Delivering the Delivery 2 (Part 1)

8th July 2013 (Monday)
I went to work as normal.. dah janji dengan kak pizah esok nak makan kat Delicious coz its my birthday!!! balik tu singgah block A jumpa asma, sbb nak ambek sampel kueh chocolate chip. Nak buat testing sok coz lusa kan puasa. Kekonon nak jual as a kueh raya la.

malam tu lepas makan tengah relax-relax, hati ni macam tak sedap je. sebab rasa baby ni sangat kurang gerak. I don't even recall when was his last movement. Rasa macam tak bergerak langsung je seharian. I told Encik Suami, he asked "nak pegi hospital ke?".. i said, "tunggu dulu la. mana tau pasni dia gerak ke." that was around 9:00pm. nearing 11:00 pm, still there was no movement. i've tried to push him, poke him, goncang perut, but still there was no movement. nak gi klinik mmg dah tutup la at this hour. so, we decided to straight away go to Hospital Sungai Buloh. 

Called Reen, owner of Ameer's nursery. nak mintak tolong dia jagakan Ameer sbb nak gi Hospital. Sbb takut kene tahan. And nanti daddy nak uruskan Mommy, nak layankan Ameer takut daddy tak menang tangan. bawak semua beg. Beg baju Mommy, beg adik, Beg documents of my previous pregnancy and delivery and current check up for pregnancy. Masa on the way nak gi Block D, sbb rumah Cikgu Ameer tu block D, cakap dengan Abang Ameer, "Abang Ameer, mommy nak pegi jumpe doctor, Abang Ameer tinggal dengan cikgu ye. Abang Ameer tido dengan cikgu ye. Abang Ameer be a good boy okay." Ameer diam je. when we arrived, and Reen pick him up, Mommy salam, hug him tightly and kiss him deeply. Mommy almost cry and Abang Ameer still remain calm. I said to him, "Abang Ameer tinggal dengan cikgu ye, Mommy pegi jumpa doktor tau." He just nodded calmly. his calmness broke my heart. sbb he seems to understand what's going on and he actually tolerating with the situation. knowing that he understand and tolerating made me overwhelming and a bit sad. macam rasa kesiannye anak Mommy kene tinggal and he's so grown up coz he was so calm. Ameer tak penah ditinggalkan overnight without any of me or his daddy.. not even with nenek.. so this is a break through..

11:30pm
arrived and registered. Tunggu agak lama and i was restless sbb risau adik dah tak gerak agak lama dah ni. Nurse sebuk soh timbang, and cek CTG. Alhamdulillah naseb baek CTG ade bunyi heart beat, time tu mcm dah lega ckit la. still im trying to push him, poke him and goncang perut. Sementara nak tunggu doctor cek, aku tgk jam, eh, it's already past 12:00 am!!! it's my birthday and i'm still in the hospital. taknak celebrate besday dalam hospital!! No!! aku nengok ade sorang doctor ni, mundar-mandir..mundar-mandir.. tp tak cek pun aku lg. aku dah agitated dah nie. So aku pun pegi kat dia, “Doctor saya nak Tanya, bape lama lagi ye saya kene tunggu? Sy nak tunggu ape sebenanya ye?” Okay I know this is a government hospital, what to expect? But still, at least feed me with some info why am I still here and what am I waiting for. Then Doctor tu ckp, “kejap ye Puan,tggu doctor lain dtg cek.” Isk, nak je aku tanya kan, mana doctor lain? Bile nak cek? Nak cek ape? Sebab aku tgk dia sorang je doctor time tu.

5:00 am
Akhirnya my name being called to see the doctor. Jumpe doctor laki India.. dia tanya aku a few question, then dia suruh aku baring. Then dia panggil sorang nurse ni masuk blk skalik, rupanya dia nak “seluk”. Aku macam kompius apakah motip dia nak “seluk” kot. I’m at 38 weeks,no sign of contraction then tetibe ko nak seluk. Ape point ko? 

Aku : So doctor saya bole balik ke?
Doc Lelaki India yang seluk aku tadi : Mungkin boleh, so Puan tunggu ye nnt nurse clearkan then Puan bole balik. But before that kita akan scan baby dulu. Puan duduk dulu
Aku : Kenapa tak buat sekarang je doc?
Doc Lelaki India yang seluk aku tadi : Kene tunggu doctor yang bole buat scan
Aku : Doctor tak bole ke?
Doc Lelaki India yang seluk aku tadi : saya tak pandai scan (dengan muka dan nada yg tiada perasaan.
Aku : (............................................................)

7:00 am
Aku dok menunggu la dari tadi. Hari ni dah le aku ade miting yang agak penting jugak. So aku sms Mak Pizah, “Akak hari ni saya EL la kot. Saya still in hospital. Akak masuk le meeting Taylor’s tu nnt ek”. Dah 24 jam dah aku xtido ni. aku restless mana bole tido kot. Dok pikir nak balik je and dok pikir meeting and paling aku serabut, aku celebrate besday kat sepital. then tetibe ade doctor perempuan panggil aku. dengan pantas akau bangun disamping harapan berbunga-bunga yang lepas jumpa doctor ni aku bole balik, tido then bangun celebrate birthday aku yg ke-30. the big number. a change of decade. from the small 2 to the big three...

