Valetine....

yesterday we watched our 1st movie together as a hubby and wifey.....we did watched movie after our wed, but that was wif my mom's foster kids...so, yesterday was our 1st movie date as hubby and wifey....

the movie dat we watched was Valentine's Day....the movie was nice....it's funny and of course i cried..during which part i can't remember....i kan ratu air mata....it's romantic, funny and entertaining.....


so, on 14th Feb of every year, everyone's celebrating Valentine, but we...celebrate our anniversary....


after the movie i asked hubby, "wut did we do during valentine??" he replied wif a smile "we got married on valentine..."

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Mrs Feezie-to-be is Mrs Feezie now.....

yeler leha......
since ko pun dah insist kan....aku pun mengupdate le....nak update citer ke gamba??
aku update event le kan...since itu hari pun ko dah mintak itinerary...

13th Feb 2010 (Saturday)

that nite was Malam Berinai Kecil....just maself jerk yg bersanding mlm tuh sbb blum ade pizi....i wore my pink kebaya songket which i made for bancik'2 wedding 2 years back...wah...maknanyer badan aku mantain le kan???muahahaha.....and....hari nie sy kene period....hahahaha....

Pengantin yg mmg tak dok diam....

14th Feb 2010 (Sunday)
giler ler...kol 7 pagi aku dah bangun....pasang cadar tuk wedding....tgh dok mandi, skalik Kak Kema (mak andam) dah ketuk pintu bilik air....soh cepat...huhuhu....terus mekap....then pakai baju nikah which the button yg kat tgn tuh tersgt le susahnyer nak pakai....kene gently coz senang tanggal benang dia....pas siap semua turun breakfast...lapo tuh...kalo tak mkn, mau time tgh menikah tuh aku pengsan....then, sempat le tgk final preparation of the hantaran...then bg pendrive my selected songs to be played during the wedding kat DJ which she didn't even play it...bole plak dia gi pasang lagu2 cinta melayu yg mengarut-ngarut dan sgt tak suka....then dia bole plak nak membebel-bebel...pasang lagu je sudah le...nie bukan station radio ok....

10:00 am - nikah
9:30 naek atas balik tuk standby bile pengantin laki dtg....i was not nervous, excited or freak out at all...ma feeling is just normal...biasa..xde perasan....lin (my bride's maid) and fatin (mak andam's daughter) yg teman aku kat dlm bilik pengantin tuh....it's almost 10 and encik tunang tak sampai lagik...aku setat le nak membebel...tetibe kak na (my younger cousin sister) ckp, "kak amy, makwe panggil turun"....huh??!!skalik pengantin dah sampai....at 1st i was supposed to sit on the pelamin, tetibe dok kat 2nd living hall....pelamin tuh jadik tpt encik tunang nak solat plak....pengantin and all the family dah dok relaks dah pun....peringatan!!! seelok-eloknyer nikah le kat masjid, kalo nak nikah kat umah pun, dok le dkt ngan kadi.....reason........kalo dok jauh dr kadi, masa khutbah nikah tuh, sepatah haram pun ko xkan dengar....sbb, mcm my situation...tgh dok nak pay attention to the khutbah tetibe, "amy, mak dia yg mana satu?"..."amy, mn satu adik dia?"..."amy, yg pakai baju hijau tuh sape?"....isk, rasa cam nak soh jerk kowang dok diam and dengar khutbah tuh ok....soooo, kesimpulannyer, sepatah haram pun aku tak dengar khutbah....which the hukum is harus for the brides....

ini adalah contoh distraction masa nak dengar khutbah..huhu....

org diam bile tgh nak akad jerk....time menunggu nie baru le perasaan nervous dtg....nervous, takut, nak nangis...semua ade....dengan satu lafaz, Alhamdulillah aku sah jadik Puan Amiriah or Mrs Feezie....and, as expected, air mata pun berjuraian.....huhuhu....

kami dinikahkan oleh my own brother..which i insist....

saat dimana doa paling dimakbulkan...Insyaallah....

Saat memilukan when it's time for your mother to finally let go of her lil gurl to someone else....

wif mom in-law...

Nie plak xtau ape kes...he said he was overwhelmed coz this is the 1st time he hugged his papa...

jaga anak mak bebaik...tetaip tahun raya balik ipoh tau....

the 2 mothers meet...

skang mak dah bagik pegang2 tgn...so pegang le...meh mak tolong...

we're hubby and wifey....

The hantaran...my concept is flowers and his concept is leaves...

story on reception will be updated later...ckit-ckit erk leha....

I'm Mrs Feezie....

Alhamdulillah....
everything went well yesterday....

I'm Mrs Mohd Hafeezie Nazreen skang.....

everything will be uploaded later...

tungguu........................!!!!!

