Daddy masuk sepital.....

20th May 2011 (Wednesday) pz complaining to me that he's having a fever...and aku cam malas nak layan sbb dia nie cam slalu jerk demam le, selesema le...and he's very cranky kalo demam...so, aku cam nyampah ckit nal layan...hahaha, bole ke bini buat camtuh??

since he's working in Tropicana Medical Centre (TMC), so dia pegi le chck up...free kan?? then cek darah everything...when he got da result, he called me..and he said his platelet count is 109...and it's considered very low..and if it falls below 100, mmg category critical...the ME advice him to go back and rest..then he seek for 2nd opinion, da doctor at Wellness Centre (his department), who is his fren..cewah, semenjak keje sepital nie, kawan ngan doctor woo...da doc advice him to be admitted...then he asked me shud he be admitted...hell no i'm going to let him being admitted...satu, sbb aku tggl sorang ngan bb ameer jerk nnt...dua, blood result blum dpt lagik until tomorrow...third, doc yg advice dia is general doc, not specialist...

then da next morning after dropping ameer at nursery, we went to TMC to find out bout pz's blood test result...and pz also wanna clear his stuff as today is his last day in TMC...while waiting for da result, we went to his office to clear his stuffs...since they do alot of blood test in his department, specifically in his room, so cam ade bnyk stock medical supplies...being a kiasu malay, of course le aku rembat...aku rembat 20++ plastic plaster, 10++ alcohol swab, syringe besar and kecik...tuh pun kalo tak aku nak rembat plastic cover yg slalu sepital boh kat katil for patient yg bed ridden...tp pz kata tuh org dah pakai...huhuhu...naseb baek...then, we went to Emergency to see da result, da platelet is 97 and he's advised to be admitted...alamak...

and we're discussing which room to board..since he's a staff at TMC, his admittance shud be covered...tp, 6 bedded ward...so, he wanna use his insurance, MAA...coverage up to RM200 room boarded as we wanted to take a single bedded room which cost RM202/day...tp, MAA ade co-charges which u have to pay 10% out of total bill...this has been practice by insurance company since last 2 years...this is due to, some of ppl, sakit tak seberapa, tp nak dok sepital lelama and nak buat memacam test and da doc and da hospital pun berpakat gak ngan patient sbb they can earn much...macam le abang aku ngan bini dia..ooopppssss!!..huhuhu...and since insurance is facing losses due to this, they're now imposing the co-charges which patient has to pay 10% out of total bill...so, org yg suka dok sepital nie will think twice before admitted or shud i say checking-in to hospital...damn it, sbb org macam tuh, we have to suffer and being punish....

then, 3rd option is to use my company's insurance which is ING...and ING nie doesn't charge co-charges...only ING & Prudential doesn't impose the co-charges...coverage for warded under ING is only RM180...so, we still wanna take da single bedded room..pz pun dah buat muka kesian kalo dia kenal tggl sorang kan...so, he agreed to pay da extra RM22...so, we check in la kat hotel TMC...hhuhuh...since da only single bedded available is in pediatrician ward, so blk pun berdeko-deko mcm kat tadika...pz want me to accompany him in da hospital...tp, they does not advice bb ameer to stay together as pz were suspected dengue...tp, rupenyer tak pun...dia kene keracunan makanan jerk...so, dah setel everything jam dah kol 4, nak kene balik amek baju pz, pehtuh nak balik umah amek ameer from nursery plak...

welcome fruit basket, and complimentary essential toiletries

sampai umah jam dah kol 4:30, demn it...mmg xsempat punyer nak hanta baju then balik amek ameer b4 6...sbb jln kat dlm Kota Damansara tuh jem cam celaka...so, dah pack baju, boh beg dlm keta, amek bb ameer...boh car seat kat passanger seat dpn...mmg gamble le..naseb baek mcm tak jauh...paling jauh aku penah buat camtuh was from Kota Damansara to Shah Alam...driving bedua jerk ngan ameer...dia dok dlm car seat sblh aku...skalik dpn the curve dah jem...tetibe, bb ameer dah merengek plak...naseb baek susu dlm botol dia ade balance lagik...so, while driving a manual car in a jem, while feeding him wif bottle in another hand...korang bole buat aksi stunt cam aku nie??? bole?? then sampai sepital plak, concierge xde...hak elah, mengular ke hape derang nie...so, i drop beg and stroller...then aku pegi park...dah le xde basement parking..kene park kat outdoor...bumbung cume ade kat walk way tengah2 jerk cam kat tesco tuh...since dah xde concierge, aku kene tolak stroller in one hand, and tarik beg wif another hand...

rupe pz cam org baru pas besalin...sblh dia tuh baby baru lahir...hahahaha....

since tido dlm aircond, so kene selubung budak nie..takut sejuk...

budak yg excited dpt tido kat sepital....