Doc Perempuan : Puan baring, saya nak scan. Kenapa Puan datang hari ni?(Doc pun pusing-pusing benda alah scan tu atas perut aku)
Aku : Anak saya tak bergerak seharian semalam. So saya datang la untuk cek. Tapi smlm masa sampai hospital, dia dah gerak dah (dengan harapan jawapan aku ni diterima oleh doctor dan tanpa berpikir panjang doc akan discharge kan aku terus)
Doc Perempuan : Puan, anak Puan ni songsang la Puan.
Aku : Huh?? (dengan nada yang agak kuat sbb aku macam terkejut beruk)           
       Songsang?! Macam mana boleh songsang pulak?! Doc ni betul ke?
Doc Perempuan : Betul Puan, cuba Puan tgk screen ni.
Aku : Doc India lelaki yang cek saya tadi tak cakap pape pun. 
Doc Perempuan : memang le dia tak cakap pape sbb dia xtau. ni saya dah scan mmg anak Puan songsang.
Aku : Habes tu macam mana ni?
Doc Perempuan : Nanti Puan tunggu dulu, kita arrange untuk czer terus hari ni.
Aku : Hari ni doc? sekarang?
Doc Perempuan : Yelah. hari ni la. xbole nak pusing sbb ni dah 2nd pregnancy Puan and 1st pregnancy Puan czer.
Aku : (Makin blur) (- . -) tapi dalam hati aku dah pikir, besday adik sama ngan mommy!! yeay!!


aku pun call Encik Suami, dia yang dok terpisat-pisat sbb ngantuk tu makin la blur dan terkejut. naseb baek siang td aku dah dapat power bank yang aku beli dr Groupon minggu lepas. kalo dak mmg bateri aku dah out dah.

aku masih macam xle nak terima kenyataan yang aku nak kene beranak dah. sbb aku expect I have another week and i can settle all my work and hand over to my colleague. Bole lagi dah nak beranak dok pikir pasal keje. aku mula la dah pikir kompom aku kene maki kaw-kaw sbb bnyk lg benda outstanding. dah le dengan Vp baru, then Manager baru pun dah masuk. OMG!!!

Then aku macam dah xle pikir sbb aku macam dah ngantuk gile. Aku tgh pikir katil je skrg. since i'm in government Hospital, of course le katil sentiasa penuh. naseb baek ade waiting sleeping area. macam wad transit la. sape yg ade tag admitted je bole tido or baring kat ctu sementara tunggu katil available. bile dah ade tag tu ade extra privilege la. kitorang dapat katil transit, dapat baju and dapat makan. macam best sgt je (-_-) tapi disaat ko dah berjaga for 30 hours dan dah kebulur tahap gaban, tu semua adalah satu privilege. lama giler dah aku tak stay up lama cenggini. last time was when we went to Genting.

aku still macam kompius and tak percaya yang aku mmg kene operate hari ni. tak tau nak bitau ke dok kat abang-abang and akok ipar aku. nak bitau kat mama ke idok pun xtau lg. then ade doc dtg ckp kat aku, aku operate besok sbb hr ni OT dah penuh and kes aku ni xde le serious sgt. phew!! I'm so not ready okay!!

3:00 pm
baru le aku dapat katil.
doc anesthetic pun dah jumpe, interview and brief aku sementara doc tunggu bilik tu. Dapat wad 6 katil. okle.. janji dapat le katil. dr aku duduk je since mlm semalam. Alhamdulillah.
aku call Reen (owner nursery Ameer), Reen cakap Ameer smlm tido dengan dia. sikit pun xtanya mommy mana. Dia main-main sampai le dia tertido. sbb Reen pun ade anak laki umo 5 thn sorang and anak pompuan umo 2thn.. diorang mmg kawan main ameer. so takde le dia sunyi sangat. pegi Nursery pun tengah hari sbb bangun lambat (typical Ameer). bile Reen cakap Ameer tak tanya tu, aku dah sebak. Sebab aku tau bukan dia tak tertanya-tanya or terpikir-pikir, tp sbb dia pendam and dia xnak sebut. I know my son, dia mmg jenis pendam perasaan. OMG! Al-Ameer Hafiz, u really portray and carry your name well.

then encik suami datang hanta beg. kemain banyak bek aku angkut. hahaha.. beg baju aku satu, beg adik satu, beg susu satu. esok aku punya case 2nd, so around 11:00 am la aku operate. makanya aku kene start pose malam ni dari pukul 12:00 am. kebetulan, esoknya pun 1 Ramadhan. Alhamdulillah.. Encik suami balik je, aku terus melayar bahtera mimpi.. ZZZZZZzzzzzzzz...

naseb baek the previous weekend my FIL came coz Farah, my SIL wanted to celebrate birthday with me.. Alhamdulillah... merasa le jugak..