LUSA???!!!!!

lusa ker??? betul ker??hari nie dah 12 feb?? salah calendar kot...kalendar nie silap kire....patutnyer hari nie baru 1 January....huhuhu...macam tak caya jerk...in 2 days time, i'll be Mrs Hafeezie....

no more mak lil gurl....and no more bancik and abang lil sister....dah xle nak manja2 ngan mak....dah xle nak merengek2 ngan mak....dah xle nak tido ngan mak...isk...isk.... dah xle nak manja2 ngan bancik and abg...xle nak soh derang buat memacam dah....no more my family lil gurl...i am a very manja child....i've been the only daughter and i'm the youngest....i didn't realize that i was manja until feezie says i am when he came back a few time to our house...and not only him, Ellia, my besties for 14 years, who knows me as an independent gurl, garang and strict, admit that i'm manja with my mak.....dunno....for me biasa jerk....they said the way i talk, the way i call mak and the way mak treat me....huhu....

aku dah besar rupenyer....dah dewasa...i'm a lady now....time flies really fast....yesterday i was someone's lil daughter and lil sister...and now, i'm going to be someone's wifey....more responsibilities, more toleration, more give and take, no more thinking bout myself, no more care less......will i be the wife who'll open a door to heaven for my husband?? or be a wife who'll drag my husband to hell???

will i be a gud wife??will i make my husband hepi?? will he still love me till the rest of our lives?? will i??? only time will tell....sanggupkah aku beraya selain dari dgn my family??without mak around??? i once had a dream, 1st raya kat umah feezie, and i cried da whole day....xnak!!xnak!! nak raya ngan mak tetiap tahun...nak ade dgn mak on morning of every raya...as long as she still lives...now, i will move to another house...syurga bukan lagi bawah tapak kaki mak...

how i wish my dad will be here...how i wish my dad yg akan nikahkan aku...but things happened as it is...that's Allah promises....maybe if my dad is still around, i won't even met fizi...everything happens for a reason.....

"Ya Allah ya tuhanku, ko jadikanlah majlis ku ini majlis yang sempurna, diberkati dan dirahmati olehMu ya Allah...ko berikanlah kesenangan, keselesaan dan kegembiraan pada para hadirin, kaum keluarga, sanak saudara, jiran tetangga dan semua yang hadir dan menjayakan majlis ini Ya Allah...Ya Allah, ko jadikanlah hari tersebut cerah, selesa dan tidak hujan...ko jadikanlah para hadirin yang datang pulang dengan kesenangan dan kegembiraan...Ya Allah ya tuhan ku, sesungguhnya ko maha pengasih dan maha penyayang...Engkau maha memahami dan maha mengetahui.... "

this might be my last post as a single lady...but one thing for sure, i will always be mak's lil gurl and abang and bancik lil sister....

Rumah le Pulok

at first, akad nikah was planned to be at masjid...the masjid is so near...usually we just walk to masjid...but when i went tru my personal calendar, on 14th since december, i'm in the middle of my menstrual...hurrmm....

as i mentioned before, ustaz kat opis aku ckp, bole jerk nak masuk masjid...tp, during the Jiranita (jiran2 wanita-it's a group of ladies neighbours who will be committee during any wedding in our neighbourhood. tp skang their husbands pun dah join) meeting, pak aji-pak aji tuh semua kata, nikah jele kat umah.....

so................my nikah will be at home....as wut i wish the 1st time....tp encik tunang nak kat masjid...sbb kadar ke-nevous-san dia akan kurang kalo kat masjid...sbb org macam tak ramai compared to kat umah....and nak menambahkan lagi kenevousan encik tunang, Haji Zakaria, one of my neighbour, tanya if the PA system can be set early in the morning..."bole le masa dia akad tuh, jiran tetangga denga".....muahahaha....mari gelak beramai-ramai....mmg pengsan le encik tunang... even time dgn family aku jerk pun doa mkn bole jadik doa penerang hati....huhuhu....tp xpe, encik tunang nie dia jenis yg "be cool".....dia kata kalo dia nrevous and kadi tanya memacam, dia nak bebuat pengsan...

and bancik dah call kadi pun tadi (macam pantun plak) and kadi kata no hal...bole aja....
then majlis khatam quran xde le....the nite before will only be majlis berinai kecik jele...lagi pun masa aku khatam quran darjah 6 dolu pun dah meriah ngalahkan kenduri kawen...siap ade pelamin, videographer, khemah and memacam le...so this time around, xyah le kot...masa berinai tuh pakai baju kebaya songket pink raya 2 thn lepas jerk...muahahaha....kedekut kan???
bukan kedekut, aku kan budget wedding...baju tuh pun elok jerk...cume tak sure muat lg ke tak...huhu...and.......................... i've lost 6 kilos....yehaaaa!!!!!!patut le org ckp i dah kurus....and nak memuaskan hati aku, aku beli penimbang kat ikea itu hari...and bawak balik ipoh...sbb penimbang mak kat umah nie cam spero ckit...