plan nak gerak balik mlm tuh before 10 le sbb nak tgk maharaja lawak...but then, pz tak abes2 nak pujuk aku ngan muka sedih dia nak soh aku stay...and being a pro-active mother, aku mmg dah kemaskan baju ameer dgn aku sesiap lg...muahahahaha....so, we request for extra bed...and their extra bed xde, so...kene bg patient bed gak yg bole adjust2 tuh....sgt best okay....so, aku ngan bb ameer buat muka toye jerk stay kat sepital tanpa rasa bersalah dan segan silu...mlm tuh pz were given 1.5l air tuk cuci perut...dia kene kosongkan usus and perut dia sbb sok doc nak sontot bontot dia dgn camera...nak tgk takut dia ade stomach ulser ke tak...

as usual bb ameer tido bawah ketiak mommy dia memalam...

tgh mlm tuh bnyk kali dia bgn sbb tercirit-cirit...hahaha....sok, kol 8 doc dah setat nak sontot dia..hahaha...pagi tuh kol 7:00am, dia kene minum lg 1.5l....bnyk tuh...pehtuh dia kene salin baju and pegi disontot...haha...dkt nak 3 jam, baru dia balik....muka mamai giler..rupenyer doc bg ubat tido....pastuh nak sambung buat MRI plak...tak pueh hati sontot laki aku ngan camera, nak nengok isi perut dia plak pakai MRI...suka betul dia buat memacam sbb bole earn kan??

bermalas-malasan atas katil..kalo kat rumah mmg tak sempat nak bermalas-malasan

gamba nie klaka pada aku...sbb mcm aku yg tgh nak amek gambo, pehtuh tetibe bb ameer nak menyelit plak...hahahah...

baju yg pz kene pakai tuk disontot...

aku pun xtau ape motif gamba nie..dia kata nak jadik wolverine....

lepas dah kene sontot & buat MRI, xjumpe pape masalah pun...dengue xde, ulser dlm perut pun xde...cume dia chest burn sbb luka ckit jerk...kan aku dah kata, laki aku nie ngada jerk lebih kalo sakit...ptg tuh dah bole balik...sehari jerk sepital...result?? bukan high-blood, bukan dengue...cuma salah mkn jerk...itu jerk, tgk bil dekat RM4k++....tp kitowang just baya RM25 tuk extra bed jerk...hahaha...tuh naseb baek tak kene charge cadar sbb ameer dah tumpahkan kari dia (taik cair dia..kaler cam kari kene kat baju...stain dia mcm minyak from kari) kat atas dedua katil...hahahaha....

gamba hemsem boy bergaya dgn baju baru and tight baru sblm kari tumpah...

bergamba kenangan family portrait kat sepital..pz kata anggap le mcm tido hotel...

aku nampak sgt gemuk time nie...mencik...


sementara daddy gi buat MRI, mommy mengaja bb ameer tuk camwhoring....huhu...


mcm gamba dlm studio...cam white room beba...hahaha....

bb ameer attacked by nasty bug...

it was on Friday 25th March 2011 when he was 87 days young....

da nite before, he had a restless sleep....merengek and his hand is all over places...tangan dia dok mengibas-ngibas time tido...so i kept on watching & feeding him...da nite before pun, we realize his a bit warm...when we chck his temperature, it was 38 Celsius...so i decided to take EL on Friday...sian kot kat dia demam2 nak hanta kat nursery...wanted to take him to see da doc, tp pz ade intebiu plak that morning...after he came back from da intebiu, we took him to clinic...he had minor fever and a flu...sian dia restless sbb hidung tersumbat...huhu....then da doc give him ubat sesema syrup...da doc said ubat ni akan buat dia ngantuk..standard le cam ubat sesema kaler kuning yg kita slalu makan tuh...and the syrup pun kaler kuning...then she said, for some kids plak, they might get hyper rather than sleepy...huhu...then, doc ask how much bb ameer weight, then i said when he was 2 month he weight 5.5kg...so doc timbang bb ameer and he's now

Weight
New Born : 3.8kg
1 month : 4.6kg
2 months : 5.5kg
3 months : 6.4kg

wajah pesakit...

pesakit yg masih comel walaupun sakit.....

pesakit sedang berehat..

and that Friday nite when i let him sit, meleleh air hidung dia...huhu...cute and kesian...and air liur and air mata pun meleleh at da same time...and i realize that friday nite, he cries a lot...and sgt kerap...he didn't sleep....and xle nak pujuk...usually kalo dia nangis, aku ambek and peluk he'll stop crying but instead he cries louder and he scream....sampai merah2 le muka and siap kuar air mata...sian giler aku tgk....and dia xtido...while BF he fall asleep, tp bile put him down on cot, he'll wake up after 5 mins...and it continues like that....and bile dia terjaga tuh, he'll scream and cry....and mlm dia mmg xtido...nak tido berpegang jerk...so, i didn't get ma sleep and kalo tido pun tido duduk while hugging him...

