I like..i like..i loikee...

last weeken we went back to KL on saturday evening after Sai's reception....we had a light & easy trip coz da 3 of us was soo tired..tired of over eating at 3 wedding reception...bayangkan...camne le nak diet...we depart from Ipoh at 7:00 pm ,to be exact from kedai VRC (all da ipohrian who's getting married sure know bout this shop) coz bwk Ellia survey barang tuk her somenization this Friday..at first i drive, tp rasa cam dah xle blah..we stop at Tapah for maghrib and dinner...then encik tunang yg drive....

Sunday we went to chubby's wed reception in Ampang...his map in wedding card is soo sucks...demn...xpe, janji sampai and en tunang tambah sampai 2 kali coz terlampau lapar sbb sesat..(macam le dia yg drive kereta manual tuh)....Alamak, macam my reception dress le plak...

after da wedding reception, we straight away went to Kota Damansara to see our married-house-to-be which is in Flora Damansara...before this every one ckp jgn dok ctu la..Sally ckp kat ctu ade kes pembunuhan..ade 2-3 org mati kene bunuh...then ade kes kereta yg di abonden lama, bile bukak rupenyer penuh dgn dadah...and masnani plak ckp kawasan tuh cam xselamat la...soo, i decided i wanted to see it for myself...we made an appoinment wif Mr Vincet da agent...we went to see 6 houses...and da last houses that we visit, is da one dat made us fall in lurve...

it's a corner lot..dpt murah ckit coz da side window is facing rumah sampah (as mentioned by Vincent)..but that doesn't bother me at all...sbb xbebau pun...lgpun i've live in worse area..seri kembangan masa kawasan pembuanagn sampah is still there....these are da features dat really made me fall in lurve in dat unit:

• it's corner lot but it's RM50 cheaper than da corner lot in level 13 (that RM50 can be use to pay astro bill)
• it's huge wif 3 bed, 2 bath, 1 stor and 1 utility room at 1050sqf
• da balcony is facing bukit where we can really hear da air bukit mengalir..soo soothing
• da side window is facing KL..it's soo damn beautiful at nite....
• it's in 2nd floor...4 floors up da stairs....so kalo ade emergency, bole lari turun tangga..and maybe...i said maybe...i might climb up da stairs rather than taking lift as a remedy to get fit...huhuhuh...
• da front neighbour is malay and is an owner of da unit...his wife is a housewife...so Insyaallah selamat...
• it's in block F...da middle block..nearer to Masjid, swimming pool and visitor carpark...
• this block has more tenant compared to the previous 5 unit that i viewed in block H...H is a new block...

soo, i manage to persuade en tunang to agree and fall in lurve wif this unit...later that nite, we went to Flora Damansara again to have a look at how's da security and crowdness of dat area at nite....that is when en tunang really fall in lurve wif this unit..coz da side window has a KL view wif tall building in lots of light...huhu....

Seperti biasa en tunang beramah mesra

da balcony is facing bukit wif bunyi air anak bukit mengalir

This is da side window which face KL in light

DAAAANNNN, td saya sudah jumpe Mr Vincent and pay for booking of that unit...yehaa...
can't wait to have ma own hauz...to decorate our own lil crib....

My Bestfriend's Wedding...

CONGRATS Saidatul Azmiyah Binti Idris!!!!!!

last weekend was my 16 years old BFF's wed wif her 8 years old bf...couldn't believe that she really got married...wif just one verse, Sai became Mrs Epoi...and to my surprise, i shed a tears...and wut really made me cried was when i heard Epoi read the lafaz ta'lik specifically when he said "isteriku Saidatul Azmiyah"....i was soo overwhelming...when i look to my right, Ellia was also crying...nie semua diana punyer pasal le...dia yg nangis dulu...but da funny thing was, Saidatul tak menangis pun langsung...padahal we know u're da most lembik among da 3 of us...hahaha.....then after dah akad, she went to salam everyone...and this time, Ellia and me has to stay outside, kalo tak abes eyeliner aku nie kene air mata...muahahaha...couldn't imagine how i would react when my time comes....

Malam berinai..nie pelamin dlm rumah

Couldn't believe that i have to share my BFF wif Epoi...isk...and this friday, Ellia, my 13 yers old BFF is getting married too...we never knew that da 3 of us will end our single life within da same timeline...huhuhuhu..betul2 BFF nie...

