Card, kad, kartu.....

Thanks a lot jaja for spending time to read my previous blabbing....huhu..ade gak org yg mendengar luahan hati aku....luv ya....at this time of our life, we really need other gurls for physical and mental support...to lead you back to the right track....


of course le for the guys its nothing...sbb kalo wedding their side, they just give money to their parents, and the parents yg will go all out...belah pompuan nie, kita yg akan involve and get our hands dirty for the wedding...every single details we wanna involve...just to make sure things done according to our dream wedding...huhu....isk...tp dah tak marah dah...hehe...time buat blog before this tgh emo sbb merajuk tp encik tunang xnak pujuk....akhirnya smlm berdamai dan encik tunang dah pujuk and say sorry....huhuhuhuh...ngengada...skalik sekala nak manja-manja....


finally i went to do my wedding card wif abg and k linda...bnyk betul dugaan nak buat kad nie...
tuesday abg sms:
"kalo kamu nak buat kad kawen, kene buat before raya haji.".....
yg peliknyer, i dun bother to ask why....as far as i noe, the shop close at 5:00 pm...
then i told abg,
"amy balik kol 6. pizi balik kol 6:30. nak sampai ke bangi will take around 1hour."
abg reply:
"xpe, dah ckp kat org kedai tuh soh tunggu gak"....

ok, tp skalik on wednesday, tetibe keje terbnyk...and i'm still in the office at 7:15...demn...camno nie....??seperti biasa peah pun merempit dgn Mr. Bubu...huhuhuh....dah le nak ke stesen bas kajang tuh aku dok ingat2 lupe...aku penah lalu dpn stesen bas tuh 2 kali jerk...redah jugak le...


the 1st hurdle happened, jln nak ke stesen bas kajang from UKM tuh dah le cam celako kan...it's under construction and it's dark like hell...pasang le lampu weis...ape punyer kontraktor le...baek bg mak aku jerk buat....sekalik tengah merempit tuh terlanggar plak satu lubang besar....demn...pastuh aku dengar dari blkg from driver side "kelepek..kelepk..kelepek..kelepek"..so i switch of da radio to confirm weather da sound comes from the back of da car....so we stoped at da road side...encik tunang pegi tgk...skalik for da 1st time after 3 years of driving Mr. Bubu, tayar Mr. Bubu pancit...sian Mr. Bubu....nak tukar at that time pun xle...coz da road is pitch black, then org kedai kad is still waiting for us....nak xnak, redah gak dgn kecederaan Mr. Bubu for almost a kilometre....


sampai kat stesen bas kajang, pusing satu round, and nasib baek ade satu kedai tayar bukak....Alhamdulillah...bile dia tgk tayar dia pun ckp
"tayar ni tertoreh dpn blkg nie. mmg xle tampal. kene tukar."
Me : "brape kalo tayar baru"
Kedai Tayar : "RM110.00 kak"
Me : "siap pasang?"
Kedai Tayar : "ha'ah."
Me : "haaa...okey le...sy tinggal keta..nnt saya dtg balik."


then aku terus blah tanpa meninggalkan my hp no, or taking thier number...jln laju giler cam pelumba jalan kaki kat sukan commonwealth...sampai kedai kad tuh dgn termengah-mengah...rupenyer derang dah shortlisted dah pun kad yg nak disponsor....as i wish, i wanted to have custome wedding card. i brought Sai's wed card as a sampel...
Me : "kalo nak buat camnie bape?"
Kedai Kad : "kita takle nak bajet le. kene tanya designer. kene tunggu esok"
demn..xkan sok nak dtg balik plak kan???dah le seksa gak nak sampai sini....
Me : "bape upah buat?"
Kedai Kad : "kita amik RM250 untuk upah custome."
bapak mahal siot....itu hari aku tanya kat kedai kad masa pameran kawen tuh, dia ckp kad cam sai nie bole dpt RM0.50 sekeping...then xde upah custome pun.....
Me : "errmm.....xpe le...xyah custome le.."


so end up i took the butterfly ku design...witch i'm not really keen...tp, dah org nak bayarkan...so accept jele...for me, the price is soo damn expensive...tak berbaloi....tp i'll try to accept...if i keep on kondem and complaint, takut pape plak jadik....learn to lurve and accept wut u have...


so is how my wedding card will look like....