masuk saturday malam he get even worse...he didn't sleep...bole kire bape jam je kot he sleeps.. at first i tot he became grumpy due to da fever and flu...tp bile nak menyusu, dia jadik cam pelik...bila dia nak latching je kat aku, he'll suddenly turn around and scream...macam ade org tarik dia dr BF....and i start to wonder and it start to freak me....and when he cries, he close his eyes tight...and again he couldn't sleep...nak melekap and berpeluk je..he seems very scared...so bergilir2 me and pz jaga dia and peluk dia...up to da extend dia tido atas aku sambil aku peluk...kene peluk, if not dia nanges...and he seems very scared...nanges jenis xle pujuk punyer....dah pasang mp3 surah yassin, zikir munajat and me recite ayat Kursi, 4 Qul and still he cried and screaming....

so on Sunday, we decide to bring him to Pak Mujib...Pak Mujib nie dia dianugerahkan kebolehan untuk mengubat org and dia bole le nampak kalo ade ape2 gangguan....and i noticed, bb ameer kalo kuar umah, dia ok jerk...sbb masa kat umah onne, he seems happy and cheerful...and masa kat umah kitowang pun, when i ask pz to take ameer to kedai runcit bawah, he seems ok..bile kat umah jerk dia cam meragam and menangis...so, masa kat umah Pak Mujib nie, dia tanya kenapa...i told him and he said, our precious little cute bb ameer kene ganggu....and i was shocked and sedih ok...

Me : sape yang ganggu dia?
Pak Mujib : Jin
Me : Jin Islam ke jin kafir?
Pak Mujib : mana le saya tau Islam ke kafir (one thing bout Pak Mujib nie plak, dia suka buat lawak yang cam cilaks ckit...huhu)
Me : nape dia ganggu?
Pak Mujib : Mana la saya tau kenapa...jin nie lg bnyk dari manusia...manusia mati, tp jin nie tak mati dan hidup beribu-ribu tahun....
Me : orang hanta ke jin nie??
Pak Mujib : Eh, xde lah...ini jin lalu jerk..mungkin dia singgah...
Me : rumah saya ade ke jin nie?
Pak Mujib : kamu duduk mana??
Me : Flora Damansara, Damansara Perdana..
Pak Mujib : he murmur something and he said...ade, rumah kamu pun ade....
Me : huh?? macam mana nie?? bole halau?? Pak Mujib bole tolong buat??
Pak Mujib : bole aja kamu halau...kamu beli garam, selawat dan niat suruh benda tu keluar..
Me : bawak garam pada pak mujib?
Pak Mujib : xpayah...kamu buat sendirik...
Me : nak letak lada hitam??
Pak Mujib : xyah lada hitam...garam saja...bukan nak masak...

and while he's reading something to da water, bb ameer just look at him...dia tgk jerk...then pak mujib said, "air nie kamu ambik bagi dia minum...kalo nangis sapu kat muka and kepala"...

pesakit masih sempat bergambar sblm mendapatkan rawatan....

nie aku xtau nak amek gamba hp or gamba org...huhu....

so that nite, masa masuk umah jerk aku baca ayat Qursi 11x as advised by Pak Mujib...bg bb ameer minum...and aku lap badan dia pakai air tuh skalik....but again, malam tuh he cried and scream like da nite before...pz amek garam and baling kat 4 penjuru blk tido kitowang...still je screamed and cries...mata pejam, air mata meleleh, suara makin kuat...aku tgk dia macam tuh, luluh hati aku and sedih gile...aku sampai menangis teresak-esak sambil peluk dia....aku baca macam2 kat telinga dia but nothing happened and he still screaming and crying...aku takut kalo he continuously crying, takut effect him and he might get sindrom...kita penah kan denga kes2 macam nie...and ade yg cakap sawan tangis...so, nothing happened and it started to piss me off...sgt piss off....

aku amek garam tuh, aku selawat, aku mengucap and aku baca "Tiada tuhan yg disembah melainkan Allah dan nabi Muhammad itu pesuruh Allah..Engkau maha pengasih dan maha penyayang..keluar kau (jin) dari rumah aku"...and dengan penuh perasaan piss off and full wif revenge, aku baling kat penjuru atas dinding....pz baling kat penjuru bawah...aku baliing kat penjuru atas....and aku baling sepenuh perasaan macam nak baling bola softball tuh (and i was a pitcher for my school softball team)...aku buat kat semua penjuru dalam semua bilik kat umah aku, even dalam stor, dapur, utility area except toilet....pz pegang bb ameer....and Alhamdulillah dengan izin Allah, bb ameer berenti menangis....aku bukan niat garam tuh yg menghalau benda tuh...aku niat, garam tuh buat dia sakit and dia leave us...and that nite, bb ameer finally manage to sleep like a log till morning...penat sgt kot dia nanges...sbb dia sampai teresak-esak tau menangis...bawak teresak sampai ke tido...we sleep wif da lights on and aku pasang mp3 surah Yassin and zikir munajat through out da nite...

On Monday, he woke up macam biasa wif a smile on his face...so aku hanta dia gi nursery...and today is also pz 1st day at new work...he left VADS(TM) to be wif Tropicana Medical Centre....and i inform da nursery to notify me if bb ameer cries or meragam...and Alhamdulillah aku kerja dgn ustaz-ustaz...so aku tanya Ustaz Jabal and Ustaz Elyas (suami Puan Nad)..and they advice me to baca ayat2 Manzil...so i googled and i found it here..

