Baby Checklist Updated Lagik skalik

this is an updated post from Baby Checklist....itu hari masa aku gi chck up...lepas tuh bantai pulun shopping barang bb...dr Mydin USJ sbb nak beli infant bath support le...sbb Nad ckp ctu murah...skalik stok abes da.....pas gi Mydin, gi JJ plak....seharian ko bejalan.....so hasilnya adalah....


Baby Wear

1. Bodysuit - 7 Done !! (Sally, ko jgn lupe yg aku order kat ko lg satu tuh...yg kat bawah nie) (nie bodysuit paling mahal aku beli tuk hemsem boy....aku beli gak sbb dia cam kiut)
2. Sleep suit/Jumper - 8 Done!! (itu hari aku beli kat JJ..ade sale kot...Anakku bawah RM10...peh tuh aku gi MYdin..mmg murah giler...dah le design selumber jerk dia tiru design MotherCare...aku rembat le smp 4)
3. Bonnet - 2 Done!!
4. Bootees & Mittens - 9 pairs Done!! (sebab boobs and sally soh aku beli bnyk kan?? aku cukupkan 9 booties & mittens...pehtuh aku beli 3 socks....cukup tak skang???)
5. Bibs - 9 Done!! (itu hari aku tgk ade jual kat Toys R Us sgt kiut....7 helai RM49.90...walaupun tuk 3+ years...aku beli gak)
6. Wash Cloth - 8 Done!! (nie aku beli gunanyer tuk lap air liur meleleh ke, muak ke, nangis ker...huhu...alasan yg direka semata-mata)
7. Sleeping bag - 2 Done!! (aku beli satu sudah...bukan pakai all da time pun)
8. Receiving Blanket - 4 Done!! (aku gi beli gak receiving blanket yg ade hood satu...masa dia nak balik sepital nnt dia nak pakai....)
9. Diaper Bag - 1 Done!! (itu hari dah beli simple dimple size L masa kat Parenthood Expo tuh)
10. Back Support Sleep System - 1 (aku xtau ape jadah mende nie....so aku cam xnak beli le...huhu)
11. Bengkung Baby - 7 Done!! (itu hari aku beli 3 helai...pehtuh Pah ade jahit 7 tuk aku ngan K Linda punyer anak..)

Feeding

1. Bottles - 6 Done!! (dapat free 6 bijik botol masa beli Medela Minie E itu hari)
2. Nipples - 4 Done!!
3. Sterilizer - Done!! (1st baby stuff yg aku beli...beli 2nd hand dr Nad, bini opismate aku merangkap coursemate ms kat MMU)
4. Nipple/Bottle Brush - (aku nak beli kat JJ...itu hari aku tgk satu set tuh dapat berus + bottle rack + 6 botol beso....murah je kot.....xsampai RM20 pun>> siot jerk...dah tak jual dowh....xkan nak beli munckin rack tuh...mcm mahal tak logik jerk.....kene gi manjaku balik....sbb itu hari aku tgk dia ade jual...)
5. Bottle Rack
6. Milk & food Warmer Done!! (sudahnyer aku beli yg little Bean tuh....so skang dah ade 2 sterilizer...sbb memula aku tanya K Linda nak beli ke dak sbb aku nak warmer jerk...dia kt xnak....so bg jele...xkan aku nak simpan smp 2 kan??? pehtuh harga RM199.90 ade discount 20%..jadik RM159.92)
7. Nursing Poncho - Done !! (tapi aku tak beli poncho le....aku beli nursing bibs...sbb cam lg senang...dia cam bibs ikat kat tengkuk...pehtuh ade poket....huhu....yg aku tak puas ati pasal bibs nie, sbb dia jahit tebalik....so bintang aku dah tetonggeng....haih) tengok bintang kat bawah tuh..tertonggeng kan?? camne le dia jahit..??
   
8. Electric Flusk - (nie aku tambah sendirik...sbb nie kes kalo anak tak susu badan... memlm nak air panas tuk bancuh susu anak ke kan....xkan anak dah melalak time tuh baru nak masak air kan)

Breast Feeding

1. Breast Pump - Done !!
2. Nursing pad - Done!! (aku tak pakai nursing pad le tapi....aku pakai milk collection shell)
3. Nursing Pillow - Done!!
4. Milk Storage Container - Done!! (kan dpt 6 botol free masa beli package breast pump tuh)
5. Breast Pump Traveling Bag - Done!!
   
6. Cooler pack - Done!!

Bath & Hygiene

1. Bath Tub - Done!! (beli kat Ikea RM19.90 hari tuh)
2. Infant bath support - Done!! (aku beli kat ntah ape ke nama butik bb kat OU nie...murah jerk kot...RM21.90...dr beli yg Anakku tuh cam mahal jerk)
3. Baby Towel - 2 Done!!
4. Baby Nail Clipper/scissors - (tak beli pun lg....masa aku nak beli tuh tetibe plak aku rasa cam xde pekdah....huhu....nnt le aku pikirkan balik nak beli ke dak....) nie yg aku tgk kat Tos"r"us tuh....
5. Soft Brush & Comb - (skalik ngan set no 4)
   
6. Infant Clinical Thermometer - (skalik ngan set no 4)
7. Diaper - Done!! (aku beli Pet Pet for new born yang ade lubang tuk navel tuh sampai 2 paket ko...satu RM16.90...dlm ade 32 keping)
8. Nappy Liner - Done!! (aku beli nie sbb dolu mak pesan kat maksu aku...bb kencing and berak tak bny...so kalo asyik nak tuka lampin mahal...so boh nappy liner kat lampin dia...jimat ckit)
   

Baby Gear / Traveling

1. Infant Car Seat - Done!! (aku beli masa Parenthood Expo)
2. Stroller - Done!! (satu set ngan Infant Car Seat tuh....RM359 jerk itu hari aku beli)
3. Thermos tumbler - (nie kalo tak breast feed la...sbb nak bancuh2 susu)
4. Milk Powder Dispenser - (nie pon kalo tak breast feed)
5. Bakul Traveling - (nie wajib berada di dalam kereta sbb nak boh benda2 no 3&4 ngan tong susu lagik...baju spare....huhu)

Mummy punyer stuff

1. Kain batik - 7 Done!! (nnt balik ipoh aku nak cilok kain batik mak bebnyk)
2. T-shirt lengan panjang - 7 Done!! (nak cilok mak punyer jugak)
3. Socks - 3
   
4. Nursing Bra/Sports Bra - 4 Done!! (3 nursing bra...satu sports bra aku beli kat Daiso RM5 jerk)
5. Set Bersalin - dah order NR kat k Engku Bidan Bersalin tuh....
6. Bengkung - 2 (satu yg mak jahit tuk K Linda...satu lg aku kene beli....nak ade 2...yele mn le tau terbocor ke nnt)
7. Maternity Pad - Done!! (Cap Madame...beli 20 keping jerk....nnt ingat nak pakai pad bese kot...sbb aku tgk madame nie cam straight jerk size dia dr depan ke blkg....kalo pad bese tuh, at least blkg dia mengembang...and ade kepak bole terbang...)
8. Baca Suroh Yusof - Done!! (InsyaAllah anak kita elok rupe cam nabi yusof)
9. Baca Suroh Maryam - Done!! InsyaAllah senang beranak
10. Baca Suroh Yassin - Done!! InsyaAllah tuk selamat semua
11. Baca Suroh Al-Mulk - nie aku tak pasti....Yeh yg suruh....dia pun xsure tuk ape...huhuhu.....

nanti nak beli cot plak....aku and mr hubby dah setuju nak beli cot kat ikea tuh gak...kecik pun xpe...sbb maybe bile dah umo 3 thn, dia kene tido katil besa...sbb nanti adik dia plak nak tido dlm cot...huhu.....pehtuh aku nak beli tilam kekabu nnt masa balik ipoh time raya haji......