Mr & Mrs Epoi, Me & Ellia..

her pelamin was soo beautiful...it was made by her mother...even da bunga pahar pun mak dia yg buat....hantaran both side, da bride and da groom pun mak dia gak buat...mak dia mmg tgn berseni ler...and she bought all her dressess, baju nikah, baju berinai and baju sanding...when she make-up, she looks exactly like her mom...huhu..mom's daughter la ko nie...

big lurve...

nie semua melayan asmawati le nie...

and da same day was Azrina's wed as well...my frens since we were in standard 4...muahaha...lamanyer kita kawan...she insist to have her wed on da same day...this is da only day dat she was available...she was da 4th person from our group yg got married...huhuhuh...xpercaya gak she got married...ade lg 6 org yg single...hahaha...

Pelamin Azrina

RUMAH....

isk...susah tul nak carik kawasan rumah yg strategik and murah....

nak kat area damansara nie...biar dkt ngan tpt keje aku...senang..sbb yg akan balik masak ialah aku gak kan?? at least pizi bole gi keje naik moto...aku bole jerk kalo nak gi keje naik moto...lesen pun ade jerk...it's just aku nie yg slalu kene kuar2 gi miting...pizi dok dalam opis jerk...

after browsing through a lot of option, i think i'll choose Flora Damansara..baru tgk kat mudah.my jerk...blum tgk live lagik...before this i was so sceptical bout Flora Damansara nie...coz one of our frens live in flora damansara...dia cam flat kos rendah....so, mcm ade foreigner and tpt dia cam bnyk mat rempit & bohsia2 la...huhuhuh...

but then, one of my colleagues nie ckp kat Flora Damansara nie sebenanyer ade 2..satu flat, and another one apartment wif swimming pool...swimming pool??? i loike....huhuhuh...i kan suka swimming....the price range is just from RM500 up to RM700..ade security, ade covered car park, atas bukit, blkg ade mcm reserved forest and tasik....soo green, nature and peacefull...my colleague nie ckp, kalo dia xjadik dok setia alam, dia nak dok cni...

tp....yg buat i pelik is, nape bnyk sgt rumah kosong....slalunyer kalo bnyk sgt rumah kosong and org sebok nak sewakan nie, it's either haunted, dangerous or xde quality...i pun tanya la one of da agent that i called just now, dia kata sebenanyer bukan rumah bnyk kosong...derang just advertise bebynk supaya nak nampak cam laku...

xpe, sok i plan nak gi tgk rumah tu...or this sunday...so we can decide le samada betul ke wut da agent claim tuh....so, this is how it looks like...

this is da floor plan

This is how da kitchen wif cabinet looks

if it's corner lot, ade side window...and most of da balcony is facing nature....cam peacefull jerk...

Salam Maal Hijrah....

last friday was maal hijrah...
soo, heppi new year to all...harap kita semua dpt berhijrah ke something better....

for me da year 1430 is a year for big penghijrahan...from single to married...more responsibalities, more sacrifices and more and more and more......so as usual, every new year there must be resolutions....i never fails to have any...so my 1430H resolutions are...

1. to be more humble
2. be more patient
3. manjadi lebih lemah lembut..which i am never was...sampai my junior at office call me mak tiri...huhu...and en tunang pun dah tego and ask me to be more lemah lembut when talking to him, not only when i need something from him...
4. save money!!!! da same resolutions every year which i still fail miserably...

when i went to one of the training which tittle "Personal Empowerment for Organizational Excellence" which was soo enjoyable and i learnt a lot...Fairuz (the trainer) thought us "Self Talk"...

self talk nie mcm something u wish to become or to have...u have to say it slalu until it become your subconscious mind....this is how it looks like:

I am _________________ (positive personal characteristics)

I am _________________ (Another positive personal characteristics)

I am making conscious effort to ___________________ (Actions to achieve desired outcome)

Day by day, in every way I am enjoying and getting better & better in ________________ (Desired outcome) or something better for the highest good of all concerned...

contoh :

I am a happy and bubbly person...

I am knowledgable....

i am making conscious effort to be patient, humble and dicipline....

Day by day, in everyway I am enjoying and getting better & better in less spending, be confident, and being polite or seomthing better for the highest good of all concerned...

just try it out..hope it works...