Tak rasa pun....

bile dah balik ipoh nie...tak rasa pun cam nak kawen...xde perasaan pun...tak terpikir pun...
just doing planned tasks and household and house chores...padahal lg 3 days...3 small and short days....

nape erk???tak rasa nervous..tak rasa takut...rasa buhsan and malas jerk...huhu....
and macam xtau sgt nak buat per....

last monday dah pegi beli limau mandarin to put in the favors bags...amik bunga pahar...beli sweets and candy for kids favors....mlm tuh bungkus...just buat 150 jerk...td dah potong wishes card...laminate direction....ape lg jerk nak buat erk???

mak andam dtg sok hanta brg hantaran and pasang pelamin and bilik tido punyer deco....langsir esok baru bole pasang lepas doa selamat...jemaat pegi kl amik cupcakes and wedding cake....wut else??mcm xbnyk benda jerk nak buat...

baju nikah kat dobi nnt bancik amikkan...baju feezi gi alter pun nnt bancik amikkan...permit khemah pun dah buat....yes and finally dapat kompang...abang (my eldest brother) who supposed to find...we agreed to assigned him during the 2nd miting...aku nie jenis yg very straight and strict...when i ask u, can u do it??without hesitation i'll expect the answer either yes or no....no maybe...if u can't do it, say u can't...jgn macam u just say yes sbb nak jaga hati aku..no!!there's no such thing...most of you already know that i'm strict... so, nasib baek last monday, i sms sai and request kompang tel no...i called them that very same nite...and Alhamdulillah dpt...and it's just RM250.00 murah RM50 le dr wut ppl said...tp xde rebana...it's okay...as long as ade kompang....

nape mcm xde benda nak buat nie???siap bole dok ngadap blog and facebook....pelik...pelik....are everything done or aku jerk yg mcm dah xtau nak buat per???kompius....i'm worried coz i dunno wut else to do??hurmmm....

Laaa...How Could I Forgot....

laaa......after buying, preparing and listing all the things needed, and to do towards and on my wedding day....one most important thing i have forgotten......

SHOES!!!!!

mine and encik tunang's shoes to be worn on our wedding day....itu bole lupe...smlm masa aku dok tgk blog org, dia ade satu posting tuh bout shoes she wanted to wear on her wedding day, then only it trigger in my head that, WE HAVEN'T BOUGHT shoes for me and encik tunang....

how could i have forgotten the most essential thing....so yesterday we went for shoe hunting at Sunway Pyramid....we only managed to buy da groom's shoes.....itu pun beli bata jerk...coz nak pakai one time only.....and me, headed to Vincci, but none come to my interest....so pegi charles & keith...one found one shoes that is so damn gorgeous....tp mahal le pulok kan?? RM200.00 kay...and it's not even leather....

so today, went for shoe hunting lagik kat OU during lunch....and found this lovely shoes at Vincci....clearly Vincci in Sunway have not much choices compared to one in OU.....it's simple yet classy...my mak andam said, "xyah beli yg cantek2...nnt kasut tuh tenggelam sbb amy nnt dah cantek"...huhuhuhu....true, true, true...ckp ipin dlm Upin& Ipin kat disney Channel....and the shoes is to be worn during akad nikah, which it will be left outside of the mosque...huhuhuh...kalo amik gamba kat luar semejid jerk baru pakai kasut tuh...and this is the shoe...dpt 20% discount...

Adat VS Agama

1) Choose the right partner:
men can choose women because of their wealth, position, beauty and agama,if utamakan the agama, thus u will profit from it' hadith bukhari and Muslim.
as for the women, if comes a guy with good iman and akhlak, then marry him' hadith tarmidzi, hadis hasan(baik) menurut al-Albaniy.

2) Akad nikah Venue
Paling afdal is in Masjid (but take note that women in mentruation(inclusive of bride and guests) are not allowed in the praying area, corridor/hall is allowed though). 'pukullah kompang' Hadis Hassan and Tarmidzi
but i asked mak and ustaz here in my office (yes, my colleagues are ustazs)...they said, nowdays we have technology (pad)...before, we were not allowed to sit in the praying area coz of the consequences of leaking...