Ayat-ayat Manzil
Bacaan 1: Al­Fatihah
Bacaan 2: Surah Al­Baqarah (Surah 2) ayat 1­5.
Bacaan 3: Surah Al­Baqarah (Surah 2) ayat 163.
Bacaan 4: Surah Al­Baqarah (Surah 2) ayat 255­257.
Bacaan 5: Surah Al­Baqarah (Surah 2) ayat 284­286
Bacaan 6: Surah Al­Imran (Surah 3) ayat 18.
Bacaan 7: Surah Al­Imran (Surah 3) ayat 26­27.
Bacaan 8: Surah Al­A'raaf (Surah 7) ayat 54­56.
Bacaan 9: Surah Al­Israa' (Surah 17) ayat 110­111.
Bacaan 10: Surah Surah Al­Muminuun (Surah 23) ayat 115­118.
Bacaan 11: Surah Asy­Syafaat (Surah 37) ayat 1­11.
Bacaan 12: Surah A­Rahman (Surah 55) ayat 33­40.
Bacaan 13: Surah Al­Hasyr (Surah 59) ayat 21­24.
Bacaan 14: Surah Al­Jinn (Surah 72) ayat 1­4.
Bacaan 15: Surah Al­Kafiruun (Surah 109) ayat 1­6.
Bacaan 16: Surah Al­Ikhlas (Surah 112) ayat 1­4.
Bacaan 17: Surah Al­Falaq (Surah 113) ayat 1­5.
Bacaan 18: Surah An­Nas (Surah 114) ayat 1­6.
Contoh berdo'a: (Repeat: contoh saja) Ya, Allah...pembacaan ayat2 Engkau ini sebagai obat untuk..................(nama) agar dia jadikanlah......................................(misalnya: menjadi seorang yangtaqwa kepada Engkau ... ataupun mohon dibaikkan dari penyakitnya, e.g. nakal, suka bertengkar, malas sembahyang, dsb.) WALLAHUA'LAM.

and kak siti said, it's normal for bb kene kacau mcm bb ameer kene...usually org2 tua akan kibas penyapu lidi as if they are chasing that creature out...then telangkupkan penyapu lidi tuh blkg pintu masuk umah..so that Monday nite, aku baca le ayat2 manzil nie and Alhamdulillah he's ok...and malam tadi pun dia ok...so now, maghrib jerk, dah tutup semua tingkap....lemas ckit le dok dalam umah tuh...tp wut to do...demi utk bb ameer....and ade org ckp, never to piss off a mother...coz once she's piss, u wouldn't wanna see how she looks....

bb ameer 1st operation.....

bb ameer punyer tali pusat gugur on his 10th day...and it's not really fully gugur...sbb bile tali pusat dia gugur, ade satu benda tejojol kuar dr pusat dia....mama (MIL) being a nurse said it's a salur darah....memula tekeluar ckit jerk....mama kata akan gugur eventually....tp, bile bb ameer nangis jerk, benda tuh makin kuar...and it's scary...mommy mmg xle tgk le...kalo terkeluar jerk, aku panggil mama...mama kata sapu minyak gamat jerk....so aku ikut jele....

bile dah balik kl nie, aku sapu gak le minyak gamat...mama kata nnt masa nak gi cucuk 2 bln, tanya le kat doc...tp masa aku demam gi klinik 21/2/2011, aku tunjuk le kat doc tuh...sbb kat klinik tuh dia bole cek budak and pregnant mother...so dia bg spirit tuk cucu and cream tuk sapu...dia ckp tak sakit...and akan gugur gak...pas jumpe doc tuh, aku sapu mende2 yg dia bagi tuh, daripada kuar darah kering kaler cekelat, terus kuar darah yg kaler merah....lagik le aku takut...and aku rasa dia sakit sbb bile aku nak masukkan balik salurdarah tuh, mesti dia nanges...aku tak bawak dia gi paed lg sbb aku blum register dia dlm insurance company aku lg...sbb mama penah kate maybe kene buat minor operation...so aku takut mahal le...so tuh yg nak tggu insurance...

so aku sms HR opis aku, bg details soh dia update info ameer...dia ckp dia dah email kat medijaring, aku call medijaring dia kt xdpt lg info...tp aku cam tak puas ati, aku gi gak damansara specialist....doc on duty sorang jerk...Dato' Dr Azizi...aku pikir ade dato' nie mesti kang charge mahal....pehtuh aku tgk dia paed jerk...aku tgk list name doc lain then ade sowang doc tuh paed cum surgeon....Dr Abd Rahman....so kompom bole buat procedure nie...ingat cam nak bawak tunjuk then br set appointment tuk buat minor operation tuh....front desk tuh call klinik dr tuh, then dia ckp "Puan pegi skang le..doc tgh tunggu.." aku tunggu pz park keta then terus gi klinik dia...mmg betul2 dia tgh tggu...siap bukak kan pintu and terus masuk blk...xsempat nak daftar pun...