Done, Done & Done

Last week went back to Ipoh to settle a lot of things...Alhamdulillah...banyak benda dpt setel..

and ade kejadian yg sgt klaka happened masa balik ipoh...thursday is da last day for da year 1429 Hijrah...usually on new year's eve, mak-mak mesti akan masak2...and ma mom is not excluded...and kesian Encik tunang, dia asyik buang air besar je masa kat ipoh...and on dat new year's eve, we're ready to have our lunch at 3:00 pm..that's normal for our family having late lunch....semua dah ready and we already took our seat...pizi plak xturun-turun....

finally he came down...and ma mom pun ckp "haa...sape lambat dia yg kene baca doa.."..fizi pun, oklah...so dia pun tadah tangang, dengan penuh kusyuk dan tawaduk dia pun baca "Allahummaftah Alaina hikma Takawansyur Alaina Min Hozainiroh Matikaya Ar-hamarrahimin..Amin" then semua org gelak..then mak ckp, "tuh bukan doa makan"..then everybody burst into laughter...giler babing punyer gelak....then pizi dengan selamber jawap "owh..sblm mkn kita kene terangkan hati..tu sbb sy baca doa tuh".....
kesian encik tunang, u're soo funny and cute without trying too hard for it....huhu

Well, apart from that, these are some of the things that i managed to settle...

1. Jumpe Kadi
2. Daftar Kahwin @ Jabatan Agama Islam Perak
3. Hantar barang hantaran to Kak Kema
4. Encik tunang pegi tempah baju melayu bersama abang-abang iparnya (soo cute)
5. Tempah baju nikah
6. Discuss on the design baju for reception me and encik tunang
7. Discuss on the pelamin concept & design
8. Discuss on the design of the hantaran bride's & groom's
9. Beli favors for belah lelaki and my frens from KL
10. Survey the price of paperbag
11. Jumpe En Fahmi da photographer which eventually was my Abang's schoolmate
12. Ukur langsir baru

wah...banyak gak mende yg dpt disetel...since my mak andam is in Taiping, so while waiting for our appoinment, me and encik Tunang pun berdating di Taman Tasik Taiping yg sangat Romantik tuh sambil mengambil-ngambil gamba....

Encik tunang menci gamba nie sbb dia kt muka dia cam nak meletup..muahahaha

Muka Pizi cam pelik..huhu....aku plak cam bajet cute....

da scenary is soo wonderfull...planning to have da outdoor shooting here...on that day itself, kat our side nie ade 4 couples yg amik gamba wedding...how do i noe it's a wedding photo??coz they're wearing baju kawen la...

Finally I've Registered...

planned to went back to ipoh on wed evening....tp tgh hari tuh abg call...
Abang : balik ipoh kol bape?
Me : ptg ckit le..tggu cuaca redup
Abang : kamu balik ngan sape?
Me : sorang le...tp kang singgah sungai buloh amik bebdk tuh (my cousins)
Abang : pizi tak ikut?
Me : nape nak ikut plak. Pejabat Agama kata pengantin laki takde pun takpe
Abang : xde le..kalo bole pizi kene gak jumpe kadi. kadi nak intebiu..kalo tak jumpe skang, time nikah baru nak jumpe, nnt nikah lama...sbb kadi nak intebiu and tanya memacam.
Me : leee....nape abg tak ckp awal2? pizi keje nie. nnt amy call dia try tanya

soo, i straight away call encik tunang...soh dia amik cuti sok (khamis)...dia ckp nnt dia chck ngan siti...then dia tanya, "kalo i tak ikut bole?"...as usual, dia mmg berat ckit kalo nak ikut aku balik ipoh...then i replied "bole gak, kalo camtuh kita tangguh jele wedding. nak?"...so dia pun mengalah....

instead of balik rabu ptg, rabu mlm pukul 9 baru gerak balik ipoh....ptg tuh i dah called kadi to set appoinment..at first he said after asar....gile nie, nnt mana sempat nak gi pejabat agama..."awal ckit bole tak ustaz?"..."pukul 8:30 pagi le kalo camtuh"...he sounds soo garang on da phone...nak tanya lebey2 pun aku takut....