3) No such thing as hantaran is WAJIB...
so yes if u dont hv enuff money ITS OK not to have hantaran. If ada rezeki by all means (but don't forget to be humble because we if niat to riya', riya' hukum is syirik. The only thing that is WAJIB in nikah is the MAHAR(mas kahwin) firman Allah SWT in surrah al nisaa ayat no 4.(refer to alquran). the amount of the mas kahwin is determined by both the future bride and grooms family. The less burden the guy gets from collecting the mahar, the more Allah s.w.t will berkat the marriage, (refer to hadith sahih Iman Ahmad) also (hadith muslim, al-hakim, & ibnu Majah :- 'sebaik-baik mas kahwin ialah mas kahwin yang paling mudah dan ringan'
that was my intention...not to have a hantaran at first...but after a few argument wif mak, we decided to letak da amount RM5k...but on da engagement day, tetibe ade plak org yg menyampuk RM8k...so...RM8k it will be...

4) Favours during nikah,
Rasullulah SAW galakkan us to give out manisan ex:dates(kurma) during the nikah..i gave cupcakes...ok la kan??

5) Isytiharkan ur nikah
kepada as many poeple as you can, so we dont create any fitnah....that's why i'm having a majlis bersanding....

6) Majlis walimah,
in Islam it says that 'adakanlah majlis walimah walaupun dengan seekor kambing' (hadith muslim) clearly here shows that even those who don't have that much money still can afford to get married. & yes, for those with more rezeki, having wedding in hotels, halls, is still allowed in Islam, as long as your niat is not to menunjuk-nunjuk, Para tetamu has both the rich and the poor.
'Rasulullah SAW says:- the worst of walimah is those who only invited the rich, and forgetting the poor' hadith bukhari and Muslim.
And hindarkan segala adat yang against Islam esp those came from other religion and culture example. 'Rasulullah SAW says sesiapa yang menyerupai adat suatu kaum, maka dia termasuk dalam kaum tersebut', (hadith Ahmad and Abu Daud)
that's why mak kata, no need for henna...macam hindu...

7) It's Sunnah for the guests to congratulate the newlywed...
so nnt i buat yg wishes sheet tuh, all da guest bole le write their comment..

8) Solat jemaah together
Pada malam pertama, (solat wajib and solat sunat) for Allah SWT will berkat the marriage when it starts the right way. Insyaallah....

9) Solat Hajat (tambahan)
lakukanlah solat hajat sebelum majlis untuk mendoakan semoga majlis tuh berjalan lancar, para hadirin, tetamu dan saudara mara berpuas hati, dan paling penting, diberkati Allah...kalo satu family buat lg bagus...afterall, it's a family reception..kenduri keluarga....

well, basically rasanyer my wed follows the Agama punyer requirement...Insyallah...
adat nie semua, most of the time...mak kita yg nak macam nie and macam tuh...sbb mak-mak kita dolu banyak gune adat...tp tegaknyer melayu adalah kerana adat...for me, as long as the adat tak melanggar agama...OK lah kot....

Then da 2 family meets....

Sorry gurls....this is the blog post for today suppose to be.....

last sunday, family fizi came to our house.....
it's supposed to be Hari Hantar Belanja...but da money is already in my bank account....it's actually an arrangement for my mom to meet my future-mom-in-law...coz they have not yet meet....during my engagement my future-mom-in-law tak sehat...so, this day was not really a day of "Hantar Belanja"...it's more to the day of 2 family meeting and get to know each other....mak masak roti jala, k linda tempah kueh talam and buat truffle...i buat bodo jerk....huhu...

and suprisingly, everything went well and smoothly....Alhamdulillah....before this his mother is quit cold wif me coz of my sis-in-law to be....da story can be read here.....tp ma sis-in-law-to-be nie tetibe cam dah sgt ngam okay...time our parents tgh sembang2, dia mcm bole begosip wif me from across the guest hall..mcm so very the friendly....kene sampuk ke hape minah nie....they just got back from Cameron...they arrived in Ipoh on Saturday, since from Ipoh to Cameron just took 1/2 hour, so they went to Cameron earlier that Sunday Morning...siap bg buah tangan sayur, strawberry and bunga yuh....

My mom-in-law-to-be nie pun memula cam hesitate tuk dtg...coz dia malu on my engagement day she was not there....tp, mak and mama (wah, mcm dah jadik jerk) get along very well gak le...and mama pun xde le pendiam and macam malu-malu....tp...............satu gamba pun tak amek...huhu...

bout my sis-in-law-to-be tuh....rupenyer, encik tunang ckp, my sis-in-law-to-be tuh terkena buatan org...ade org dengki kat dia...then org tuh buat supaya dia dok benci kat org & org pun dok benci kat dia....puncanya nak breakkan dia dgn bf dia....owh...sgt kesian...and i owe u and apology....so sorry farah (apology kat blog jele tapi erk)....huhuhu...but now she is very supportive and concern toward fizi and me for our wedding preparation...so, da sabotaging thinggy tuh mmg xde le....