8th months check up......

yesterday i went for my 8th month chck up.....and i have a long list of question to ask da doctor....

from my last month chck punyer berat, till today exactly 1 month gap...berat aku naik 1kg jerk....so progress berat aku ialah based on blog post nie....

4th month = + 2.5kg
5th month = + 1 kg
6th month = - 0.5 kg
7th month = + 5 kg
8th month = + 1kg

total weight gain = 9 kg....
aku tanya doc ok ke naik 1kg jerk...dia kt ok le tuh....slalu org naik 1-3 kg....and average naik 2 kg...so ok le nie...then scan le cam bese...anak aku plak naik 0.4 kg jerk...jadik 1.7kg....hurm.... cam kecik jerk....itu hari ko cam besa sgt....tgh dok scan-scan tuh...tetibe hemsem boy nie bole plak menguap....captured la dlm screen scanner tuh kan.....huih...yeye dia nguap...cam tak cukup tido jerk....cam smlm pegi sekolah, peh tuh gi kokurikulum, peh tuh mlm buat homework lak kan??? padahal keje ko dok dlm tuh mmg tido jerk....jgn le ko jadik penyegan cam daddy ko...ooopppss....hahaha....peh tuh doc tuh pun mcm terkeksited plak tgk bdk tuh menguap....hahaha.....

smlm kene cucuk kancing gigi lagi skalik....isk...nasib baek this time tak sakit sgt dah...hr nie pun xbengkak tpt kene cucuk tuh....so bermula la sesi soal jawap ngan doc.....

soklan 1
aku : doc, sy kalo bole nnt sy nak besalin normal....dan kalo bole sy xnak cucuk epidural....
doc : ok bole...nape awak xnak cucuk epidural???
aku : sbb saya baca dlm buku, epidural nie long term akan effect tulang belakang...
doc : xde le...mn ade...epidural nie pun, dia cucuk in between tulang....xkan doc nak bg benda yg memudaratkan kesihatan....tp terpulang le...ade yg bole tahan sakit dia xnak le...tp ade yg br skalik contraction dah menjerit-jerit, mmg dia request epidural le...tp terpulang kat awak kalo bole tahan sakit.....

soklan 2
aku : nnt masa sy deliver bb normal, mmg bawah tu akan terkoyak ke??
doc : slalunyer 1st bb mmg akan terkoyak....(bole plak dia jawap dgn jujur kan??)
aku : doc koyak ke atau terkoyak sendiri??
doc : kita akan potong la....(time nie aku dah buat muka dah) sbb kalo kita tak potong awal2, takut nnt tpt2 lain plak yg akan terkoyak...nnt lg bnyk plak nak kene jahit...sini nak jahit, sana nak jahit....(eh doc nie, ramah plak ko hari nie...rajin plak ko nak becerita kan?? slalu ko cam memalu...kalo sembang muka aku pun ko xnak pandang)
aku : nnt doc bius la sblm potong....
doc : alah time tuh awak dah sakit contraction....sy potong pun awak tak sedar and tak rasa sakit...(ko jawap mmg selamber kan doc!!)

soklan 3
aku : saya bercadang nak fully bf....so saya nak tanya la ok ke kalo sy pakai set bersalin???
doc : depends pada product tu la....kalo product tu fully herba xde jamu2 and benda2 lain ok la... sbb takut nnt anak awak kene kuning....elok awak mkn 2 minggu lps deliver la....contoh produk yg cam herba tuh NR la....
aku : owh..Nona Roguy?? sy mmg cadang nak pakai NR...
so kene le aku tempah kat k Engku Bidan bersalin....ade 3 set aku nak beli...k Linda, aku ngan jajamban.....

soklan 4
aku : nnt sy nak besalin kat cni...and insyaAllah nak pantang kat Ipoh...bole ke kalo sy nak travel tuh??
doc : bole jerk...ade je yg hari nie besalin, sok naik flight balik kb....
aku : naik flight lain doc...kejap je dah sampai....
doc : ade je naik keta....ok jerk...padahal kalo naik flight patutnya pressure kat bdk tuh punyer telinga....tp ok jerk....
aku : bole ke nak pasang aircond....xbentan??
doc : OK jerk....

soklan 5
aku : sy nie InsyaAllah nak fully bf...tp nipple sy belah kanan nie mcm xberapa nak kuar...
doc : awak kene biasakan dr skrg...cr senang awak amik syringe, awak potong dpn dia....then awak tarik le...nie cr paling murah la...(siap dia call nurse soh masuk bwk syringe saiz bape ml ntah dia sebut)....tak pun kat kedai ade je jual nipple formation....awak kene biasakan dr skang..nnt takut nipple awak tak kuar....
then lps jumpe doc ms dok shopping kat jj....mr hubby a.k.a pakar sakit puan tak bergaji ckp..."td kan u tanya doc pasal nipple tuh kan...sebananyer doc salah...xyah guna syringe kalo nak jimat..." pas tuh aku terus nyampuk..."xyah...i tau u nak ckp ape"....dia gelak, pastuh dia ckp "mesti doc tuh pelik....nape laki dia tak tolong??"....pehtuh mlm tuh ms nak tido sempat lg, "u nak i tolong kuarkan nipple u ke??"...bole plak kan???

so smlm adalah sesi shopping sakan....huhu....pulun nak beli semua brg...tggl baby cot je kot...nnt aku update psl Baby Checklist Updated Version......

8th month pregnant

lubang piercing aku tak tutup lg tuh....pusat pun tak tersentil lg...huhu....
(sila abaikan stretch mark yg mmg ade kat peha dr before mengandung dan parut2 yg lain...hahaha...)

Tajuk Confinement lagik....

please refer to this topic Confinement....

dalam tuh kan aku ade citer yg aku nak pantang kat Sri kembangan...umah adik arwah mak....since last 2 weeks i wanted to call Mak Anjang (Mak's younger brother's wife..huhu) sbb nak kompomkan balik pasal nak pantang kat umah dia....tp dr sehari ke sehari asyik lupe jerk...then weekend lepas pun K Linda soh call balik kompom ngan mak anjang pasal nak pantang ngan dia....sbb time tuh kan cuti sekolah...and mak anjang nie jenis suka berholiday during school break....

then semalam mak anjang call time lunch....kebetulan aku tgh meeting tru lunch...ade delegates dari India nie dtg plak...aku kene represent Tuan Haji....nasib baek English India nie jenis bole paham...bukan jenis lecturer aku dr India masa kat MMU dolu...huhu....lupe dah ajar subject ape....pehtuh nasib baik kadar pergerakan kepala dia pun macam agak kurang...huhu...kire nie educated punyer India dari India and derang nie cam jet setter gak le...so ok le....

after meeting aku return call mak anjang balik...and da conversation was something like this:

Mak Anjang : kamu deliver bape haribulan
Aku : 23 Dec...InsyaAllah....
Mak Anjang : haa...elok le tuh....mmg kene le cancel plan nak pantang kat umah mak anjang...aciknyer (her maid) nak balik kampung....balik terus...xnak balik sini dah.....
Aku : haa??? balik terus?? nape nak balik terus?? dulu pun dia kata nak balik terus tp tak jadik pun....
Mak Anjang : kali nie dia nak balik terus...lepas kejadian yang dia jatuh tuh, mak dia pun soh dia balik jerk Indon terus...xyah dah keje....
Acik nie masa time raya itu hari dia ade jatuh tangga...dia ade amek upah jaga bdk umor setahun lebey....then dia dari atas dok gendong bdk tuh belari turun tangga nak angkat kain sbb hujan...pehtuh ntah camne dia bole slipped and jatuh....dia pun xingat jatuh camne...tp aku tgk cam teruk le...sbb mata dia sampai lebam and bengkak...then tgn dia terseliuh sampai xle nak angkat....
Aku : soh le adik pujuk (adik is da youngest child and acik's favorite among all...acik dah jaga dia dr dia newborn sampai le bdk tuh dah darjah 2...just imagine how long she has been working there....)
Mak Anjang : xpe le...bebdk tu pun dah besa...acik xde pun xpe....(bunyik cam majuk je...huhu)
Aku : nnt sape nak jaga bebdk tuh??
Mak Anjang : anjang ade...opah pun ade....so kamu kene carik le tpt nak pantang.....
Aku : tuler...nak pantang kat ipoh dgn K Linda, dia ckp dia pun blum dpt maid lg...

after that, i called K Linda....told her bout situasi nie le...peh tuh k linda kata maid tuh xkompom lg...sbb stock maid yg ade nie tgh cam saiko...bole plak gado sesama derang...huhu....then aku ckp, xpe le...sbb kat KL nie ade mak bidan yg dtg hari or stay in dgn kita....dia jaga semua skalik....dr masak, betungku, mandikan kita and mandikan baby.....then K Linda ckp, xpe le...pantang jele kat Ipoh.....

ptg tuh plak, abang call....abg aku nie cam tetau jerk...huhu....walaupun sebenanyer dia call sbb benda lain....then aku cite kat dia pasal acik nak balik Indon...then dia kt pantang jele kat umah dia ngan K Linda....huhu...sayang abg aku....pehtuh aku ckp, K Linda kata maid pun xkompom lg....then abg kata, next week InsyaAllah kompom....agent maid nie plak nasib baek le mak's best fren...

mlm smlm setelah bebincang ngan Mr Hubby....walaupun dia ade gak melemparkan idea yg tak bernas and tak membantu sgt....huhu.....ade ke dia soh aku pantang kat umah pah (bapak's mother)??? aku ckp org tua tuh nak bejln pun dah tak larat sgt....then dia ckp wan (bapak's younger sister who has never been married...and she's older than mak) kan ade...aku ckp, "giler ker...i nie bukan her fav niece..." so dia kata, xpe le...pantang jele kat Ipoh umah K Linda...aku cam xnak pantang kat ipoh memula dolu sbb aku nak mr hubby ade setiap hari melihat perkembangan dan tumbesaran anak dia....lgpun kalo hemsem boy nie cam terberak ker...termuntah ke...bole le soh dia cucikan...muahahaha.....lgpun sian le dia nak balik every week....dia ckp dia balik le Ipoh ptg pas keje naik train or bus...then ahad ptg balik kl balik....huhuhu....macam ye dia nak naik public transport le kan??? then aku decide pantang kat ipoh pun maybe 2 weeks jerk....after that balik le umah sendirik....

then aku cam menyuarakan le, nape mama (MIL) xnak pun offer jaga i masa pantang?? mama tak sayang kat i ke?? diam cam xde jawapan...then dia tanya, "u nak ke pantang kat Seremban"...then aku jawap, "i pun mmg xnak"....mn aku nak dok weih??? umah tuh kan besepah and serabut....bilik pun xde...xkan aku nak dok kat hall jerk....?? lgpun xkan le mentua aku yg dok keje shift tuh nak masakkan tuk aku kan?? its just the courtessy of asking and offering...sbb akak ipar pz dolu tuh, ade jerk mak bapak..and mak dia suri rumah tangga lg...tp dia pantang kat seremban....hurm....then aku ckp, "Kalo ade mak mesti tak susah kan?? mak dolu siap jaga menantu dia 2 org".....

OUTING...

mak buyong nie dah mengidam nak karaoke dr 2 minggu lepas dah.....huhu...bole plak mengidam mkn tak...tp mengidam karaoke....so mlm minggu sabtu yg lalu kami pun mengumpulkan konco-konco karaoke yang lain......mr hubby keje that Saturday....and i've been stuck at home da whole day...huhu...bukan stuck pun....maleh nak kuar jerk...ingat nak gi Celcom TTDI nak tuka nama account holder...yele mak dah meninggal 4 bln tp da phone line i still under her name....kol 12:00 pm aku call Celcom Careline, dia ckp branch tutup at 12:30pm...so cam xsempat le plak...aku time tuh baru terhegeh2 nak setat mkn....hahah....

ingat dah gi Celcom TTDI tuh nak gi le Fabulous Mom Boutique skalik sbb nak belikan binder tuk K Linda (SIL)...dia xpakai bengkung bese sbb dia Caesar kan.....lgpun ade voucher 15% discount.....so since nak gi Celcom TTDI pun dah xsempat, aku pun melengah2....and akhirnya hujan....hujan + hari minggu + home alone + TV yg penuh dengan Rancangan Khas which was persidangan UMNO = T.I.D.O...........huhuhu.....

then lepas Mr Hubby balik, siap2 terus le ke destinasi yg dinantikan....Wangsa Walk tuk berkarok....sementara tggu giliran ternampak plak butik Manjaku kat ctu...terpaksa le masuk dan beli sepasang lagi baju bb berharga RM8.....huhuhu...murah kan??? org2 kat Wangsa Maju nie cam jakun jerk tgk yummy mummy-2-b pegi karok...salah ke??? then ade member kitowang si Fathul nie pilih lahu "Itu Aku" by Sheila on 7......then mr hubby ckp kat aku, "Anas bawak lagu nie sedap kan???"....huhu...tetibe jer dia bole teringat kat Anas....aku pun jawap "derang laki bini suara mmg sedap"....huhu....lepas karok wajib le lepak maple....dan mlm minggu tuh berakhir pd pukul 3:30am....hahaha.....bile lg kan nak lepak mcm tuh??? sok dah ade sihemsem boy nie.....

melentur buloh biar dr rebung....tp plis la, jgn harap mommy nak bg ko masuk reality tv tuk jadik artis.....nak jd artis pun jgn harap le erk.....

Ahad gi kenduri umah Chubby kat Sri Gombak....tetibe si Farouk nie ajak plak tgk wayang....padahal agenda aku hari ahad dgn Mr Hubby dah bersusun dah....agenda2 kitowang :

1. gi Kenduri umah Chubby
2. pegi Ampang Waterfront sbb nak gi butik baby...padahal butik Manjaku gak...aku ingat butik lain
3. nak gi service Mr Bubu....
4. then nak gi Mydin USJ....sbb Nad bini Elyas ckp brg baby kat ctu murah....lgpun aku nak carik tpt mandi tuk boh dlm bath tub tuk newborn...dia kata RM9 je.....
5. pehtuh nak singgah umah Mama (mak angkat me & my brothers) sbb nak baya hutang wedding cake yg kalo Ah Long la, dah putus 10 jari tgn aku...punyer lambat nak baya....and nak jumpe dia sbb cam rindu...huhu....
6. nak gi Toys R Us OU sbb nak beli bib, baby's grooming set....and memacam lg brg baby...huhu.....

tapi berkesudahan, lepas gi kenduri umah chubby gi tgk movie plak.....si farouk le ajak...pastuh mr hubby pun cam nak gi jerk....kitowang pun dah lama tak gi tgk movie.....gi le ke MBO kat Ampang.....nasib baik ade citer RED....kalo xde pun nak tgk cite "Life as We Know it".....cite pasal parenting....huhu...cam besh jerk....pelakon pun mmg kami sgt suka....


