simple dimple baby gym....

Day 40
pegi Ikea...pegi agak lewat gak le sbb semua cam melengah2....aku pun bgn lmbt sbb tido lmbt...aku ade 2 jerk baju BF and dedua kotor...so kekonon nak pakai kemeja le....and sgt le stress sbb kemeja xleh nak button kat breast and bontot....SHIT!!!....tp, hati aku terhibur semula sbb jeans aku muat...yeehaa.....huhuhuh.....and lesson learned today is, aku xnak kuar umah jenjalan lg....sbb sgt susah sbb ko nak kene kelam kabut carik port tuk BF....pasnie aku gi jenjln nak pam sesiap and bg EBM jerk.....and ape yg buat aku lg xnak jalan sbb kesian kat bb ameer...bb ameer nie kalo nak BF dia punyer nangis cam baru pas kene lempang....kuat tak ingat....and smlm 1st time aku tgk dia nangis sgt teruk sampai kuar air mata...and air mata aku sendiri pun nak kuar......sedih giler ok tgk anak ko menangis meraung sampai macam tuh....kitowang bawak stroller tp bb ameer cam xselesa dok dlm tuh...maybe sbb dia sgt kecik lg....naseb baek ade ramai org...kalo aku ngan pz jerk, mmg xnak le gi jenjln....

then semua macam terlampau penat sbb dkt 5 jam kot kat Ikea...so xjadik balik semban mlm tuh.....esoknye mama mmg cuti...farah xkeje...so baby yg kene ponteng sekolah...huhu....

Ameer's 1 month injection.....

Ameer turns 1 month last saturday on 29th January 2011....as usual, bb has to take their 1 month injection...since his 1 month besday falls on saturday, so we took him for the injection on Monday 31st Jan 2011.....

feezie took a day of on Monday and we went to Klinik Desa Sikamat....it was raining da whole day on da day before and it continue until that day...luckily tak ramai pun org at the klinik....

and i didn't noe yg bb tuh akan ditimbang kat open area tuh...huhuhu...and i didn't noe that da bb has to be totally naked...dah le hujan, and dlm tuh agak sejuk le.....next visit, a reminder to ameer's mommy, sila bawak blanket....naseb baek ameer tak terberak lg...so, strip him of and timbang...

so let see his development...
Weight
New Born : 3.8kg
1 month : 4.6kg

Length
New born : 58cm
1 month : 58.5cm

and i didn't noe that mak bb pun ade chck up...tgh aku dok kat tpt menunggu tetibe nurse tuh kata, "puan pegi kencing ya"...sambil pandang aku...then timbang...and mak ameer has lost all da baby weight...during my pregnancy i gained 11.5kg and i've lost all of it....yippie....and mama (MIL) pun before this said i dah kurus cume kene kuruskan bahagian punggung jerk...and pizi mmg slalu le ckp aku dah kurus...huhu..my mission is just nak kecikkan breast aku yg sgt besar ni and bontot and peha.....camne nak kecikkan breast nie?? my bra size now is 38DD...just imagine, DD kau...before preggy aku pakai B or C...nie naik D and then DD....pz kata xpe, xyah kecikkan...of course le kan he will say that....tp aku cam rimas and macam dah nak sakit piggang...and nnt bile dah setat keje, nak pakai kemeja nnt kat breast area mesti terbukak between buttons....menci....

sambung balik cite pasal ameer, masa cucuk kebetulan nurse nak chck perut aku...sbb aku mmg xnak le kot tgk ameer kene cucuk...aku kene cucuk pun takut...inikan nak tgk bb ameer kene cucuk...isk....kang aku lak yg nanges....so, daddy dia yg dukung dia masa kene cucuk...and my gud boy and brave baby ameer tak melalak...just menangis 3 note, then bentik....kire dia nanges nak menyusu lg dasat le...huhu....and nurse ckp jahitan aku pun dah ok..yang terbukak ckit kat hujung tuh dah tutup and dah ok.....

Alhamdulillah me and ameer are fine coz we didn't undergo any chck up pun within 1 month nie...sbb we didn't inform da nearest klinik kesihatan bout my delivery....aler, lagipun mama kan used to be nurse kat wad bersalin and a certified bidan....so it's ok le.....

ameer getting ready to go to klinik....

kene beli snow cap yg ala-ala macho ckit le....nampak bb mommy cam gegurl jerk...

mommy's sunflower.....