sampai ipoh at around 12 something....pizi tido surau wif Man & Bee (My counsins)...usually guest will stay in my room...tp sbb mak suasa (Kak sal's Mom) is staying wif us...so guys tido surau, ladies tido in my room....da next day, i called abg first thing when i woke up...and he sounds suara-org-tersedar-bile-telefon-berbunyi..."abang nak dtg pukul bape?".."kol 8 abg dtg"..so me and encik tunang siap le...then abg sms...abang dtg pukul 8:30. kita pegi dlm pkl 9..isk...abang aku nie..kan dah janji dgn kadi...so i called kadi to reschedule..."kol 9 bole la.tp sblm 9:30. sbb pukul 10:00 saya nak nikahkan org"...

so cepat2 le pegi carik rumah kadi..kadi nie dok manjoi..manjoi is actually kawasan kampung dlm bandar..mcm kampung baru le..and kalo rumah kampung nie, typically nombor and susunan rumah berterabur...and umah kadi nie tak terkecuali...so called kadi tanya..
Me : Ustaz, saya dah ade dpn surau nie. surau belah kiri saya. rumah ustaz yang mana satu ye?
Kadi : awak jalan terus, nanti jumpe simpang empat awak masuk kiri..rumah saya yg pertama sblh kanan

carik2 punyer carik tak jumpe pun simpang empat...so kitowang patah balik...tetibe dah masuk kawasan lain...call kadi balik...
Me : Ustaz, saya kat dpn Al-Baraqah nie
Kadi : Nape awak pegi situ. kan tu dah patah balik. tadi awak kata awak kat dpn surau. jalan je terus sampai simpang 4, rumah saya yg pertama.
Isk...takut dah...suara dah le cam garang...

so kitowang patah balik..tetibe nampak satu rumah kaler hijau and ade org tua melambai....ruuupeeenyerrrr........SIMPANG TIGA...bukan simpang 4...isk ustaz nie...masuk jerk abang ckp..."laa ustaz, nape tak ckp rumah ustaz kaler hijau. and ade gambar Nizar yang besar kat dpn?" (Nizar is the controversiol PAS MB of Perak which was withdrawed from the position)...Kadi jawap "saya taknak sebut.takut ade org sensitip." and, dan dan kitowang jawap "tak sensitip le"....huhuhu...belakon sat...pas kawen nnt baru ngaku...

pas gi umah kadi, gi pejabat agama bawak semua doc tuh....kecik jerk pejabat agama perak nie rupenyer...hanta borang, baya RM5...settle....in one week time, doc semua siap, kadi gi amik...then KAWEN!!!!

Hari tuh tak cakap pun....

yesterday i was bingung thinking bout how da hell i'm going back to Ipoh....previously i planned to go back to ipoh last week since Selangor cuti on friday....but when i come to think bout it, weekend nie pizi pun nak ke ipoh coz one of his colleagues is getting married...and next week pun nak balik ipoh coz my BFF sai is getting married...

so, xkan le nak balik ipoh gak last week...my mom nie plak, dia xle tau kalo u've already told her that u're coming back, but suddenly u cancel it...no matter wut are da reason..relevent or irrelevant, she'll be a bit marah....

so yesterday i called her and she did marah me for not coming back last week....marah sbb jarang balik padahal dah nak kawen nie..."kamu nie bukan nak balik meeting ker? discuss dgn family ker?" that are sum of the words that she said....soo, this week i'm going back...da prob is, on saturday my officemate is getting married...fizi plak got wedding reception in Ipoh...then how??we have to seperate la...then my whole family plak going to kl on friday...wut da??? memula plan balik ipoh tumpang sai, then balik kl on saturday tumpang fizi plak...

suddenly yesterday sai said her sister wanna hitch her car..so i cannot tumpang le...then fizi plak kata xle nak balik awal on saturday sbb bebdk nie nak lepak dolu kat ipoh...ahad baru nak balik kl...so kalo i balik kl on saturday by train, who gonna pick me up at kl central???then kalo i balik on saturday or sunday, kene dok rumah sorang plak...isk...sgt serabut...so, in da end...i drive le balik ipoh...bole bawak balik brg hantaran yang dah dibeli pun...