RED was marvelous....mmg 2 thumbs up...sgt besh and so very da funny......sihemsem dlm perut nie punyer ler tak diam....menonggeng2....excited tgk action movie kot....sorry le hemsem boy, mommy mmg xkan bg ko jadik encik polis punyer...not in a million years....huhu.....


so that's wrap up our outing and lepak-lepaking....xtau le bile lg dpt lepak karok and mapley smp tgh mlm...sok dah ade sihemsem boy nie, kalo bole try not to bg dia kene embun mlm....xelok sgt kan.....

"ape ko dah buat kat aku??? huh???!!!"

"tgk sampai dah buncit perut aku ko buat!!!!"

Breast Feeding Class

Wut???
Breast Feeding Preparation Class

When??
6th November 2010
9:30am - 12:30pm

Where??
Mom's Little Ones
25-2, Jln BPP 5/1,Permai Square 1,
Pusat Bandar Putra Permai,
43300 Seri Kembangan,
Selangor Darul Ehsan
03-89254614

Who??
Mommy and Daddy

How Much??
RM110 per couple (mommy + daddy)
Account Holder : Medulla Solutions
No Accoount: 5624-4180-0835
Bank : Maybank

Why??
In this class we will address below topics:
- Infant Feeding and Cultural Expectations
- How Were We Fed?
- Our Babies
- Breastfeeding Basics
- Breastfeeding Myth You May Hear
- How to Find Breastfeeding Help and Why You May Need it?
- You will also gain some information through watching breastfeeding video in this class!

Participants will be taking home some FREE goodies too!
- An eco shopping bag worth RM 5
- Panduan Penyusuan Susu Ibu booklet worth RM10
- Breastfeeding Articles
- Susuibu.com -- Parents' Info Kit (Special Folder complete with Breastfeeding Articles & handouts - we encourage parents to treat it like a manual/scrapbook which you may add on more info & serves as your reference throughout your parenting journey!)
worth RM 30

Credit to Hot Mommy Sally for the info...really appreciate it....For more info just go here and here

Set Bersalin....

haaa....ni pun salah satu isu gak tuk mom-to-be nie.....nak memikirkan nak pakai set bersalin cap ape...sbb terlampau le bnyknyer set bersalin in da market....orang kampung le, afiat le, NR le, Mustika Ratu le, Amway le, Sendayu Tinggi le.....memacam le lagik....kalo nak tau ape lg segala macam mak nenek punyer produk, gi le blog Kak Engku Bidan Bersalin nie.....

then ade plak kwn aku nie cik puan Sally nie....dia kt set bersalin nie and all da jamu can effect the production of breast milk....since aku nie kurang ilmu and agak jahil dan punca rujukan pun xde, ape org ckp jerk aku cam nak percaya....huhu....so, aku pun tanya le dkt Kak Engku nie....aku email dia....

"Saya mengandung 30 minggu. Saya bercadang untuk breast feed anak saya selama yang boleh..kalau boleh nak sampai dia 2 tahun….Tapi ada yang mengatakan kalau kita mengambil set lepas bersalin atau jamu, ia akan mempengaruhi penghasilan susu ibu. Susu ibu itu akan berkurangan. Betul ker?"

dan ini jawapan dia....

"tahniah kerana hamil sekarang nie, akak memang suka bile dengar ibu yang bersemangat nak BF...untuk pengetahuan sikit sebanyak memang pengambilan set bersalin akan mempengaruhi ibu yang menyusukan baby, namun begitu terdapat juga produk dari set bersalin yang merangsangkan pengeluaran susu contohnya produk nona roguy dan juga terdapat lain-lain produk di pasaran"

Set NR consist of
a. Phytonatal (90 Tablets) ~ Untuk kegunaan dalaman
b. Akar Herbanika (10 Paket) ~ Untuk kegunaan dalaman
c. Herbanika Barut Krim (60 gm) ~ Untuk kegunaan Luar
d. Uncang Cuci Herbanika (10 Paket) ~ Untuk kegunaan Luar
e. Herbanika Lulur (100 gm) ~ Untuk kegunaan Luar
f. Minyak Herbanika (100 ml) ~ Untuk kegunaan luar
for more infor click here and here and also here
harga RM360 tp cam ade promotion jadik RM290.....pehtuh dia ckp bole plak nak baya ansuran....huhu....

so, tak salah le niat aku nak pakai produk NR nie...dolu pun masa aku form 4, aku dah setat mkn jamu nona roguy nie.....bdn mmg bole le tahan....takat nak maintain pinggan 24 and punggung 36 tuh mmg xde hal le....perut pun ala2 kempis gitu....gi swimming kat cyberia dolu pakai 2 pieces kire xde hal le...huhu....tp bile lps MMU aku dah stop...sbb time tuh mak soh aku beli sendirik...yele dah abes blaja kan.....dia dah xnak sponsor....hahahaha...bole plak kan??? tuh yg bdn cam ala2 meletup ckit pas MMU tuh....huhu...tp set nie xde bengkung...seb baek bengkung yg mak buat tuk k linda tuh, dia nak bg aku.....so just kene beli lg satu jerk....

then aku ade gak terpikir nak mkn set Orang Kampung...sbb set nie aku tgk certified by KKM and dpt sijil halal JAKIM....then aku tanya balik Kak Engku tuh...dia jawap set org kampung nie lg lengkap and lg traditional la....then dia kt client dia so far amek produk nie, xde effect BM production dia...aku pun xtau lg nak amek set yg mana....kalo based on experience, aku ok jerk ngan NR nie....

Set Orang Kampung Consist of
a) Seri Lulur
b) Seri Pilis
c) Seri Susut
d) Kapsul Kacip Fatimah
e) Minyak Telon
f) Minyak Gamat
g) Minyak Merah
h) Jeli Gamat
i) Ubat Periuk
j) Bengkung
harga RM160....info from here........

pehtuh pada masa yg sama aku nak mkn supplement Shaklee gak le...sbb aku kan mmg mkn Shaklee...even time pregnant nie pun aku mkn Osteomatrix (Calcium), Vitamin C and Energizing Soy Protein....tp aku mls nak bancuh...huhu....

Set bersalin Shaklee:
a) B-Complex = for energy and utk menenangkan perasaan gak le
b) Vitamin C = mempercepatkan luka sembuh & memperbaiki sel
c) Vita-Lea = menggantikan iron sbb darah bnyk hilang ms bersalin
d) Zinc = reconstruct sel
more info please read here.....
so aku cam nak mkn set breast feeding kat bawah nie jerk....sbb ape yg ade dlm set bersalin ade dlm set BF nie....


Shaklee BF Set
a) Vita-Lea = For Iron/Zat Besi
b) Vitamin B-Complex = For Energy and ade ckp tuk mengelakkan meroyan...huhu...
c) Vitamin C = For antibody agent dlm susu....
d) Alfalfa = Menggalakkan Milk Production
e) Energizing Soy Protein = to give energy to mother and increase protein in milk
f) Osteomatrix = utk Calcium for Baby and mother
for more info please go here.....

lgpun abg2 aku ngan mak aku dolu pun distributor.....anak buah aku delinot tuh, ms K Linda pregnant mkn Shaklee...mmg dia Alhamdulillah sehat jerk....cerdik plak tuh...dan mendengar kata...nie kalo compare ngan Afrina anak K Sal yg mmg xmkn langsung produk Shaklee nie sbb she think she know everything and she trust doctor, only doctor....mcm2 masalah kesihatan kene kat Afrina tuh....sian dia...tp kita xle le nak ckp sbb amalan pemakanan mak dia time pregnant ke hapa ke...tuh semua ketentuan Allah.....anak aku pun nnt xtau lg camne ntah.....wut we can do is berusaha asalkan benda tuh semua tak memudaratkan......