Songs to be played on my Big Day

I wish to have a live band, kalo bole nak Monochronic Freak...tp, cam mustahil la kan...nak amik gamelan, nnt cam boring plak...so, just play our favourite songs jele...xnak le plak biar DJ pilih lagu...nnt mesti kuar lagu Mawi le, Siti le, and lagu2 kawen yg ntah pape tuh....

so i planned to hand over a mp3 CD and ask the DJ to play it for me...so these are the songs that i wish to be played during my Big Day...

• Daniel Bedingfield - If U're Not The One
Encik Tunang dedicate lagu nie kat I

• Celine Deon - Because I'm Your Lady


• Celine Deon - Because You Love Me


• Jason Myraz - I'm Yours


• Jason Myraz feat Colby Calliat - Lucky


• Bryan Adams - Have U Ever Really Love a Women


• Micheal Bubble - Quando Quando


• Micheal Bubble - Sway


• Robbie William feat Nicole Kidman - Something Stupid


• Maron 5 - Sunday Morning


• Maron 5 - Won't Go Home Without U


• Boyz II Men feat Mariah Carey -
  
• - Can't Take My Eyes Off From You




• Indigo - Istimewa


• Pretty Ugly - Diari Seorang Lelaki


• Flop Poppy - Cinta


• Anuar Zain - Lelaki Ini


• Ari Lasso Feat Bunga Citra Lestari - Aku & Dirimu


• Black Dog Bone - Si Gadis Ayu


• Estrange - Itu Kamu


• Faizal Tahir - Sampai Syurga

Documentations......

another 88 days to go.... arrrggghhhhh..............scary...nervous...panic...

just got off the phone with Jabatan Agama Islam Perak (JAIP) asking bout procedures and process....first thing first....

1. Sijil Kursus Kahwen ---> done and graduated wif flying colours.....


2. Surat akuan bujang for groom.... ---> Encik tunang dah dpt dr HR


3. Surat kebenaran kahwin luar kawasan for groom ---> En. tunang to find out nak buat kat Subang or Seromban


4. HIV test ---> must do by next week. tgh nak tgk jadual Klinik Kesihatan

Once all of the above have completed, then i can proceed to my task....

5. Prepare the decease cert of my father ---> mintak kat mak


6. Isi borang 2 (Permohonan untuk kebenaran kahwin bagi perempuan)--->downloaded from JAIP's official website.


7. Isi Borang 2A (Perwakilan Wakalah) --->also downloaded from JAIP's web for my big bro to fill since my father had passed away....

*nasib baek la JAIP ade website..huhu...senang aku...

8. Attached all the forms and meet Ustaz Md Anjang (012-571 8046 or 05-526 4973) @ Jalan Pemimpin which is kadi for my area...


9. Once kadi have been notified and signed, go to JAIP wif my En Tunang and big bro....


10. getting ready for the wed...yehaa...

panjang gak process and procedure tuh...phew..

Kenapa...mengapa...why???

nape le aku sayang sgt kat Mohd Hafeezie Nazreen b Mohd Zaidin nie??why am i soo damn in lurve wif my fiance?? he's not handsome...not even cute...he's not macho..he's not wealthy..he's far from rich family..he's not Mr Romeo...he's not even Mr charms with words...but why do i lurve him so damn much??

he's my fren, my best fren, my lover, my love of my life, my fiance and my husband-to-be....he's also a gud listener, a gud advisor, a shoulder to cry on, a punch bag, a joker, he's my guardian angel, he's my saviour....he's my advisor and he's my other half...he completes me...

i'm so comfortable wif him...i'm totally in my skin when i'm wif him...i can cry in front of him, i can fart imfront of him, i can even pick my nose infront of him...haha...gross....maybe for you but not for him....when i'm sick and puked, he can clean my vormit without feeling gross...ya, he did...