dia soh bukak baju, bb ameer erk...bukan aku...dia tgk pehtuh dia soh baringkan bb ameer....dia ckp kita akan remove benda tuh..aku "huh...wtf?" tp wtf tuh aku ckp dlm hati jele....aku tanya sakit tak doc...dia jawap "tak...tak sakit...dia tak rasa pape pun"....pehtuh dia amek satu besi panas...aku dah ngeri dah....doc soh aku pegang tangan bb ameer, nurse pegang kaki....aku soh pz...giler ke nak soh aku tgk....pz peganga jerk tgn bb ameer, aku diri blkg doc...blum setat procedure lg aku dah nanges....pehtuh bile aku dengar bb ameer nanges, lagik laju air mata aku...dah teresak-esak plak aku nanges....kejap jerk...tak sampai 5 minit pun...dah siap...terus aku pujuk and bg BF....pas jerk procedure, doc terus blah...dia ckp "saya pegi dulu ye..ade hal"...mmg rezeki bb ameer le sempat jumpe doc tuh...

aku tanya pz camne procedure tuh....dia ckp, doc tarik salur darah tuh gune pengepit...pastuh nampak ade salur kecik jerk cam urat...then pakai besi panas tuh, dia potong salur kecik tuh...doc kt salur kecik tuh akan mati...pastuh pusat bb ameer terus masuk...dah tak terkeluar dah..doc bg cream antibiotik tuk luka dia tuh...total semua skalik ngan cream and consultation RM163.50 jerk....

dia jadik cam diagram kat atas nie le...

lebih kurang camnie le rupe dia...tp bb ameer punyer kecik le....

nie info pasal pusat tuh here and here

Normal Delivery Package @ Pantai Hospital Ampang

WHAT??
3 days / 2 nights (2 bedded)
Normal Delivery Package

Package Include:
MOTHER

- Normal Delivery procedure
- Maternity admission service, routine fetal monitoring & nursing care
- Standard delivery room service inclusive of monitoring, assessment & treatment in labour
- Standard post-natal observation & treatment
- Baby screening & your baby's 1st vaccination
- Consultants Ward Round fees
- Standard Medication used during admission & take home

BABY

- 3 days / 2 nights nursing room charges inclusive of consultants ward round fees
- 3 days / 2 nights standard neonatal nursing care
- Lab test for neonatal screening (G6PD, TSH + Grouping + Rh, VDRL)
- Vitamin K, Hepatitis B & BCG vaccination

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Pimple Breakout.....

arghhh......in my 9th week, i was attacked by pimple breakout.....

siap bentuk bermuda triangle lg.....kat pipi kanan, kat bawah lubang hidung kiri and kat bwh kening mata kanan between nose bridge and eyelid.....so irritating....i blamed the hormones for this...

when i look upfront, akan nampak bayang2 pimple tu yg betenggek elok je kat pipi aku nie....xsuka...xsuka...menciiiiiiiiiiiiii..........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

9 Weeks!!

You may find yourself riding pregnancy's emotional roller coaster, feeling moody one day and joyful the next. Disturbing as this is to some women who pride themselves on being in control, what you're going through is normal and will probably continue throughout your pregnancy. Up-and-down emotions are partly caused by raging hormones.

At week's end, your fetus measures approximately 2.3 centimetres long. In both shape and size, it resembles a peapod and weighs less than 2 grams. The eyelids are fused and won't open until week 27. The wrists are more developed, ankles have formed, and the fingers and toes are clearly visible. Arms are growing longer and bend at the elbows. By week's end, the inner workings of the ears are complete.

Physically, you are unlikely to look pregnant, but you may feel very tired and sick - not necessarily in the mornings - so cosset yourself. Pregnancy hormones can also play havoc in other ways. Many women suffer from painful headaches and back problems and, unfortunately, these hormones also help make the perfect environment for vaginal thrush.

Staying active can mean a healthier pregnancy and a faster recovery after the birth. Don't overdo it though - choose a safe exercise programme recommended throughout pregnancy and make sure you don't get over heat.

When to start Pre-Natal Check-up??

Pemeriksaan bulanan ini penting bagi memastikan status ibu dan bayi dalam keadaan yang baik. Namun pemeriksaan bagi ibu hamil yang mengalami masalah seperti darah tinggi, kencing manis dan lain-lain yang memerlukan lebih pemerhatian mungkin memerlukan kekerapan yang lebih tinggi untuk melakukan pemeriksaan kesihatan.

Namun bagi pemeriksaan biasa adalah seperti berikut:

1st Visit

Memastikan serta mengesahkan kehamilan. Biasanya doktor akan terus memberikan due date atau tarikh anda akan dijangka bersalin. Biasanya kalau anda tidak dapat memastikan bila tarikh akhir haid, ujian ultrasound akan dilakukan untuk memberikan jangkaan bersalin yang lebih tepat.