Doa-doa ibu mengandung....

itu hari masa aku chat ngan Leha, aku ade le cite pasal doa tuk ibu yg early pregnancy nie...and as promised, this are some of the doa...ustazah pada K Sal (my SIL) yg bagi.....dia bg kat aku lama dah....rupenyer dok dlm henbeg aku sampai dah nak jadik belacan dah....huhu....

Amalan Bulan Pertama hingga ke-4
-Ayat keempat Surah Yusof
إِذۡ قَالَ يُوسُفُ لِأَبِيهِ يَـٰٓأَبَتِ إِنِّى رَأَيۡتُ أَحَدَ عَشَرَ كَوۡكَبً۬ا وَٱلشَّمۡسَ وَٱلۡقَمَرَ رَأَيۡتُہُمۡ لِى سَـٰجِدِينَ
Maksud ayat
(Ingatlah peristiwa) ketika Nabi Yusof berkata kepada bapanya: "Wahai ayahku! Sesungguhnya aku mimpi melihat sebelas bintang & matahari serta bulan: aku melihat mereka tunduk memberi hormat kepadaku".
Ya Allah yang maha pengasih lagi penyayang
Dengan Berkat ayatMu ini, bentukkanlah janin dalam kandunganku ini sempurna, sihat walafiat jasmani & rohaninya

Amalan Bulan ke-4 hingga ke-7
-Ayat 13 & 14 Surah Lukman
وَإِذۡ قَالَ لُقۡمَـٰنُ لِٱبۡنِهِۦ وَهُوَ يَعِظُهُ ۥ يَـٰبُنَىَّ لَا تُشۡرِكۡ بِٱللَّهِ‌ۖ إِنَّ ٱلشِّرۡكَ لَظُلۡمٌ عَظِيمٌ۬ (١٣) وَوَصَّيۡنَا ٱلۡإِنسَـٰنَ بِوَٲلِدَيۡهِ حَمَلَتۡهُ أُمُّهُ ۥ وَهۡنًا عَلَىٰ وَهۡنٍ۬ وَفِصَـٰلُهُ ۥ فِى عَامَيۡنِ أَنِ ٱشۡڪُرۡ لِى وَلِوَٲلِدَيۡكَ إِلَىَّ ٱلۡمَصِيرُ
Maksud Ayat
Dan (ingatlah) ketika Luqman berkata kepada anaknya, semasa dia memberi nasihat kepadanya: "Wahai anak kesayanganki, janganlah engkau mempersekutukan Allah (dengan sesuatu yang lain), sesungguhnya perbuatan syirik itu adalah satu kezaliman yang besar. (13) Dan kami wajibkan manusia berbuat baik kepada ibu bapanya: ibunya telah mengandungnya dengan menanggung kelemahan demi kelemahan (dari awal mengandung hingga akhir menyusunya) dan tempoh menceraikan susunya ialah dalam masa 2 tahun; (dengan yang demikian) bersyukurlah kepadaKu dan kepada kedua ibubapamu; dan (ingatlah), kepada Akulah jua tempat kembali (untuk menerima balasan). (14)
Ya Allah yang maha pengasih lagi penyayang
Dengan berkat ayatMu ini, bentukanlah peribadi anak dalam kandunganku inidengan akhlak yang Kau redhoi, beriman & bertaqwa kepadaMu serta berbuat baik kepada kedua ibu bapa

Amalan bulan-7 hingga melahirkan
-Ayat 78 Surah An-Nahl
وَٱللَّهُ أَخۡرَجَكُم مِّنۢ بُطُونِ أُمَّهَـٰتِكُمۡ لَا تَعۡلَمُونَ شَيۡـًٔ۬ا وَجَعَلَ لَكُمُ ٱلسَّمۡعَ وَٱلۡأَبۡصَـٰرَ وَٱلۡأَفۡـِٔدَةَ‌ۙ لَعَلَّكُمۡ تَشۡكُرُونَ
Maksud Ayat
Dan Allah mengeluarkan kamu dari perut ibu kamu dengan keadaan tidak mengetahui sesuatupun dan Dia mengurniakan kepada kamu pendengaran dan penglihatan serta hati (akal fikiran); supaya kamu bersyukur.
Ya Allah yang maha pengasih lagi maha penyayang
Dengan berkat ayatMu ini, permudahkanlah aku melahirkan kandunganku, dengan cepat dan selamat. Sesungguhnya Kau maha berkuasa atas sesuatu.


kan itu hari aku ade cite kat ko aku nak pos buku nie...tp cam bnyk ayat quran...nnt aku tanya ustaz opis aku, kalo pos ok tak....nama buku tuh "Indahnya Hidup Bersyariat" by Ustaz Ismail Kamus....buku nie pun aireen@kutak and aizul yg bg kat aku as a wedding gift....mmg aku berterima kasih sgt le sbb dia bg buku nie...mmg lengkap....ever since, kengkawan aku punyer wed gift semua aku bg buku nie....so sementara nak tggu bole pos ke dak, aku scan jele bg ko baca....


selain doa-doa nie, surah-surah yg digalakkan baca cam bese le...

1. Surah Yassin
2. Surah Maryam
3. Surah Yusof
4. Surah Al-Mulk
5. Doa Nabi Yunus ketika terperangkap dlm mulut ikan...baca kat sini kalau nak tau lebih lanjut pasal cite tuh....

tapi kalau cam ko dpt khatam quran sepanjang mengandung tuh kire lg baguih le...aku, xsempat dah kot....itu hari pun aku ngaji sambil baring kat opis sementara nak tggu asar...huhu....sakit blkg....skalik kene marah ngan KS aka K Siti....huhu....

P/S: kau/ko dlm post nie ialah leha...huhu...harap maklum....
ayat quran nie semua aku amik dr Quran Explorer

Orang Lain xle, tapi Kau????

ingat tak blog aku tajuk Sorry I can't take it???? ha..nie nak cite pasal KA tuh lagik le...huhu....

who are u to say that keje ko lg bnyk dr orang lain??....orang lain tuh Bullshit?? pastuh ko kt org mkn gaji buta la?? memacam le lagik.....who are u?? doesn't mean that u're UK graduated, or u have been working for 11 years and u have been working more than 5 companies tp paling lm pun ko keje 2thn jerk...ko dah cukup bagus dan cukup pengalaman??

all this while, when me and KS stumble in some bureaucracy, we talk to each other just to let it out of our chest..but just at that time jerk....and this KA slalu menyampuk like she's trap in that situation jugak...and she can simply said org tuh Bullshit la...menyusahkan org la...padahal yg have to deal wif org2 tuh ialah aku and KS tuh....tp dia yg cam lebey2....then when me and KS discuss bout it, sebok dia nak tau....aku sampai jadik rimas....

and b4 this dia bole ckp org mkn gaji buta...then u wanna know wut she's been doing da whole day last Friday??? dari pagi kol 9:00 sampai ke ptg kol 6:30 mmg dia sebok pun....sebok dok ngadap citer Korea....pastuh ko lg nak ckp org bullshit and mkn gaji buta??? hello...look who's talking!! ade le selingan ckit dr cite korea tuh....tp ngadap FB....wut da fak....

pastuh i've been trying to arrange a miting between legal and my superiors for agreement tuk taylor's College...tp it's hard to get their time...so aku rs aku nak proceed jele dgn legal sbb Taylor's college contact me direct and i was da person yg intiate this thing pun....and of course for every project kene ade Project Manager and mestilah trainer....so KH yg mmg manager nie ckp dia tak kesah to appoint who ever as a PM...and aku pun cam xnak dia jadik PM sbb bnyk lagi benda lain dia nak buat.....then i consult Tuan Haji, the head of our department, lg tggi dr KH...dia kt dia nak appoint KA jadik PM since dia xpenah and if not mistaken penah disuarakan that idea...tp ms aku consult Tuan Haji, KA nie ntah mn ntah mengular....and Tuan Haji said, "nnt suruh KA nie telefon sy....biar sy brief kat dia...takut dia nnt tetibe terkejut plak..."sbb every body knows that KA nie xle cam tetibe jerk assign task....kalo dgn dia nie kalo bole, kalo bole le kan....org nak meninggal pun kene bitau dia atleast 2 minggu sblm meninggal le kan??? kire up to that condition....sampai bos plak kene tolerate dgn ko...ape kes....??!!