I'm baking a bun...

In my previous blog post, I mentioned that i'm gonna share why Ameer finally stop breast feeding...

Well, the reason is, there's a bun in the oven.. Alhamdulillah I'm almost 8 month pregnant.. dah 8 month pregnant baru nak update blog?? Cik Puan Peah oi!!! dulu masa preggy kan Ameer, baru dapat tau through pregnancy test dah kecoh kat blog. Blum confirm by doctor lagi. Yang skang ni, dah 8th month, baru terhegeh nak citer kat blog. hahaha... rasa macam dah xrajin nak update blog. Dulu alasan kekonon dah ade twitter, tp twitter pun dah tak active sangat. ni semua sbb Candy Crush Saga punya penangan la nie. Damn you Candy Crush Saga!!

In Sha Allah my EDD will be on 17th July. Timing salah betul la. bole plak EDD time bulan pose. MIL pun ckp, nape tak tunggu bulan October? Mama dah pencen time tu. hahaha.. mmg we are ready to conceived kekonon planning to deliver by 2013. xsangka plak Allah berikan rezeki both of us ni subur. 1st attempt dah lekat. hahahaha.. Alhamdulillah. both of us pun tak bajet yg kitorang ni adalah sangat subur. I suspected i was pregnant, tp xcek lg sbb mcm baru seminggu je miss period. then aku gi klinik sbb ade alergic yg buat itchy, then masa doc nak prescribe ubat, aku tanya pregnant bole sapu or makan ke ubat ni? then dia tanya au pregnant ke? then aku ckp xsure sbb xcek lg. trus buat time tuh. then confirm aku pregnant. huhu..

This time, its another baby boy. walaupun sebenanyer tersangat le berharap dapat baby girl sbb dah tak sabar dah nak beli baju baby girl yang sangat cute-cute tu. and kalo dapat baby gurl, plan nak jarakkan the next pregnancy sbb cost. memang la orang ckp anak adalah rezeki, but of course we should be well prepared in term of mentally and financially. both me and Encik Suami is trying to be debt free now. tp it's so impossible in the world now. debt free that i mean to doesn't include morgage or hire purchase, itu haruslah berhutang kan? tp xpe la, just doakan semoga this baby will get the best and kitorang akan murah rezeki, mebi bukan dari segi financially, mebi dari segi lain. Allah Maha Mengetahui and Allah Maha Mengasihi.

and this 2nd pregnancy ade lain ckit dr abg Ameer. of course la, every pregnancy is different, even every child have the difference and their own identity. at this moment, during my 32nd weeks, baby still not in position. baby still melintang kat dalam perut nie. aku pun xtau ape motif dia dok melintang. tak ke lagi sempit kalo dia dok melintang dalam perut aku? semalam Encik Suami tanya, nape dia xpusing macam Ameer? huhu, aku jawap "Dia xtau kot yang dia kene pusing". so, starting from next check-up, i have to go to Specialist Gynea. Kene pegi Hospital Sungai Buloh terus. and by 36 weeks kalo baby still breach, disarankan untuk czer je terus. tp itu saranan my current doctor yg aku gi check-up. kita tunggu saranan the Specialist nanti.

In Sya Allah nanti aku akan deliver kat Hospital Sungai Buloh sbb aku sangat-sangat puas ati ngan Hospital Sungai Buloh. mebi masa time sakit tu dia xde le melayan aku sgt kan? biar aku sakit kering sorang2 atas katil tu, yele sakit nak besalin je kan? org lain pun nak besalin gak, bukan aku sorang je nak besalin smp derang kene dok ngadap aku kan? tp post pregnancy punya treatment mmg superb. lagik superb sbb masa aku dah le czer, dok seminggu 7 hari 7 malam dalam bilik 2nd class, skalik dapat bill RM180 jerk. superb giler kot. siap xclaim kat company sbb xjumpe resit. wahahahaha... lagipu company aku cover RM3,500 je for czer.

this was in December 2012..br 2 months pregnant..

this was in 

abang Ameer mmg suka tido dgn adik.. meaning tido atas perut aku... he will say "Nak tido Adik".. nnt adik dia yg kat dlm tu mengelejat le.. bergerak-gerak

this was last month which was early May.. masa last balik Ipoh before delivery.. dah 6 weeks++

ni gamba aku berangan sbb aku bajet aku cam cun.. hahaha.. 7 months pregnant.. this baby cam a lil bit smaller compared to Abg Ameer.. tp xcompare betul2 lg sbb blum tgk last pregnancy punya kad..