believe it or not, for as long as 2 years and 7 months of our relationship, we dun even have any fight...just a few small tiny winy rows which was stupid...he always knows how to pujuk me....he never scold me...kalo macam ade sumthing he wanted to say to me or tak puas hati, dia akan ckp "i ade benda nak ckp ngan u nie. bole tak?? kalo i ckp, u jgn marah atau merajuk pulak"....bile denga tuh jerk...automatic muncung aku dah panjang cam pinocchio punyer idung jadik panjang bile menipu....huhu...dah takut dah bile dengar dia ckp camtuh...terus pegang tgn dia kekonon cam nak mintak simpati....huhuhu....

he is also egoless...which is very hard to find a men with less ego...if he needs help, he never hesitate to asked from me...if he stumble in anything, he never ashame to ask for my advice...but i never disrespect him...i look up to him...eventhough my education level is higher than him, eventho i earned more than him.....but ppl still respect him, his coulleagues respect him, his superior acknowledge him, his anak buah adore him....everybody is just soo comfortable wif him..but gurls, dun be too comfirtable...
that's the reason i marry him...because i respect him...and i know i can and will respect him when we got married...

Blog Pengantin.....

i think i dun wanna read other bride-to-be's blog....it makes me feels devastate...

they talk bout their big dream wedding...which hotel ballroom their planning to do the reception, which grand hall...how they want the pelamin to be....wut stuff and brand for their hantaran...

who is their wedding planner, which photographer, should they have the video grapher, make up artist with wut brand, which fashion designer-who design-artist-wed-dress...all with big names and wif professional experience...semua yg bukan calang-calang...semua yg famous-famous....which will cost u a fortune....

while on my side, hurrmm.....wut's grand bout my wedding???nada...nothing...

ngak ada....sometime i wish for a big wedding...sometimes i just want a simple wedding....the truth is, i haven't finalize wut kinda wedding i want.....ikutkan, i want a garden wedding by the lakeside at our house in bukit merah...majlis malam...wif a lot of fresh flowers, candle, the wind breeze gently, xde matahari yg panas tetrik....tp.............................

kalo buat kat bukit merah, family nak dtg jauh....xde tpt nak stay..then kalo buat malam plak, most of the guest is from kl....xkan they have to travel back to kl malam..after the reception??isk...

so end up, my wed reception is just infront of our house...pagi nikah, lunch reception...buat in one day...coz family en tunang pun dtg dr seromban...jauh tuh..then mak andam is from taiping...the distance is like from shah alam to gombak....jauh gak le...so buat semua in one day, caterer siap mkn skalik, cameran man dtg sekalik, mak andam pun dtg sekalik...xyah org nak ulang-alik....and for sum of ma frens who wish to witness the akad ceremony, dtg le awal pagi.... and since my wedding is on saturday, and on monday and tuesday is the public holiday....sape yg dah sampai ipoh nak pegi sunway lagoon or penang or where ever they want, bole jerk....

Nak HP tuk hantaran....

Huhu....i luuurrrrvvvveeeee sony ericsson.....once u use sony ericsson, there's no turning back....

i've waited sooooooooooo damn long for sony ericsson's phone WiFi enable with touch screen....and finally they've arrived....i've got choices of Aino, Satio and Xperia...name ntah pape ntah...

i wanted Xperia...coz it's kinda sleek and sophisticated...made a comparison in sony ericsson's website between the three of them...and the winner is...jeng..jeng..jeng....Satio.....

just need to find out how much it'll cost me....kalo cam melampau, ermm...mungkin berangan jela kot jawapnyer....kalo dpt henpon tuh, xdpt beg coach pun xpe...hehehehe.....

how i wish to have Coach on my dulang hantaran...

u read it right..yup, how i wish to have Coach on my wedding dulang hantaran...it's just suiciding to have it on my dulang...mahal macam gampang le beg coach nie...kalo just nak beli wallet dia, macam xberbaloi kot...coz the wallet will only be in a handbag...beli clutch??hurmmm...bukan slalu pakai pun....