then bile dia masuk opis, aku ckp le soh call Tuan Haji coz Tuan Haji nak mtk dia jadik PM for this Taylor's College punyer project....bole plak dia jwp, "eh, bukan KH ke PM...kan dia nak buat semua??"....pastuh aku kan mmg mulut cam kimak gak kekadang kan...aku jawap, "habestuh xkan nak saya plak yg jadik?".....pastuh dia pun cam terdiam...and lepas semua org balik, tggl aku ngan EL jerk...."EL pun dtg kat aku tanya, pasal dgn KA tuh??" dan keluarlah semua cite yg selama nie KA nie citer and mengadu especially to KS yang dia teraniaya, dibuli dan diambil kesempatan oleh trainer2 lain.....and this time, i heard da other side of da story......

how da u feel when ur direct superior sendirik pun rs cam dun wanna communicate wif u??? padahal org tuh yg nnt akan buat evaluation ur work....and org tuh can decide ko punyer increment and ur bonus...lepas tuh da head of ur department pun mcm xnak ask u to do anything??? then ur other colleague pun can hesitate to work wif u....pastuh ko stress sbb ko xde keje, then ko pegi buat benda2 yg ko sepatutnya tak perlu pun buat...pastuh ko plak yg stress??? padahal ko tuh single lagik, xde problem ngan laki or anak2..bf pun xde...ko dah stress....bg aku le, kalo ko dah tak tahan dgn boss ko...samada ko try to tolerate or ko blah jerk....kire ko nasib baek le dpt bos yg tak kesah kalo ko MIA, xkesah kalo ko dtg lmbt, xkesah kalo ko ngadap FB, xkesah kalo ko nak msk lmbt.....kalo ko rasa ko tuh bagus sgt, ko pegi le keje tpt lain...tgk bole tak ko dok opis time keje layan cite korea???

Baby Checklist

aku ade 2 checklist...satu aku amik kat butik The First Few Years satu lagik ade dlm buku yg aku beli yg dalam post ni Pregnancy Book. so hari nie aku nak refer yg aku amik dr The First Few Years nie le....

Baby Wear

1. Bodysuit - 6 Done !! (aku dah ade 6...cukup le buat masa nie....kalo bole nak 7...sbb nnt mesti ade org bg lg...huhu...kompiden jerk...ale, aku kan kak dent....)
2. Sleep suit/Jumper - 6 (tp aku br ade 4....2 jumper, 2 2-pieces....nnt nak gi JJ le beli...nak cukupkan 7 gak...tp xnak beli jumper...sbb kalo hensem boy aku nie tercirit ker...dah nak kene tuko semua skalik...aku nak beli 2 pieces, so kalo suar jerk koto, tuka selua jerk....)
3. Bonnet - 2 Done!!
4. Bootees & Mittens - 7 pairs Done!!
5. Bibs - 6 (td beli 3 kat JJ...rege RM10.90...peh tuh masa gi Toys "r" us tetibe terjumpe 7 pieces bibs RM50++ jerk....cute2 plak tuh....tetibe rasa cam nak jual balik jerk yg dah beli kat JJ tuh)...)
6. Sleeping bag - 2 Done!! (aku beli satu sudah...bukan pakai all da time pun)
7. Receiving Blanket - 4 Done!! (bole tak gune lampin jerk...huhu...kedekut kan aku?? itu hari dah beli kat Anakku sampai 10keping....aku tgk kalo nak beli mahal le...tp nnt cam nak ajak mr hubby pegi Kamdar carik kain ala-ala lembut cam receiving blanket tuh....pehtuh soh adik ipar aku Farah tuh jahit tepi jerk...huhuhu....)
8. Diaper Bag - 1 Done!! (itu hari dah beli simple dimple size L masa kat Parenthood Expo tuh)
9. Back Support Sleep System - 1 (aku xtau ape jadah mende nie....so aku cam xnak beli le...huhu)
10. Bengkung Baby - 7 Done!! (itu hari aku beli 3 helai...pehtuh Pah ade jahit 7 tuk aku ngan K Linda punyer anak..)
    

Feeding

1. Bottles - 6 Done!! (dapat free 6 bijik botol masa beli Medela Minie E itu hari)
2. Nipples - 4 (blum beli lg)
3. Sterilizer - Done!! (1st baby stuff yg aku beli...beli 2nd hand dr Nad, bini opismate aku merangkap coursemate ms kat MMU)
4. Nipple/Bottle Brush - (aku nak beli kat JJ...itu hari aku tgk satu set tuh dapat berus + bottle rack + 6 botol beso....murah je kot.....xsampai RM20 pun)
5. Bottle Rack
6. Milk & food Warmer (rasa macam xnak beli jerk mende nie....huhu....kalo nak beli pun later le kot...pas pantang)
7. Electric Flusk - (nie aku tambah sendirik...sbb nie kes kalo anak tak susu badan... memlm nak air panas tuk bancuh susu anak ke kan....xkan anak dah melalak time tuh baru nak masak air kan)

Breast Feeding

1. Breast Pump - Done !!
2. Nursing pad - Done!! (aku tak pakai nursing pad le tapi....aku pakai milk collection shell)
3. Nursing Pillow - Done!!
4. Milk Storage Container - Done!! (kan dpt 6 botol free masa beli package breast pump tuh)
5. Breast Pump Traveling Bag - Done!!
   
6. Cooler pack - Done!!

Bath & Hygiene

1. Bath Tub - Done!! (beli kat Ikea RM19.90 hari tuh)
2. Infant bath support - (kat Anakku tuh mahal betul....so aku nak beli mom's care..RM42 je)
3. Baby Towel - 4
4. Baby Nail Clipper/scissors - (aku nak beli satu set...hari tuh aku tgk kat toys"r"us tp dlm RM130...huhuhuh...kat mom's care pun ade gak....murah ckit..RM84 je) nie yg aku tgk kat Tos"r"us tuh....
5. Soft Brush & Comb - (skalik ngan set no 4)
   
6. Infant Clinical Thermometer - (skalik ngan set no 4)
7. nie yg aku tgk kat mom's Care butik
   

Baby Gear / Traveling

1. Infant Car Seat - Done!! (aku beli masa Parenthood Expo)
2. Stroller - Done!! (satu set ngan Infant Car Seat tuh....RM359 jerk itu hari aku beli)
3. Thermos tumbler - (nie kalo tak breast feed la...sbb nak bancuh2 susu)
4. Milk Powder Dispenser - (nie pon kalo tak breast feed)
5. Bakul Traveling - (nie wajib berada di dalam kereta sbb nak boh benda2 no 3&4 ngan tong susu lagik...baju spare....huhu)

Mummy punyer stuff

1. Kain batik - 7 Done!! (nnt balik ipoh aku nak cilok kain batik mak bebnyk)
2. T-shirt lengan panjang - 7 Done!! (nak cilok mak punyer jugak)
3. Socks - 3
   
4. Nursing Bra/Sports Bra - 4 (aku baru ade 2....satu nursing bra...satu sports bra aku beli kat Daiso RM5 jerk)
5. Set Bersalin - aku nak beli yg Nonu Roguy jerk....aku dah tanya ngan Kak Engku Bidan Bersalin, kalo nak breast feed dia kt produk nie siap ade produk yg akan bnykkan susu)
6. Bengkung - 2 (satu yg mak jahit tuk K Linda...satu lg aku kene beli....nak ade 2...yele mn le tau terbocor ke nnt)
7. Maternity Pad - xtau pun camne rupe dia.....
8. Baca Suroh Yusof - Done!! (InsyaAllah anak kita elok rupe cam nabi yusof)
9. Baca Suroh Maryam - Done!! InsyaAllah senang beranak
10. Baca Suroh Nuh - Done!! InsyaAllah supaya dipermudahkan anak keluar
11. Baca Suroh Yassin - Done!! InsyaAllah tuk selamat semua
12. Baca Suroh Al-Mulk - nie aku tak pasti....Yeh yg suruh....dia pun xsure tuk ape...huhuhu.....
    