Can i really be a mother??

read da statement clearly ya....it's "can i really be a mother???" not "can i really be a good mother??"...

i never ever come to think that i will be a mother one day...xpenah plak terpikir dr kecik....xde le, slalunyer pompuan nie kan suka le nak berangan jadik bini org le, jadik bos le, jadik pompuan simpanan le...ooppsss yg tuh xde kot....mcm aku, aku penah le berangan nak jadik memacam...tp, seingat aku, aku tak penah pun berangan nak jadik mak....huhuhuhu....

macam masa ngandung nie, aku slalu pikir...ms aku mandikan anak aku, siapkan dia, susukan dia, ape aku nak ckp??sbb aku nie bukan le jenis pandai melayan budak sgt...jgn kata melayan budak, melayan org yg bnyk bunyik pun aku malas...nak layan kerenah org lg le....lagi pun antara kucing ngan baby, aku lagik suka kucing...huhu...bole ke plak camtuh??? pelik ke aku nie??? camne aku nak layan kerenah anak aku nnt???

dan aku nie sgt garang and not really a patient person....if i want thing now, it has to be now....even opismate aku semua kata aku garang.....yele, aku paling pantang kalo aku tanya jerk jawapan, "tak tahu...." "tak bole"..." takde"..."tak jumpe".....yele, kalo bab keje aku tanya, jgn le jwp xtau...jawap le "nnt sy cube find out".....haaaa.....kan menunjukkan ko nyer credibility gak...and aku pantang org buat keje telembap-lembap...ko kene prioritize and multitasking...

and aku rasa bile aku ade anak nnt, bnyk benda yg aku xle nak buat dah...huhuhu...kejamnyer seorang mak ckp camtuh....then ur life priority pun dah tuka....no more urself...pengorbanan dari segi masa, duit, priority and bnyk lagik....and, aku rasa walaupun aku nie dah 27 thn pun, aku cam tak puas lagik nak enjoy....u'll serve ur family for the rest of ur life....one thing i know about women, there is no such thing as pencen...yele, kalo laki dah poencen bole le dok umah, baca paper, berkebun.....tp jadik pompuan, ko dah pencen, ko still kene bekerja tuk family ko....masak, ngemas, house chore and memacam le lagik....

dan benda yg aku paling takut, ape le anak aku akan jadik beso nnt...mak slalu ckp, kalo perangai kamu camnie, anak kamu nnt lg dua kali ganda teruk perangainyer....huhuhuh....aku dah le jahat, nakal and rebel dr kecik sampai le ke remaja.....aku pun xtau camne mak bole cope up dgn aku...huhuhuh...dulu, ko tak penah pun terpikir semua nie...bile dah preggy nie, baru aku pikir balik how my mom coped up wif my behavior.....

and when i come to think back, mak never failed to attend any of my sports day ke, report card day ke, performance day ke...mampu ke aku jadik camtuh tuk anak aku??and org slalu ckp, "aku xnak didik anak aku cam mak aku buat kat aku....aku nak didik cara aku.." but for myself, mak was da greatest teacher...i want to teach my child exactly as how she thought us, how she thought me, to be specific....i had a though love....but i'm glad on how the way she thought me...and i can say i'm proud to be who i am and where i am now....for me, mak is da greatest mother Allah have ever created...alah, semua org akan ckp mak dia camtuh.....she's a strong women, patient and though.....

korang doakan le aku mampu tuk menjadik seorang ibu dan mempunyai sifat2 and naluri2 seorang ibu....jadik ibu yg mampu membimbing dan memimpin anak aku.....

Confinement.....

tak abes2 lagik kes confinement aku nie...jom kite tgk chronology confinement planning aku.....

1. kan memula dolu, maid Mak Anjang aku offer nak jaga...kire dok umah dia kat Sri Kembangan le..mak pada Mak Anjang aku nie pun dok ctu skalik....and maid dia nie mmg rapat le ngan aku...yele, dah 8 thn keje ngan Mak Anjang aku....so, ade org tua and ade org nak masak and jaga bdk...skalik dia jatuh tangga and terus nak balik Indon....

2. so, aku try carik bidan kat KL nie tuk tolong jaga....carik seminggu yg bole urut, jaga anak, jaga aku, mandikan anak, masak tuk aku...and dia tggl kat umah aku seminggu....aku dah jumpe dah..nama bidan ni maksu bainun....dia charge RM500 tuk 7 hari and stay in kat umah aku...pehtuh tetibe Abang kt dia dpt maid, and dia soh aku pantang kat Ipoh...so aku xde le reconfirm ngan maksu bainun tuh.....

3. then aku dah setting everything nak pantang kat ipoh le....dah buat planning semua...then Abang bitau aku, maid tuh cam pelik ckit....dia just mengemas jerk...hehari le keje dia nyapu jerk...nak goreng ikan pun tak reti...and jaga budak pun xreti....dukung bb pun xberani....so how???abang aku pulang balik kat agent....