2nd Visit

Biasanya selapas minggu ke 12 kehamilan, doktor akan meraba uterus @ bayi dalam kandungan anda yang sedang membesar bagi menentukan samada bayi anda membesar secara normal atau tidak. Masalah utama kebanyakan ibu pada masa ini ialah loya, muntah-muntah serta sering pitam.

3rd Visit

Biasanya usia kehamilan masuk minggu ke 20, Selain pemeriksaan asas, anda akan menjalani ujian PIH (Pregnancy Induced Hypertension) iaitu pemeriksaan terperinci untuk melihat kesihatan ibu. Ujian-ujian tersebut termasuklah:

• Air kencing
• Tekanan darah
• Berat badan
• Ujian darah ( diambil dari vena pada lengan ibu)
• Ultrasound (mengesan masalah kecacatan bayi dalam kandungan)

4th Visit

Usia kehamilan masuk minggu ke 24. Ibu akan menjalani ujian asas berikut:

• Air kencing
• Tekanan darah
• Berat badan

5th Visit

Usia kehamilan masuk minggu ke 28. Selain pemeriksaan asas, ibu akan diberikan suntikan ATT (Anti Tetanus Toxoid) Pertama. Ini adalah bertujuan untuk membantu ibu hamil membentuk antibodi yang cukup untuk melindungi dirinya dan bayi daripada kuman yang mudah dijangkiti sebagai contoh melalui luka dan sebagainya.

6th Visit

Usia kehamilan masuk minggu ke 32. Pada masa ini ujian asas dan suntikan ATT (Anti Tetanus Toxoid) Kedua akan dilakukan ke atas anda.

7th Visit

Usia kehamilan masuk minggu ke 34. Ujian ultrasound akan dilakukan bagi memastikan kedudukan kepala bayi, uri, berat serta saiz bayi.

8th Visit then followed by weekly Visit

Dan seterusnya anda perlu lakukan lawatan seminggu sekali sehingga hari bersalin tiba.

this entry was quoted from here.

7 Weeks.....

Your uterus has doubled in size in just two months but you're unlikely to look pregnant yet, even though inside you may be on an emotional rollercoaster. If you could see your baby, you'd probably notice eyelids forming, the nubs where fingers and toes are beginning to grow, and a tiny heart beating beneath parchment-thin skin. This is a critical stage when many major organs are forming.

10 steps to healthy pregnancy

1. Organise your antenatal care early

Good prenatal care is essential to your baby's health. Choosing your doctor early means you'll have months to build a good relationship in preparation for the birth.

2. Eat well

Although you don't necessarily have to eat more when you are pregnant, it is important to eat a well-balanced and healthy diet. Many women go off certain foods, but it's always possible to substitute those with others that provide similar nutritional value.

Make sure that your diet includes some vegetables & fruits, some carbohydrates (preferably wholegrain so you get plenty of fibre), some protein, which might be fish, meat, eggs, nuts, or pulses, and some milk and dairy foods, every day.

3. Be careful about food hygiene

It is better to avoid certain foods in pregnancy because they carry a health risk for your baby. i think sushi is not good due to it's serve raw. but it's just my opinion.
It is important to wear gloves when handling cat litter and garden soil, avoid eating undercooked or raw meat, and wash vegetables and salads thoroughly to remove any soil or dirt.
Salmonella infections may be caused by eating undercooked poultry, and raw or soft-cooked eggs. there goes my favorite half boiled egg....haihh....

You may want to be cautious about eating at your favourite hawker stalls or avoid them completely - the open drains, low food hygiene and food handling standards, pest problems and traffic fumes may not ordinarily bother you, but they present too many health risks to a pregnant woman. but sometimes i'm not in da mood to cook....br smlm mkn takeout....

4. Take folic acid supplements and eat fish

The only supplement that is considered truly vital is folic acid (also called folate), which can help prevent spina bifida and other neural tube defects in babies.

Spina bifida is a serious congenital condition. It occurs when the tube housing the central nervous system fails to close completely and may give rise to severe disabilities. All women planning a pregnancy are advised to take a daily supplement of 400mcg of folic acid starting around the time of conception through the first three months of pregnancy.

You can also increase your intake of natural folate through your diet. Folate is found in many different foods, particularly vegetables and fortified breakfast cereals. Other nutrients that are important to your health and your baby's are iron and calcium, which can generally be provided by your diet.

The current recommendation is to eat oily fish such as herring, mackerel, salmon or sardines no more than twice a week, but you can still eat other types of fish as much as you like.

5. Exercise regularly

A good exercise programme can give you the strength and endurance you'll need to carry the weight you gain during pregnancy and to handle the physical stress of labour. It will also make it much easier to get back into shape after your baby is born.

Exercise can boost your spirits and help ward off depression in pregnancy. Experts aren't sure exactly how, but there is growing evidence that it has a positive effect on brain chemicals, such as serotonin and dopamine, which help regulate your emotions and mood.

More gentle exercise such as walking, swimming, aqua-aerobics, and yoga are also very beneficial. -owh, bila la management nak repair swimming pool?? haihh....