Money vs Distance......

i've been long to post bout this...tp cam malas....it's bout marriage life....since i like to blog hop...so, it come to my senses, to think bout it and to blog bout it.....please be inform, this is not refering to anyone...it's just how i felt....

which do u prefer?? money or distance....?? this is referring to your hubby....do u prefer a husband wif lots of money or in other words money is never a problem to him and to you...he can buy u lots of things....u dun have to contribute to any household expenses, when u dun have monye u can just ask him for it....but he's not always around which in this situation, he works off shore or abroad......where he won't be with you all da time...

or.....

a husband wif a normal job, earn sufficient enuff to pay all da debts but always by your side??for me, i'll choose distance....i am an independent women....i take control of myself and i manage to do things on my own....but..............i can say that i'm manja...i need company...when i fall i need someone to catch me....and i need some one to talk to when i got something bothering me...tp i'm not da person yg nak 24/7 berkepit je....sumtimes mr hubby ade jerk buat OT balik lambat...during weekend dia keje ke...or dia gi kuar jumpe kawan ke, main futsal ke...gi kursus dan tgglkan aku ke...ade jerk....

tp, i need him to be by my side contoh macam bile aku demam....Alhamdulillah mr hubby is very passionate bile aku demam....dia akan bawak aku gi klinik....dia akan suap aku mkn....kalo aku muntah pun dia bole le tadah....kalo cam aku, baru dengar org uwek jerk....aku pun dah nak uwek....tp mr hubby nie dia bole le kalo takat nak lap muntah aku ke....then bile aku nak gi shopping ke, tgk wayang ke, nak gi umah sedara mara ke, nak gi memana le...dia ade...kire he's my bestfren gak le...and dia ade setiap kali aku gi check up baby....he never miss....dan i just found out that, kalo mr hubby nie xde, aku susah nak tido.....ade satu time tuh, dia balik seremban ade hal, tggl aku sowang jerk.....sampai kol 3 pagi aku xle nak tido...huhuhu.....even kalo aku tido dlm blk, dia dok kat hall tgk tv pun aku xle nak tido....hahaha....ntah dia bg minyak senyonyong ape ntah kat aku sampai aku jadik camnie....hahaha......yes u can say that aku manja and i admit...aku mmg manja...tp aku bukan dependent.....

at 1st, i couldn't accept that he has to work in shift...maknanyer dia akan balik mlm at 9:30pm.... sbb before kawen i've mentioned that i will never ever want him to work in shift...dia kene keje normal hour...balik mlm mkn kat umah....spend time during weekend....coz it's been our family's tradition that every dinner we have to sit together and eat....spend weekends together.....it's a quality family time....even mak pun xbrape suka kalo mr hubby keje shift.....even sampai bulan pose pun, bole kire jerk bape kali kitowang buka pose sesama.....

but when i read other ppl's blog, where their husband have to go to japan for 3 months la....then they always looking forward for her hubby to come back la....i come to my senses and aku bersyukur, though mr hubby balik mlm skalik pun.....he will always da last person i look before i go to sleep and da 1st person i woke up to....

mcm for this year, a lot of things happened to me....and Alhamdulillah and i'm glad he's by my side....he's by ma side when mak left me...i'm by his side when his father left him....he's by my side when i found out i'm preggy....he's by my side during raya.....

and no he didn't earn much....even i earn more than him....we sumtime struggle just not to suffocate....but i'm glad he's always by my side through all my obstacle and tru my sad and happy moment, tru my ups and downs..... Alhamdulillah...kita kadang tak bersyukur dgn ape yg ade dpn mata kita.....itu sbb kita kene slalu buka mata, buka hati dan buka minda.....read a lot, be humble, meet good ppl....then u'll be thankful for wut u have.....

Eat, Pray, Love.......

last Friday went for a movie during lunch hr wif K Siti.....dun bother to watch it wif mr hubby coz i'll definately know dat he'll fall asleep.....

da movie start at 12:50 pm...this review is base on my personal opinion...it's up to u to think otherwise....though da director was da same wif my fav tv series "How I Met Your Mother"...tp it turned out disappointing....naseb baek ade pakcik Ketut yg cute tuh....

for me da movie was lame, boring and for me, if i felt that i've been in da cinema for so long, it means dat da movie is boring.....i dun really noe wut her problem to begin with...maybe i dun understand... but for me, she's da one who create all da problem..she has a wonderful, caring and a loving husband....

then she met this boy who was passionate to her...she has a gud friend who supports her...maybe she dun have faith in god that wut i summed....

da only great scene was when she were in Italy....owh, that was wonderfull....all da tasty foods, scenery, foods, people and foods....hahaha....make me tempting for Italiannise....huhu....one of da places dat i wanna go is Italy...bole plak during da weekend when i watched TLC channel 707 kot...this guy went to Italy..and he went to parmesan cheese factory, and he went to this small cottage shop who made her own pasta....owh, i'm so in lurve wif pasta....too bad mr hubby dun like pasta at all....xtau ape masalah dia ntah....ade bad memory during his childhood kot...huhu...

and another scene that i like was when she's in Bali...she met wif this loving, caring, wonderful and passionate guy....handsome plak tuh....huhu....handsome pada aku le....sbb i like guys yg keep his beard...i love da way he loves his son...huhu...he's a wonderful father....nasib baek ending dia she married this man...and she's in a long marriage this time....kalo dia xkawen laki tuh...then this movie will be considered as sucks....hahahah.....

next movie in line that i wanna watch is Wall Street....

bile mummy and daddy bershopping.....

semalam ialah hari minggu...mr hubby pun cuti...sabtu mlm dia kt nak mkn kari ikan...pehtuh pagi bgn lmbt...huhu...xsempat gi pasor....tgh hari tuh aku soh mr hubby pegi turun beli ikan...dia bole maleh plak...so aku masak jele ape yg ade....

hr minggu bese le...hari bermalas-malasan....dah ckp nak gi Anakku kat The Curve...tp cam nak lek-lek dolu....kol 2 bawak ke kol 3....tanya mr hubby bile nak gerak....dia kata sat dia nak relaks japs....sbb hr nie je dia cuti....dia kt kol 4 kita mandi, solat zohor + asar pastuh gerak.....skalik kol 4 dedua laki bini tetido tgk dah kol 5....sesiap kol 6 sudahnye baru gerak....

parking kat Ikea sbb kalo kat The Curve dia ikut jam...lgpun kang nak gi Ikea gak...bole dpt parking free....dkt nak 1/2 jam le gak mencarik parking....tensen betul aku ngan org yg gi ikea nie....punyer le ramai...tak surut2....tp aku nengok yg kuar dr ikea seketul brg pun tak bawak....isk...kalo takat nak jenjln or nak dating2 ke...pegi le tpt lain...xyah le gi ikea....kalo xde mende nak beli, toksah dtg....isk....