4. So abang bg solution, pantang gak kat Ipoh...dia and K Linda jaga...sbb K Linda pun dah abes pantang time aku dijangka besalin tuh....then dia akan amik bidan urut yg dolu mmg mengurut mak aku....pehtuh dia kt bab masak2 tuh dia and K Linda bole le...in da mean time, dia akan hire weekly cleaner umah dia tuk dtg daily tuk masak and jaga bdk...pehtuh, tetibe plak dia kata 27 dec dia nak gi KL seminggu...sbb adik beradik K Linda nie semua dok KL....dia pun anak yatim piatu gak...so cam nak tunjukkan Nazhan kat sedara mara le......

5. then dia bagi solution, aku besalin kat Ipoh...pantang kat umah dia kejap, then bile dia nak gi KL, aku pantang kat umah Pah....dia kt Pah pun ade offer kat dia itu hari....i doubt that Pah ade offer...sbb Pah aku nie mmg dah tua...80++ dah umo dia...and dia tggl ngan Wan, tak kawen lg and she's older than mak...and Ateh, adik bapak yg dah divorce tuh....both of them nie dolu mmg tak suka kat Mak aku...and sgt tak friendly and tak passion and compassionate....aku pun mmg tak rapat ngan derang....and masa aku gi umah pah, dia tak penah pun offer aku pantang kat umah dia....there must be a reason why ppl didn't open their mouth to offer a favour....maybe sbb derang pun rasa derang xlarat and tak mampu....sbb Wan nie, dia ade lelah, asma, gastrik and tak sehat...cepat semput....so, lg macam menyusahkan plak kalo nak pantang kat umah Pah....aku dah le dlm pantang, Pah plak kene masakkan, then xkan nak soh Wan mandikan bb...pehtuh kalo nakj beli pape, xkan aku nak soh Ateh kot.....isk....cam menyusahkan jerk....

skalik sudahnyer, selasa lepas Bancik call aku, tanya preparation and planning aku semua.....then dia ckp Abang nak dtg KL hari Rabu (22/12/2010)....aku pun macam, wut da hell nie...aku dok sms dia da day b4 dia xckp pun dia nak dtg KL...itu hari offer nak jaga aku seminggu peh tuh aku pantang kat umah Pah....skalik dia nak dtg KL before aku besalin pun....apekejadahnya???itu sbb nye aku malas and xsuka and pantang nak depends kat org nie....ini le punca nyer...Abang aku nie ckp cam keling le...jap cam nie...jap camtu....kalo dr mula aku xikut plan dia, mmg aku stick jerk ngan Maksu Bainun tuh.....and all of this happened just 3 days before EDD aku....kalo maksu Bainun tuh xle nak jaga aku camne???

6. Selasa tuh 21/12/2010 aku terus soh pz call Maksu Bainun tuh....arrange appoinment ngan dia hari Rabu pas chck up.....naseb baek dia kt dia xde booking lg....so, b4 chck up rabu lepas, kitowang gi umah dia kat PPRT, Sek 8, Kota Damansara nie jerk...belakang Hospital Pusrawi jerk...nama pun PPRT kan, tggu lif dia jerk dah dkt 15 min...janji jumpe kol 11, sampai dlm 11:30 camtuh.....sampai2 dpn umah dia, pintu dah tebukak....bole plak dia sebenanyer tgh lepak isap rokok....hahaha....cayalah Maksu Bainun....then kitowang masuk, skalik kuar anak dia...laki, bole tahan le hemsem tapi..................pakai kain batik ko....muahahaha.....tgh lepak sembang2, anak laki dia tuh lepak le skalik...and dia pun sembang2 le gak....then laki dia plak balik....dok skalik sembang ngan kitowang...then anak dia gi amik air kopi hidang kat kitowang....tgh sembang2 nie, anak dia tetibe nyalakan rokok gak...so anak dia merokok dgn kain batik sambil besempuh....muahahaha...gile kelakar....

so mari kita review pasal Maksu Bainun nie......
1. dia orang perak.... - "kaching" (bunyik point dpt mark sbb aku suka)
2. dia dr keturun bidan diraja kat Teluk Intan...mak dia and nenek dia pun bidan - "kaching"
3. dia open and xde hidden agenda tuh sbb dia invite kitowang dtg umah dia - "kaching"
4. overview, family dia ni jenis respect org...sbb suami and anak dia dok sekalik sembang ngan kitowang...xde le buat sombong yg buat hal sendirik xpedulikkan tetamu - "kaching"
5. dia tak paksa aku ikut cara dia...dia cadangkan jek...tp kalo xnak folo dia xde hal - "kaching"
6. dia dtg time office hr, pagi kol 8..balik petang....dia akan urut aku, tungku, jaga baby, masakkan tuk aku....

tapi, pape pun kita tgk jele dolu camne dia jaga aku nnt.....ok ke...dak ke....memintak ok le....sbb aku mmg dah xde solution lain dah....

Mamour Sale

What??
Mamour Sale
up to 50% off & as low as RM1 for selected item

When??
20th Nov 2010 Onwards

Where??
Mid Valley Megamall
Pavillion KL
1 Utama Shopping Centre
Tropicana City Mall
Empire Gallery

Why??
Brands Offered:
Peg Perego
Maxi Cosi
Quinny
Petit
Playgro
Silver Cross
Luciole
& more..........

click for more info on sale and store...