rasanyer yg mampu maybe just nine west or charles and keith jerk...hari tuh masuk le butik DKNY...planned wanted to buy baju encik tunang tuk dulang hantaran...or maybe a handbag for me as a hantaran gak...brand jerk cam gempak, but all the cloths and shirts and handbags are soo damn lame...all thats are only available in black....huhuhuhu...pedulik hape aku kalo brand jerk gempak but if da design is crapt, baek xyah...so we can remove DKNY from selection of baju and handbag for dulang hantaran....

i went to this web here, http://coachnmuchmore.blogspot.com/ in a hope to get a cheaper coach handbag, but still it's too damn expensive...xpe le...kuburkan jele hasrat aku nak pakai coach handbag,....pakai jela coach handbag yg kak siti and haji belikan kat china tuh....huhu....

MALAS

hari ni bgn je tido tetibe perasaan sgt le malas nak pegi keje....xtau le nape...xde perasaan langsung nak keje...so sms k siti and tuan haji ckp xdtg keje sbb sakit pale....huhu...kalo dah kepala berat nak bgn, it is actually equal to headache kan???

sambung tido balik sampai kol 11 pagi...wah, sgt besh...tp bile dah dok umah ni buhsan le plak...nasib baek le ade laptop company and broadband which i borrrowed for a weekend...hehe, so sambil doing laundry, ngadap facebook while watching astro....wah, i'm soo multi tasker..still doing 2 round of laundry walaupun hujan yang sgt lebat kat luar...rumah sgt gelap nie sbb hujan lebat....luckily da rain doesn't effect the astro...kalo tak lagi mati kutu le aku...

sebenanyer staying alone at home is not a fun thing to do...tp getting ready to work and stuck in a jem are the worst thing to face....demn...baru jerk sebut pasal astro tak effect during hujan...terus service currently not available plak....xle nak puji ckit pun....

argghhh...nak kuar gi clinic amik mc hujan plak tak berenti-renti....so el le jawapnyer aku hari nie..nasib baek le cuti aku bnyk lagik...ade lg 15 hari...huhuhuh...sape plak masak cucur ptg2 nie...dah le ma favourite snack is cucur bawang...nak buat cucur bawang, ingredients plak tak cukup...isk...

Ariani...

followed k mariena and k siti to ariani kota damansara during our lunch break....xpenah masuk pun ariani nie...this is the 1st time...hari tuh masa beli kain kat jackel mmg niat dihati nak masuk...tp mak and auntie rosinah cam nak cepat..pizi plak time tuh tgh sakit perut kan...so xjadik masuk....

actually, i wanted to buy plain simple black tudung...kalo emergency bole main sarung jerk...bole standby dlm keta pun...huhuhuh....sblm nie semua org dok kata ariani mahal, so nak tgk sendirik le mahal ke dak...td beli simple black tudung...harga RM50..pastuh ade discount 25%, jadik RM41 jerk...murah kan...even lg murah dr tudung yg raihan and azlin jual...

nak belikan satu tudung tuk mak gak...tp, when i think again, kang mak main masuk jerk tudung nie dlm washing machine..beli dah le mahal2...macam tudung i gave to her tu...sekati jerk masuk machine...huhu....maybe on our next visit tu ariani, i'll buy one for her...

sementara dok tunggu k mariena and kak siti dok memilih tudung, aku pun survey sambil berangan carik tudung tuk nikah and sanding....and i've got the idea wut i'm gonna wear on my big day...huhu...belanja koreh ckit le...but it's ok, it's worth it...once in a lifetime...huhuhuh....aku xtgk pun harga td..just berangan jerk...nnt nak bwk kain baju nikah next visit to ariani...kat ipoh mmg ade ariani gak...tp, kat kota damansara nie dpt 20% discount khas tuk staff HDC...huhuhuh...next month le kot beli tudung...of course i wanna bring mak and k linda along..my consultant...maybe kak kema skalik since she's my mak andam....

td aizat dok saiko aku...dia plak sebok dok count down....ami, hari nie 99 hari lg...sok 98 hari lagi...isnin 96 hari jerk lagik....isk aizat nie...nape laki kalo kawen cam relax jerk...pompuan jerk cam bz and susah hati???

100 days to go...

giler ah ding dong....
macam dah dekat sgt jerk....tggl 100 hari jerk...okay, let's chck wut have been done....