Anakku itu hari dia kt ade sale...tp aku nengok cam xde jerk....selected brg jerk....sudahnyer ape tau aku beli??? mende nie jek....

napkin 10 keping RM27.90 dengan

wet tisu 100pcs x 2 = RM10.90

buang masa jerk gi....pehtuh mr hubby nak gi Daiso plak....punyer le lama pusing2 dlm tuh....dia just beli penyapu dgn cangkuk jerk....haih...aku beli pengasah pisau, sports bra tuk pakai kat umah....ngan mende nie...

kekonon nak pakai time pantang....huhu....

pehtuh gi Ikea plak....sbb nak beli sleeping bag baby...kat Ikea paling murah aku jumpe.....RM69 tuk 6-12 months.....ade RM59 tuk 0-6 months.....cam bese aku beli yg beso le.....spy bole pakai lama....aku beli yg nie....

motif aku beli??? aku pun xtau....muahahahaha....sbb aku nengok gambo, bdk cam besh jerk tido dlm nie....pastuh aku buat review dia ckp bdk kalo tido dlm nie, dia cam rasa kene cuddle jerk....pehtuh dia cam susah nak beguling..so kekonon cam selamat le....

haaa...tgk, cam lena jerk dia tido kan???

pehtuh round2...terjumpe plak bath tub and terkejut sbb sgt murah okay...kat Anakku aku tgk sampai RM100++....kat JJ pun RM70++.....nie aku nengok kat Ikea RM19.90 jerk....terpaksa le beli....huhu....so nak beli tpt tuk new born baring time mandi.....
nnt nak beli baby cot plak kat Ikea....sbb cam murah gak.....

Confinement....

confinement period aka berpantang is a must for all preggy women...some said it's a miserable 40 days coz nama pun berpantang...so terlampau bnyk le pantang larangnyer....and soklan yg kita slalu dengar, "nanti bersalin katner??" and followed by "nnt berpantang katner??".....

never ever in my life occurs in my mind that my confinement period is without mak.....it's all mom-to-be wish that during their confinement, they will be taken care by their mom....never occur in my mind to bother bout confinement or to ask anything bout confinement from mak....coz all i noe is, during my confinement period, i will stay wif mak...and i noe, that's wut she's hoping for as well....dolu, k linda pantang mak jaga....yele k linda pun anak yatim piatu when she married my eldest brother....and for me, being da only daughter and da youngest who always clinging to her mother, mesti le berharap yg bile pantang mak sendiri yg akan jaga....and mak mn yg tak looking forward nak jaga anak sendiri masa pantang...sbb mak will attend to all my rengekan...hahaha..though aku dah besar....ppl who sees me wif mak will noe how manja i am wif her and how she manjakan aku...tp Allah maha mengetahui.....

dulu sblm kawen, mak penah sembang dgn Opah De, mak's auntie yg lebih kurang sebaya jerk dgn mak....dia ckp nnt nak beli iron bed...nak buat bertangas tuk aku....nak buat cam ikan panggang le...nak soh aku baring atas iron bed tuh, then kat bawah tuh nak letak le bara yg berempah...kekonon nak salai aku....huhuh....and i was looking forward for it....tp skang just imagination jele.....

mak, being da greatest mother has ever lived....she makes it a routine to make receiving blankets to all her grandchild.....that's wut she did to my 2 nieces....and unfortunately, her own daughter's son didn't get da chance to be wrapped wif his opah's receiving blanket....and mak will also make a complete set of tilam and bantal for her grandchild....and bukan rezeki anak aku gak tuk merasa tuh semua....xpe le sayang, Allah maha mengetahui...

and when ever i meet ppl, they will ask...."nnt kamu bersalin katner?"....i'll reply "dekat KL jerk...hospital pusrawi..dkt dgn rumah...jauh2 nnt takut tak sempat.." wif a huge grin on ma face...a very reasonable and strong answer....then they'll ask, "nnt pantang katne plak"....it was a question which i dun really hv da answer....mama, my mother-in-law has never offer me to pantang at Seremban....padahal, her 1st daughter-in-law pantang kat seremban...bersalin pun kat seremban...sanggup tuh dr subang rush to seremban masa pecah ketuban semata-mata nak bersalin kat seremban....at 1st, aku mcm kecik ati gak le sbb mama tak offer....then dia ade sembang ngan mr hubby, dia tanya aku pantang katner?? mr hubby said at my mother's sis-in-law in sri kembangan.....mama ckp, mama pun xle nak jaga aku sbb dia keje....

and aku pun tak sampai ati nak pantang kat seremban sbb mengenangkan mama keje....she's a maternity nurse...mmg really fit for my confinement...tp, bile pikir yg dia keje shift...timing x menentu....dgn papa pun no longer around....and to my surprise, dah le dia keje shift....kekadang balik kol 8 mlm ke....and she's da one yg kene prepare dinner plak....kalo dia keje during da weekend masuk tgh hari pun, b4 she goes to work dia plak yg masak tuk anak-anak dara dia yg padahal muda sethn jerk dr aku dgn yg bongsu dah darjah 6.....kesian dia...bile pikir she has to do all da house chores, from cooking and washing cloth....aku cam xsampai hati plak nak pantang kat umah mama.....kesian dgn dia...padahal dia ade jerk anak dara...muda sethn jerk dr aku...lg sorang tuh pun dah darjah 6 dah....xreti plak nak ringankan beban mak ko kan???

dulu memula preggy, K linda ajak aku pantang sesama ngan dia kat ipoh...yele, dedua anak yatim piatu kan...kitowang jaga satu sama lain le...dia ckp dia nak amik maid sepanjang confinement...then dpt plak offer dr Mak Uda...my father's in-law punyer sis-in-law....dia ajak pantang kat umah dia...tp kat JB le....pastuh, masa bln puasa hari tuh....acik, my mak anjang punyer maid (mak anjang is my mother's younger brother's wife) ajak aku pantang kat umah derang in seri kembangan....time tuh offer tuh cam tak serious jerk....xtau le ajak2 ayam ke hape...huhu....nnt bln 11 aku nak tanya mak anjang lagik skalik....raya hari tuh aku tanya maid dia ngan mak dia...derang cam ok jerk...mak anjang je aku blum kompemkan....dia nak ke jaga aku masa pantang nie....maybe xlama....3 weeks top...then balik le pantang sendirik....rumah derang pun kat sri kembangan jerk...so, mr hubby pun bole jerk nak ulang alik pegi opis dr ctu.....

yele, aku pun 1st time preggy kan...mmg pengalaman and knowledge totally zero...then K Linda bitau aku, pah (my father's mother) jahitkan 7 bengkung baby....owh so sweet...she said it's for me and k linda....she's very old and very weak....she's 80++ and to my surprise, she can make da time and effort regardless her weakness to made da bengkung bb for us....K linda ckp, pah kesian sbb both of us xde mak......and K linda pun ckp, dulu mak ade jahit bengkung utk k linda, so k linda bg kamu la ye.....at least i have something that was made by mak.....

so jaja, pantang le dgn mak ko selagi ade mak nie.....kalo dgn mak kita, nak ngengada ke, nak merengek ke...nak tanya pape pun senang...sbb she's ur mother...she knows u inside out....she was da one who took care of u till u can become a wonderful mother now....leha plak, import le mak ko ke Canada nnt....or balik le pantang kat Mesia....Beba, nak buat camne dah ko besalin kat Sabah itu hari....

thrust me, if i have mak, i'll call her every single day to ask her all about pregnancy....she's ur mother, so u won't feel ashamed or hesitated....i can just strip in front of her and ask her about all da changes on my body.....mak, it's hard for me to got through this life changing moment without u by my side....