MyBBStore.com Sale

What??
My BBStore Sale

When??
20th Nov 2010 - 2nd Jan 2011

Where??
Kelana Jaya Outlet
17-G, Block B, Zenith Corporate Park, No. 11, Jln SS7/26

Kuchai Lama Outlet
21-1 & 21-2, Jln Kuchai Maju 18

How??

click for more info on sale and on the store.............

Packing your hospital Bag

For Labour

1. Shirt button in front - 3
2. Kain Batik - 3
   
3. Slipper
   
4. Socks - 2
   
5. Massage oil or lotion
   
6. Lip balm
7. Snacks & drinks
8. Watch to time contraction (gune hp sudah)
   
9. Camera (hp gak)
   
10. Books or Magazine for relaxation for me mungkin ayat2 utk menenangkan diri or even Yassin
    
11. Picture of someone u Love --> definately gamba mak
    
12. Toiletries
    
13. Music or selected ayat2 quran (dah donlot dlm hp Surah Yusof, Surah Maryam and Suroh Yassin)
14. Report Doc
15. Sijil Nikah

Mr Hubby

1. Change of Cloths - 2 sets
   
2. Snack
3. Drinks

After the Birth

1. Shirt button in front - 3
   
2. Kain Batik - 3
3. BF bras - 3
   
4. Panty - 6
5. Medela Milk Collector
6. Maternity Pads
7. Toiletries
8. Towels
   

My Precious

1. Infant Carrier
2. Body Suit - 6
   
3. Baby blanket with hood - 1
4. Receiving Blanket - 2
5. Toiletries
   
6. Towel
7. Pampers
8. Mitten & Booties - 3 set
   
9. 
   

Info from Baby Center

Baby, Children & Parents Expo.....

WHAT??
Malaysia Baby, Children & Parents Expo.....

WHEN??
26th - 28th Nov 2010
10:00 am - 9:00 pm

WHERE??
Mid Valley Exhibition Expo

WHY??

for more info please visit here........
and esok aku ngan mr hubby akan ke Antenatal Class kat Hospital Pantai Ampang....

Do u have HSBC Credit Card????

i came across this promotion from HSBC credit card...sebenanyer bukan aku yg came across pun....abg aku buat status dia kat FB pasal nak carik sape ade HSBC Credit Card holder....so aku pun bukak le website HSBC....and i found this....then i called them....kebetulan aku pakai HSBC amanah credit card...

What???
This promo only for HSBC or HSBC Amanah Credit card holder....50% discount for room rate and room board only ya....O&G punyer fee tak masuk....visit here for info....


When??
Valid from 23rd August 2010 to 31st December 2010...maknanyer aku sempat le...yippiee....

Where??
when u deliver in any KPJ hospital....maknanyer aku kene le melawat Damansara Specialist dlm masa terdekat nie....

Others??
ade bnyk gak promo lg le...

1. Takaful Coverage up to RM20k tp nie until 23rd November jerk...xsempat le....
2. Shopping discount at Modermum, Mothercare, Poney, Renew, Women Secret, Guess Kids, Gap Kids and Boarders.....
3. for mommies tuk lepas pantang ade promo kat SlimmingSanctuary, Mayfair, Ree's Skin, Mary France Bodyline, Celebrity Fitness & Unisense
   

just visit here for more on above promo.....

8th months check up......

yesterday i went for my 8th month chck up.....and i have a long list of question to ask da doctor....

from my last month chck punyer berat, till today exactly 1 month gap...berat aku naik 1kg jerk....so progress berat aku ialah based on blog post nie....

4th month = + 2.5kg
5th month = + 1 kg
6th month = - 0.5 kg
7th month = + 5 kg
8th month = + 1kg

total weight gain = 9 kg....
aku tanya doc ok ke naik 1kg jerk...dia kt ok le tuh....slalu org naik 1-3 kg....and average naik 2 kg...so ok le nie...then scan le cam bese...anak aku plak naik 0.4 kg jerk...jadik 1.7kg....hurm.... cam kecik jerk....itu hari ko cam besa sgt....tgh dok scan-scan tuh...tetibe hemsem boy nie bole plak menguap....captured la dlm screen scanner tuh kan.....huih...yeye dia nguap...cam tak cukup tido jerk....cam smlm pegi sekolah, peh tuh gi kokurikulum, peh tuh mlm buat homework lak kan??? padahal keje ko dok dlm tuh mmg tido jerk....jgn le ko jadik penyegan cam daddy ko...ooopppss....hahaha....peh tuh doc tuh pun mcm terkeksited plak tgk bdk tuh menguap....hahaha.....

smlm kene cucuk kancing gigi lagi skalik....isk...nasib baek this time tak sakit sgt dah...hr nie pun xbengkak tpt kene cucuk tuh....so bermula la sesi soal jawap ngan doc.....