6. Begin doing pelvic floor exercises

It's very common for women who are pregnant or who have had children to experience stress incontinence; when small amounts of urine leak out during activities, including sneezing, laughing and exercise. You can help prevent this happening by doing pelvic floor exercise, starting before you get pregnant or during pregnancy.

The pelvic floor muscles are the hammock of muscles at the base of your pelvis that support the bladder, vagina and rectum. They can feel weaker than usual in pregnancy because of the extra pressure upon them, and because the hormones of pregnancy cause them to slacken slightly.

Your pelvic floor can be toned and strengthened by a daily exercise pattern. Current recommendations are that you should do pelvic floor exercises eight times, three times a day.

7. Limit your alcohol intake

saya tidak minum ya...

8. Cut back on caffeine

Coffee, tea, and cola-style beverages are mild stimulants, and although the research evidence is not clear, some researchers feel that too much caffeine may contribute to a risk of having a low birth weight baby, or increase your risk of miscarriage.

The current advice suggests that up to four cups or three mugs of coffee (equivalent to six cups of tea or eight cans of cola) a day won't hurt your baby, although one study suggests that even low levels of caffeine can increase your risk of miscarriage. A refreshing alternative is a glass of mineral water with a twist of lime or lemon. -yeay...i only drink one nescaffe within this 3 weeks....it's a huge achievement as i was a nescaffeholic....

9. Stop smoking

Women who smoke increase their risk of miscarriage, premature delivery, stillbirth and cot death. Smoking in the first trimester also slightly increases the risk of having a baby with a cleft lip or palate. -yeay....i automatically quit when i was 4 weeks pregnant though i didn't know i was pregnant at that time after been smoking for 7 years....

10. Get some rest

The fatigue you feel in the first and third trimesters is your body's way of saying "slow down". A nap in the middle of the day may seem like a luxury you can't afford, but you and your baby will both benefit. If you can't sleep, at least put your feet up and relax for 30 minutes or more, in whatever way suits you best.

If backache is disturbing your sleep, try massage or exercise classes specifically for back care. Exercise and relaxation can also help with sleep problems related to stress. Try relaxation techniques, which are safe in pregnancy, such as yoga, stretching, deep breathing and massage. Always tell the teacher of any exercise or relaxation class that you attend that you're pregnant or choose classes tailored for pregnant women.

a mother can have thousand daughters, but thousand daughters can only have one mother.....

June 2007
mak was diagnose wif breast cancer...she, who was a very health cautious who will do a fully medical check-up every year, but yet she being diagnosed with women's number 1 enemy....she took food supplementary and jog every weekend...Subhanallah...Allah maha besar...Allah knows better.....

December 2008
mak went to performed her Haj for da 2nd time...she said, this time she's going to be insaf once she's back...huhu....dolu pegi muda and memain....bole plak kan???

February 2010
mak got constant headache...it happened 1 to 2 weeks after my wedding....she thought it was just a normal migraine...so she just rest and took panadol....which she was not really a fan of it....and sometimes, ppl like to send or attack her wif black magic...yeah, we experienced it several times....i'm not saying it exist and i'm believing it, it's just Allah maha berkuasa...Allah mampu mencipta ape pun makhluk didunia ini....

17th March 2010
mak went to Ipoh General Hospital to check bout her headache....coz she couldn't eat...when ever she consume anything, she'll vomit...but da thing was, she didn't eat anything, so she only vomit air and kahak....at government hospital, so they just took blood pressure:OK, glucose:OK, cholesterol:OK..everything was OK....but she's still in pain....

20th March 2010
me and mr hubby went back to Ipoh...to celebrate mak's birthday...at this time, mak was very sick...she couldn't get off of her bed....so, as an only daughter and da dearest to her, i feed her and stay by her....

23rd March 2010
her severe headache is unbearable by her....so she went to Ipoh GH again, this time to emergency....they did a CT Scan....again da blood pressure, glucose and cholesterol check...again, they said it was nothing....they said mak got FOOD POISONING!!!... that's why she keep on vomiting...wut da fuck doctor...food poisoning kat kepala ker??? macam haram...
and abang (my eldest brother) decided to take her to Pantai Hospital Ipoh....she did MRI Scan.... and that was when we found out bout her pain....previously her breast cancer limp node was under her arm pit...and through the MRI scan, doctor rectified that the cancer cells have spread to behind her neck and her head.....owh....wut a devastating news for me...i was in KL....
Innalillah hiwainna ilaihirajiun....da doctor said, no operation shud be done...coz it may effect her vision and speech coz da cancer is at her nerve...da doctor prescribe mak for Radiotherapy treatment....

24th March 2010
i took Emergency Leave today and went back to Ipoh...Mr Hubby took MC, coz he finished his allocated leave....da only hospital in Ipoh with radiotherapy is in Ipoh Specialist....so, we admitted mak to Ipoh specialist....she has no insurance coverage any more coz she had one of the critical illnesses symptom before...so, it's up to her childs which she gave birth and raised all by her self since da last 17 years....mak concern was bout da fee, she was a government pensioner before and she's entitle for 1st class GH treatment...tp, if u've been reading this..u'll think we won't think twice to admit her to GH......