since thursday i'm gonna go to Pejabat Agama Islam Perak to daftar my wedding, so i give another call to them to ask bout documentation and procedure....i've called them before, this time is just to double confirm...one by one he mention da doc that we shud have, checked and checked...tetibe ade a few things penambahan...which are:
1. Surat akuan bujang perempuan
2. Saksi 2 orang yg kenal rapat except close family member
3. Their ic copy which is certified

wah, sok aku dah le nak balik...itu hari tak cakap pun....cecepat le i called HR...naseb baek sempat derang buat...plak tuh nak jadik citer, hari nie da whole day my pc cannot on...it's corrupted...aku dah le bnyk keje nak setel sblm cuti nie....damn....so who are da 2 saksi i have to find...straight away i called acik ley (my mom youngest brother)....nasib baek le aku ade bnyk pak sedara..muahahahha...asked him to photostat his ic and Pak Uda's (my mom younger brother)...in return, he asked me to bring back my 17" PC...yg aku pakai masa kat MMU tuh..yg gabak giler tuh....berat dowh...aku nak bawak turun ke keta sok pun malu...mn ade org pakai monitor besar tuh lg...nak free plak tuh...isk...

a few hours after that, Pak uda plak call...ingatkan kenapa, rupenyer he asked my to pick his kids from Sungai Buloh...cis...nyesal aku ckp aku balik naik keta...nie mesti acik ley bitau pak uda...anak2 pak uda nie dah menangis nak balik Perak...buakn budak kecik pun...sorang standard 6, standar 4 and standard 2....they can't just expect me to go to Sungai Buloh and pick their kids...aku mana le tau area sungai buloh tuh....i called mak, and told her...then mak plak kata, "xkan le kamu nak ke sungai buloh amik derang? soh derang hanta bebudak tu memana"...hehehe...nasib baek ler mak aku nie xde le baek sgt...hehehehe...

so, tomorrow i just have to pick up my cousins kat tepi highway jerk....sorry bebudak, kak amy malas and xtau jalan ke sana....

My plan balik ipoh nie are:
1. Jumpe Kadi
2. Daftar Kahwin kat JAIP
3. Hantar Hantaran to mak andam
4. Tempah baju nikah
5. Ukur baju kawen me and Fizi
6. Jumpe cameraman

Hope all can be done..Insyaallah...for good cause...

Couldn't Believe it....

Yesterday i was on MC....yeler, on Monday i went to office wif running nose, sorethroat, and husky voice...that Monday morning i thought of not going to work and take an MC....tp nnt k siti mesti ckp alasan malas dtg keje...lgpun keje tgh bnyk time tuh...so i did went to work on Monday and my lovely boss tanya nape aku dtg opis...huhuhuh...plan after lunch nak MC...tp keje still belambak and end up i work till 7:30 pm...isk....dasat peah...

so that Monday night i went to Clinic and dpt MC for yesterday...yeay...dah dpt MC, then i tot to maself, wut da hell i'm gonna do kat umah sowang2....Tuesday morning pepagi lg dah ade incoming call...isk...semak tol...mmg i tak pick up le...then the same number called...aler....kaco aku nak tido and rest...then kol 2pm baru bgn...huhuhuh...bese le...cam xkenal plak peah yg bole bgn tgh hari...then the number call lagik, skalik clinic mlm td yg call...just nak soh aku dtg clinic bayar bil mlm td sbb my medical card already exceed limit....ceh...itu jerk??

ptg tuh tgh tgk tv sambil mamai2 sbb mkn ubat sesema and ubat batuk...ade incoming call from unrecognised number...mcm xnak angkat, tapi da number start wif 8XXX, out of curiousity, i pick up...
Caller : Hello, cik Amiriah?
Me : Ye saye.
Caller : Saya call dr kad kahwinku..artwork kad kawen cik Amiriah dah siap la...nak dtg tgk or nak saya email.
Me : Email jelah
Caller : Ok..nnt sy email dkt cik Hafeezie sekalik....
Me : Ok Bye...

that evening when Encik Tunang came to visit me, he brought one piece of paper in his hand...i asked wut's dat, he handed it to me.....when i read it...and couldn't believed wut i'm reading....i almost cried of disbelief....that piece of paper, that very piece of paper....the content of the paper is i couldn't believe that the piece of paper is an artwork of weddingcard wif my name on it....i have never imagine this day would come....seeing a wedding card with my name on it....