soklan 1
aku : doc, sy kalo bole nnt sy nak besalin normal....dan kalo bole sy xnak cucuk epidural....
doc : ok bole...nape awak xnak cucuk epidural???
aku : sbb saya baca dlm buku, epidural nie long term akan effect tulang belakang...
doc : xde le...mn ade...epidural nie pun, dia cucuk in between tulang....xkan doc nak bg benda yg memudaratkan kesihatan....tp terpulang le...ade yg bole tahan sakit dia xnak le...tp ade yg br skalik contraction dah menjerit-jerit, mmg dia request epidural le...tp terpulang kat awak kalo bole tahan sakit.....

soklan 2
aku : nnt masa sy deliver bb normal, mmg bawah tu akan terkoyak ke??
doc : slalunyer 1st bb mmg akan terkoyak....(bole plak dia jawap dgn jujur kan??)
aku : doc koyak ke atau terkoyak sendiri??
doc : kita akan potong la....(time nie aku dah buat muka dah) sbb kalo kita tak potong awal2, takut nnt tpt2 lain plak yg akan terkoyak...nnt lg bnyk plak nak kene jahit...sini nak jahit, sana nak jahit....(eh doc nie, ramah plak ko hari nie...rajin plak ko nak becerita kan?? slalu ko cam memalu...kalo sembang muka aku pun ko xnak pandang)
aku : nnt doc bius la sblm potong....
doc : alah time tuh awak dah sakit contraction....sy potong pun awak tak sedar and tak rasa sakit...(ko jawap mmg selamber kan doc!!)

soklan 3
aku : saya bercadang nak fully bf....so saya nak tanya la ok ke kalo sy pakai set bersalin???
doc : depends pada product tu la....kalo product tu fully herba xde jamu2 and benda2 lain ok la... sbb takut nnt anak awak kene kuning....elok awak mkn 2 minggu lps deliver la....contoh produk yg cam herba tuh NR la....
aku : owh..Nona Roguy?? sy mmg cadang nak pakai NR...
so kene le aku tempah kat k Engku Bidan bersalin....ade 3 set aku nak beli...k Linda, aku ngan jajamban.....

soklan 4
aku : nnt sy nak besalin kat cni...and insyaAllah nak pantang kat Ipoh...bole ke kalo sy nak travel tuh??
doc : bole jerk...ade je yg hari nie besalin, sok naik flight balik kb....
aku : naik flight lain doc...kejap je dah sampai....
doc : ade je naik keta....ok jerk...padahal kalo naik flight patutnya pressure kat bdk tuh punyer telinga....tp ok jerk....
aku : bole ke nak pasang aircond....xbentan??
doc : OK jerk....

soklan 5
aku : sy nie InsyaAllah nak fully bf...tp nipple sy belah kanan nie mcm xberapa nak kuar...
doc : awak kene biasakan dr skrg...cr senang awak amik syringe, awak potong dpn dia....then awak tarik le...nie cr paling murah la...(siap dia call nurse soh masuk bwk syringe saiz bape ml ntah dia sebut)....tak pun kat kedai ade je jual nipple formation....awak kene biasakan dr skang..nnt takut nipple awak tak kuar....
then lps jumpe doc ms dok shopping kat jj....mr hubby a.k.a pakar sakit puan tak bergaji ckp..."td kan u tanya doc pasal nipple tuh kan...sebananyer doc salah...xyah guna syringe kalo nak jimat..." pas tuh aku terus nyampuk..."xyah...i tau u nak ckp ape"....dia gelak, pastuh dia ckp "mesti doc tuh pelik....nape laki dia tak tolong??"....pehtuh mlm tuh ms nak tido sempat lg, "u nak i tolong kuarkan nipple u ke??"...bole plak kan???

so smlm adalah sesi shopping sakan....huhu....pulun nak beli semua brg...tggl baby cot je kot...nnt aku update psl Baby Checklist Updated Version......

8th month pregnant

lubang piercing aku tak tutup lg tuh....pusat pun tak tersentil lg...huhu....
(sila abaikan stretch mark yg mmg ade kat peha dr before mengandung dan parut2 yg lain...hahaha...)

Tajuk Confinement lagik....

please refer to this topic Confinement....

dalam tuh kan aku ade citer yg aku nak pantang kat Sri kembangan...umah adik arwah mak....since last 2 weeks i wanted to call Mak Anjang (Mak's younger brother's wife..huhu) sbb nak kompomkan balik pasal nak pantang kat umah dia....tp dr sehari ke sehari asyik lupe jerk...then weekend lepas pun K Linda soh call balik kompom ngan mak anjang pasal nak pantang ngan dia....sbb time tuh kan cuti sekolah...and mak anjang nie jenis suka berholiday during school break....