DONE
1. Book mak andam and baya deposit RM500
2. Book cameraman...tp dia cam xkompom jerk..nak kene email balik tanya nie...
3. Book catering..Wah jerk caterernyer...will finalize the menu on Dec
4. Book wedding cake dgn mama...will finalize the design on Dec
5. Book cake hantaran dgn mama gak...finalize on Dec...
6. Book cupcake for door gift lagik skalik ngan mama...finalize the design on Dec
7. Bought family attire
8. Tempah langsir...mak yg tempah sbb mak yang nak sgt langsir baru...
9. Beli kain baju nikah...

TO DO
1. Buat HIV test
2. Daftar kawen dgn Jabatan Agama Islam Perak
3. Buat wedding card
4. Tempah baju nikah mine and encik tunang
5. Beli tudung untuk nikah and reception
6. Beli tudung cam siti tuk nikah
7. Design baju reception dgn Kak kema
8. Come out with the guest list
9. Beli tilam baru..katil xyah sbb umah dah bnyk sgt katil...nnt nak kene angkut ke kl plak..
10. Decide who's going to be the bride's maid...
11. Beli baju bride's maid...
12. Finalize the wedding concept...masa design baju reception...
13. Decide on the place for honeymoon...nie encik tunang punyer keje...
14. Cari rumah sewa..move in on February..encik tunang jugak kene buat...

wah my to do list is much longer compared to the done list...it's just another 100 days...damn la...wut to do...wut to do....

Addicted...

sblm nie addict dok ngadap facebook....tp skang cam dah tak....

cam dah teraddict ngan blog balik...huhu...xnak bekebun kat farmville dah...nak edit blog jerk...
hari ni aku dah berjaya menukar background tanpa menghilangkan countdown kat sblh tuh...yeay.....nak cantek0cantekkan blog nie secantek-canteknyer....huhu...perah saan....

LOST...

i think i'm lost...

i dunno wut else to do....wut's next and wut i've done and completed....it's just another 100 days....
bole tak kalo cam nak postpone??huhu....feels like there's lotsa thing need to be done....and sumtimes i had a feeling that i've done everything...

isk...kompius...ape lg nie...?? checklist punyer bnyk sampai dah terkompius...kat diary ratu sehari ade, kata my wed scrapbook pun ade, kat excell pc nie pun ade...huhu...xtau mana satu yg betul dan tepat...i think i need to list down one by one again........

My favourite song from my favourite singer

I'm a train wreck in the morning
I'm a bitch in the afternoon
Every now and then without warning
I can be really mean towards you
I'm a puzzle yes in deed
Ever complex in every way
And all the pieces aren't even in the box
And yet, you see the picture clear as day.

I don't know why you love me
And that's why I love you
You catch me when I fall
Accept me flaws and all
And that's why I love you

I neglect you when I'm working
When I need attention I tend to nag
I'm a host of imperfection
And you see past all that
I'm a peasant by some standards
But in your eyes I'm a queen
You see potential in all my flaws
and that's exactly what I mean.

I don't know why you love me
And that's why I love you
You catch me when I fall
Accept me flaws and all
and that's why I love you

Yeehhaaa....

yesterday, i've spend almost half a day just to add in the count down in the sidebar on the right side of this blog...huhuhu...lama giler...yeler, dolu masa belajar xnak blaja bebetul kan....assignment upah org...

bile cam dah berjaya, bangga le sat...yeler, took almost half a day..tp buat sambil keje...so mmg le amik masa lama...pastuh edit2 lg blog nie....nak tuka2 kaler..nak boh kaler pink gak..edit punyer edit skalik terus hilang countdown tuh....cam p*****...penat aku ngadap...so berusaha gak nak masukkan balik....edit itu edit ini, tgk jam..rupenyer dah kol 10 malam...huhu....

tp akhirnya berjaya gak...wuhhuu.....

My Wedding Blog

macam beba dia ade website wedding dia...tp memandangkan aku tak reti nak buat website, aku buat blog jele kan...

so, i wanna make this blog as my official wedding blog....