25th March 2010
she undergo her 1st Radiotherapy.....

27th March 2010
Mak celebrated her 58th Birthday on the hospital bed....just like arwah Bapak 18 years ago.....

29th March 2010
mak unconscious after went to the bathroom....she's admitted to ICU.....i went back to Ipoh again with Mr Hubby.....

30th March 2010
Mr Hubby went back to KL early in da morning and head straight to office....i stayed with mak...she's still in ICU....i feed her every single meals and she's been consuming it in a large amount....i brushed her hair and tied her hair neatly....i lotioned her hands and feets...read her newspaper and she was so happy and cheerful...she hasn't been vomiting at all for da 1st time.... and she received a very wonderful news from K Linda (ma 1st sis in-law)....and it was da greatest news for all of us....i even cried wif joy....that evening mak was transfered from ICU to HDU (high dependency Unit)...

31st March 2010
Abang was admitted in da same hospital for his back pain....during her stay in da hospital, several times she mentioned she wanted a bread toast with garlic break spread, and every time i went back, mesti lupa nak buat....but that morning, i made mak vegetable soup....even she didn't want to take hospital's meals coz she was waiting for my soup....sorry mak amy sampai lambat....i was looking for train ticket to KL....system plak bole down that day...damn....i finally arrived at the hospital around 1:00 pm and mak still didn't eat..when i just wanted to feed mak wif lunch, we were chased out from HDU coz it was the nurses changing shift time....at around 4:00pm we were allowed into the room and again i can't feed mak coz mak was in a midst of transferring from HDU to normal ward.....

Finally when she settled down at her normal ward, it was a twin sharing room with abang.....i feed her and she eats a lot....same goes to our cute lil nurse, Delinot (my 1st niece) who has been taking care of mak...she's just 4 years old....she can even hold a bowl for mak to vomit....she rub mak's chest and back when mak vomiting...owh, how pure her heart is....that nite, i took a train back to KL.....

this is da lil nurses attending the patient....

4th April 2010
took my parents in-laws to visit mak...they came to KL from seremban yesterday...stayed one nite at our house...previously, abg smses me saying that mak was so weak coz she couldn't eat....but when i feed her, she eats a lot...abang said, da doctor asked all her sons, daughter, daughters in-law and son in-law to massage her...belai her with love....so, i massage her thighs, massage her hands with lotion.....stretch her arms....massage her back...well, i have a healing hand in massaging....huhu.....i brushed her hair....lotioned her feet....and it was so hard and heavy for me to leave her that day....she looks happy and cheerful....

kesian, she was soo tired....this is when mak was in ICU...she's been crying coz she wanted to see mak..mak's bed was facing the entrace...when ever we open da door, she'll be standing by the entrance and waving at her beloved Opah....but when mak was transfered to HDU, her bed was not facing da entrace nemore, so we asked permission from nurse to smuggle her in...she came in quietly, hug and kisses mak, then she left...

when i first heard bout her sickness, i thought to myself...."Ya Allah, aku blum rela untuk melepaskan mak aku pergi....aku belum bersedia untuk hidup tanpa mak....i wanted her to see my child....i want to celebrate my 1st raya as a wife with her.....i want to lean on her....lie on her lap....sleep beside her while hugging her thightly.... kiss her always...."

but when i see her condition, i thought to myself "Ya Allah, aku rela jika masa ibu ku sudah tiba... aku sudah tak sanggup melihat dia tersiksa...jika itu yg terbaik, aku redha...."

but mak said, she asked doctor "doctor, saya nie nak mati dah ker?" and da doctor said, "tak makcik, Insyaallah nyawa makcik panjang lagi"......and mak also said to me "Mak nak tgk anak K Linda dan anak kamu".....

up to yesterday, her medical and hospitalization fees was almost 20K.....and i dunno how da heck i'm gonna pay my part (we're going to share between 3 of us)....i was not even married for 2 months, which i paid everything for my wedding, we just moved in to new house....i haven't even settled down....but, that's called Qada' & Qadar and dugaan dr Allah....again, Allah xkan menguji hambanya jika Dia tahu hambanya tak mampu menanggung ujian tersebut.....

and until this time, she is still in hospital....all of you, please doa for my mom...doakan semoga dia cepat sehat and semoga dia sempat bermain dengan anak aku (and no, i'm not pregnant yet)....

It's da time of da month

i got my menstrual today.....it was delayed for 2 days.... at 1st i was excited coz of da delay...mn le tau kan??? sekalik hampagas.....

uhuk..uhuk..uhuk....

haiiiihhhhh..............

masuk hari ini sudah hampir seminggu tekak geli-geli yg tak kelakar pun rasanyer.....
and batuk sudah makin kuat....
bile batuk rasa macam nie...........

agaknya mmg dah sampai masa untuk berenti ma secret habit for da past 8 years.....huhuhu....

oklah mau pulang...mr hubby teringin nak makan telo kicap...huhuhu...adeker???
permintaan spt aku nie tak reti masak....xpe le...dah dia nak....