then semalam mak anjang call time lunch....kebetulan aku tgh meeting tru lunch...ade delegates dari India nie dtg plak...aku kene represent Tuan Haji....nasib baek English India nie jenis bole paham...bukan jenis lecturer aku dr India masa kat MMU dolu...huhu....lupe dah ajar subject ape....pehtuh nasib baik kadar pergerakan kepala dia pun macam agak kurang...huhu...kire nie educated punyer India dari India and derang nie cam jet setter gak le...so ok le....

after meeting aku return call mak anjang balik...and da conversation was something like this:

Mak Anjang : kamu deliver bape haribulan
Aku : 23 Dec...InsyaAllah....
Mak Anjang : haa...elok le tuh....mmg kene le cancel plan nak pantang kat umah mak anjang...aciknyer (her maid) nak balik kampung....balik terus...xnak balik sini dah.....
Aku : haa??? balik terus?? nape nak balik terus?? dulu pun dia kata nak balik terus tp tak jadik pun....
Mak Anjang : kali nie dia nak balik terus...lepas kejadian yang dia jatuh tuh, mak dia pun soh dia balik jerk Indon terus...xyah dah keje....
Acik nie masa time raya itu hari dia ade jatuh tangga...dia ade amek upah jaga bdk umor setahun lebey....then dia dari atas dok gendong bdk tuh belari turun tangga nak angkat kain sbb hujan...pehtuh ntah camne dia bole slipped and jatuh....dia pun xingat jatuh camne...tp aku tgk cam teruk le...sbb mata dia sampai lebam and bengkak...then tgn dia terseliuh sampai xle nak angkat....
Aku : soh le adik pujuk (adik is da youngest child and acik's favorite among all...acik dah jaga dia dr dia newborn sampai le bdk tuh dah darjah 2...just imagine how long she has been working there....)
Mak Anjang : xpe le...bebdk tu pun dah besa...acik xde pun xpe....(bunyik cam majuk je...huhu)
Aku : nnt sape nak jaga bebdk tuh??
Mak Anjang : anjang ade...opah pun ade....so kamu kene carik le tpt nak pantang.....
Aku : tuler...nak pantang kat ipoh dgn K Linda, dia ckp dia pun blum dpt maid lg...

after that, i called K Linda....told her bout situasi nie le...peh tuh k linda kata maid tuh xkompom lg...sbb stock maid yg ade nie tgh cam saiko...bole plak gado sesama derang...huhu....then aku ckp, xpe le...sbb kat KL nie ade mak bidan yg dtg hari or stay in dgn kita....dia jaga semua skalik....dr masak, betungku, mandikan kita and mandikan baby.....then K Linda ckp, xpe le...pantang jele kat Ipoh.....

ptg tuh plak, abang call....abg aku nie cam tetau jerk...huhu....walaupun sebenanyer dia call sbb benda lain....then aku cite kat dia pasal acik nak balik Indon...then dia kt pantang jele kat umah dia ngan K Linda....huhu...sayang abg aku....pehtuh aku ckp, K Linda kata maid pun xkompom lg....then abg kata, next week InsyaAllah kompom....agent maid nie plak nasib baek le mak's best fren...

mlm smlm setelah bebincang ngan Mr Hubby....walaupun dia ade gak melemparkan idea yg tak bernas and tak membantu sgt....huhu.....ade ke dia soh aku pantang kat umah pah (bapak's mother)??? aku ckp org tua tuh nak bejln pun dah tak larat sgt....then dia ckp wan (bapak's younger sister who has never been married...and she's older than mak) kan ade...aku ckp, "giler ker...i nie bukan her fav niece..." so dia kata, xpe le...pantang jele kat Ipoh umah K Linda...aku cam xnak pantang kat ipoh memula dolu sbb aku nak mr hubby ade setiap hari melihat perkembangan dan tumbesaran anak dia....lgpun kalo hemsem boy nie cam terberak ker...termuntah ke...bole le soh dia cucikan...muahahaha.....lgpun sian le dia nak balik every week....dia ckp dia balik le Ipoh ptg pas keje naik train or bus...then ahad ptg balik kl balik....huhuhu....macam ye dia nak naik public transport le kan??? then aku decide pantang kat ipoh pun maybe 2 weeks jerk....after that balik le umah sendirik....

then aku cam menyuarakan le, nape mama (MIL) xnak pun offer jaga i masa pantang?? mama tak sayang kat i ke?? diam cam xde jawapan...then dia tanya, "u nak ke pantang kat Seremban"...then aku jawap, "i pun mmg xnak"....mn aku nak dok weih??? umah tuh kan besepah and serabut....bilik pun xde...xkan aku nak dok kat hall jerk....?? lgpun xkan le mentua aku yg dok keje shift tuh nak masakkan tuk aku kan?? its just the courtessy of asking and offering...sbb akak ipar pz dolu tuh, ade jerk mak bapak..and mak dia suri rumah tangga lg...tp dia pantang kat seremban....hurm....then aku ckp, "Kalo ade mak mesti tak susah kan?? mak dolu siap jaga menantu dia 2 org".....